After a date, the girl s feelings for me changed

They. Maybe you're clinging to them too much.

You try to ignore them for a while (not completely disregarded, just a little less).

And then I will give them some gifts, and it will be better to ask them out.

It must be that you don't do well, find some reasons from yourself.

If it's like this once, it's fine, but if it's like this every time, there's a problem.

Are you an iron rooster, hehe, just kidding.

Yes Or do you always want to get into trouble after going out with the little girl? So people don't want to pay attention to you anymore.

Maybe it didn't take place after meeting, but this should be the most likely. But I don't know what you mean by "they" are disappointed -- are you dating a lot of girls at the same time?? If so, it may be a reason.

Could it be that you are not generous enough when you pay, and the girl thinks that you are calculating him. Or maybe you can't give them a sense of security?

Maybe you don't have a relationship with them, don't be discouraged, there will be a chance. There's always something for you, handsome guy.

Dating a girl is the best way to enhance the relationship between the two, and it stands to reason that we have a second date, so there will definitely be a first.

The third or fourth time, if we have dated the girl twice, but the girl tells us that she has no feelings for us, why is it?

In fact, at this time, the boy should also think about whether he did something in the process of dating that made the girl not very satisfied. Because in the process of dating, if the guy does something that makes the girl feel dissatisfied and does not correct it, then the girl will definitely change her opinion of the boy. Sometimes on the first date, after we make a little mistake, the second date should reflect on and then correct, then if we don't make a change, the girl is actually in the eyes.

I dated a girl twice, but in fact, it was also a process in which the girl constantly tested the boy in the process of dating. Because some girls, they are very detail-oriented, that is to say, when dating, they will look at how the boy treats him, there are some details, whether he has done it, and if he does it, they may feel better about the boy, and then they will also have the idea of wanting to develop. But on the contrary, the girl may not have any feelings for the boy.

Dating is a good opportunity to enhance the relationship between two people, if the boy does not grasp it at this time, or even let these opportunities slip away, then the girl will also feel that the boy is average and may not be a good development object. When a girl is dating someone, it's not just about how the guy does it in the process. There may also be a lot of questions to consider, such as whether the guy is late or not, and how the guy arranged this date.

As boys, we can also think about what we didn't do in the process.

It may be that you didn't behave particularly well on a date and didn't care about the girl better, so she didn't feel it.

Because the girl thinks that the two of you are not suitable, thinks you are very stingy, and does not feel very good for you.

Hello, almost all lovers are transformed from friends, you can not be so anxious, pay more attention to her from the perspective of friends, understand her preferences, her personality, etc., you also said that the two of you are not so familiar, only the first time you meet, the chat is very good, you talk to someone every day, it is a person who will feel irritable, you don't be anxious first, send it every few days after sending it, or the best way is to ask her out to meet, the chat on the phone is too cold, wait for you to get along more times, You can try not to talk to her for a few days, see if she looks for you, if she doesn't take the initiative to talk to you for a week after getting along a few times, then I think she really treats you as her good friend. It's okay to knock on the side and ask her what kind of personality and hobbies she likes, and try to change it yourself. (Personal opinion only).

I feel like it's no fun, and the girls are all given good person cards and become ordinary friends. It may be out of politeness to meet and chat, there is no way to refuse, or I don't want you to be embarrassed, love is a comprehensive impression, after all, it is impossible for two people to stick together all the time, WeChat chat is also very important, and it is difficult to recover if you refuse.

How can there be no drama, as long as the girl does not obviously refuse to reject you, you will have a chance, the man will be willing to spend time, he will have a dead face, he can clearly feel that both parties have a good feeling, what is he afraid of, but also to see if she deliberately wants you to feel good about you, do not rule out the possibility that she wants to hang you, if not, then take your time, many girls don't like to determine the relationship too quickly, at least to get to know each other, even if it is a blind date now, you need to understand each other, let alone fall in love, So don't rush, take your time, keep up, and believe in yourself.

Girls are more passive in the early stage of the relationship, and will be colder than boys, and the needs you are talking about are the needs that adult men and women will have, but girls don't like men to speak out, this process takes time, if the man wants to develop with the woman for a long time, or take it slowly, don't talk about these at the beginning, it will reduce the woman's favor.

It all started with ordinary friends.

Maybe she wanted to be reserved.

You will first be an ordinary friend with him, slowly get acquainted, and confess to him after getting acquainted.

After dating, the girl starts to get cold, doesn't she like me staring at the calendar? Don't like you. Probably because the girls know you in so many ways.

Since the Internet is so developed, it is not difficult to know a person's information. Some thoughtful girls can even infer your sexuality from the dynamic information of your social tools.

What kind of person are you. She may already know you perfectly and think you're not the right fit for her.

<> day is an official holiday.

It may be possible to have a good blind date again, faced with a choice. Maybe the people around her have a bad opinion of you. Maybe I'm not interested in you anymore, but I still want to use you as a spare tire.

use, so I agreed to meet again. Maybe she didn't like where and how she went on a date. It's not clear.

When you first met, your matchmaker definitely didn't say hello to you and then got blown up. So once the girl is happy to see that you understand the situation and then finds out that there is too much water, but it does not completely refuse, so one is colder twice. If the first time she verifies your true situation, the second time will be more enthusiastic than the first.

After a date, the girl becomes cold, which means she doesn't like you and you give her a bad impression.

Or if you don't behave well, if she doesn't want to keep talking to you, she will choose to be indifferent. This proves that the girl doesn't accept you from the bottom of her heart or that she doesn't like you at all after the first date, so her attitude is everything. You have no power, and combined with your general appearance, then you are doomed to be incompetent.

Most girls are like that now. Of course, there are some people who don't pay attention to these (and here we mean phenomena that cannot be generalized). Due to the girl's conservatism and some complicated ideas, the girl wants to test you, deliberately indifferent to you, to see if you will back down in the face of difficulties, and to test how much you care about her.

At this time, you need to pursue yourself and don't give up because of the other person's indifference.

It's more likely that I didn't like you. After all, girls belong to the appearance association relatively speaking, and they are more important for their appearance, if they think you are not particularly pleasing to the eye, they will no longer feel for you.

It should be, because if she really likes you, then she will not ignore you like this, on the contrary, she will be very enthusiastic about you.

It's true that I didn't like you, because if the attitude is not good for you, it means that the other party is not interested in you.

Your question touches on three aspects.

Self-evaluation and what others say about you.

Emotional gestures. Dating skills.

Let's analyze the old summer solstice in detail.

1.I always go out with a girl for the first time, and I like to want to date her a second time, but girls always say that they are so busy, why can't I break this spell all the time.

If it's just a girl like this, it doesn't mean anything, it's always like this, at least it shows a problem, that is, the girl you meet is not particularly tempted by you, if you are particularly tempted, even if you are busy, you will find time.

There are many reasons why you are not particularly motivated, so you should self-examine, that is, self-evaluation and others' evaluation of you should be examined together, so that it can be conducive to your self-adjustment and construction.

2.Emotional gestures.

Girls and boys are different in terms of thinking and psychology in terms of feelings, boys are more active and expect to determine the relationship in a short time, that is, the relationship comes quickly, while girls often believe in love over time, they prefer to get closer step by step in the face of feelings, a little bit of confirmation, confirm that you are the prince charming she wants, and girls are more emotionally reserved, more shy, and more passive.

So if your performance in the relationship with her exceeds her psychological expectations, it is easy to form the current situation, you don't simply attribute the root of the problem, such as: Why do I feel that women are sick? In terms of your emotional posture with girls, when you have not established enough trust and security with girls, you are too positive, and it is easy for girls to avoid facing your emotional posture.

3.Dating skills.

Your love logic is to ask her, she doesn't come out, you can't do it, chat with her, she doesn't reply, you will collapse, such a love method, it is naturally difficult to get the favor of girls, because the initiative is in the hands of the other party, we can see from the girl's performance, she currently has a general impression of you, the feeling is average, you do not arouse her desire to love, then you have to start to improve her awareness of you and maintain a good impression, and actively look for common ground with each other, establish a sense of trust, and then improve each other's communication, And then look for opportunities to establish a stable relationship with her and enhance the relationship between each other, so you still need to learn more in the area of love skills.

Let's talk so much first, I hope the analysis of the old summer solstice can inspire you, help you, and hope you can harvest a happy love.

People who give up timeWeiand time will give up on himBrother。Thousands of peaksChoi, the earthen basket is flatLove。Work diligentlyWill, live happily and happilyLetters, upright and upright

This is my lifeNo one expects me to live.

I feel like it's your problem, you've been saying you feel good, but have you ever paid attention to the other person's feelings? The most important thing about dating a girl for the first time is not to have fun by yourself, but to let the pair have fun and set out each other's interests, preferences, and habits. Then prescribe the right medicine.

First of all, it is possible that you are not good enough in some aspects; Secondly, if you talk so much, girls may not like it, and some boys talk a lot, but it is the kind with a sweet mouth, not a lot of inquiring words like you, which will annoy people; Again, I think it's better for you to speak calmly, what to take you to eat delicious... Don't say that in the future, it's better to be formal and ask people if they have time to have a meal together. Humble opinion, for your reference!

I've taken a brief look at your situation, is there any misunderstanding between you? I mean when you're dating. You're self.

Think about it! If not, she doesn't have a crush or security for you. It means that there is no fate between you. Brother looked at the point: "There is no grass at the end of the world." Why bother to love a flower.

Let's start with your own reasons The first time you invite someone to come out, you will do something to others Although others did not refuse, but they still don't want to be normal women will think that a man like you is unreliable or has a very bad image of you, so if you want to invite someone for the second time, of course others will refuse and keep their distance from you.

Obviously she doesn't want to develop with you anymore.

1. There are many possibilities for intentions, and it is impossible to determine which one it belongs to just by describing it like this, perhaps one of the following types, or both.

2. One of the possibilities: The woman is more honest, and she is worried that after you really get along with her, she will care about her experience, so she will talk about it in front.

3. Possibility 2: The woman uses this to show that she is serious and rushing to get married, testing you or hoping that you are also the purpose.

4. Possibility three: women's psychology is injured or shadowed, which is especially reflected in self-talk.

The suggestions are as follows: 1. After reading the analysis of the above three possibilities, it is recommended that you take it seriously, do not be greedy for cheap and pleasure, and be cautious and responsible.

2. It is recommended not to be impulsive, not to be anxious, often anxious to hastily determine the object, especially if you get married quickly, it will have a negative impact, after all, the two parties do not know enough and the emotional foundation is not enough.

3. It is recommended to pay attention to the woman's mental health, and cheerful, healthy, positive and optimistic women are more beneficial to marriage and family life.

4. It's okay to continue chatting online, and then it's okay to date, but it's best to leave room for yourself and the other party, don't stereotype, don't swear, and don't hurt others, including yourself.