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The reason why the person you hate becomes your close friend's friend must be because everyone has something in common, they all say that like gathers like things, and the reason why people interact with each other must be because everyone's common point has become a topic.
Why don't you think about it from another angle, if you like a friend and others hate it, what will you think?
Everyone is a person who has a lot of shortcomings, but at the same time has advantages, think be cheerful and look at the advantages in the person you hate. The more friends you have, the more fun life will be.
When you try to be friends with someone you hate, you have grown up again.
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_^!I ask you three questions:
1.Your best friend must be great, right? Explain that you and your good friends are very good.
2.Great good friends naturally have a good eye, and the friends you can make shouldn't be so bad, right?
3.In this case, how can you not get along well with a very good person?
Also, people are not property, they are not privately owned. You're not good at it.
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Put your heart down, everyone is human, people should live in harmony with each other, share blessings, share difficulties, be tolerant, and forget about hatred!
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Don't be like this, think about everything for the better, if you have a good character and good popularity, how can he snatch your friends away, it's not a snatch.
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In fact, I used to have such troubles, and I was as jealous as you! Everyone has jealousy, but think about it carefully, no matter how troubled or uncomfortable you are, you are the only one who suffers, and no one can share your pain, so why bother! If it's not yours, it's not yours after all!
It's torturing yourself! You can make more friends, not just him! I hope you forget your worries!
Have fun every day.
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He can why you can't, learn to try to accept, be jealous of what everyone has, but sometimes it's just temporary, and in each other's slow years, you will find his strengths, and don't always look at his shortcomings.
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A friend is someone who knows what kind of person you are! Someone who is willing to accompany you!
It's not like you hate what you hate!
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Hello friends, invisible troubles are brought about by life and society, as if you will have troubles when you see and think about anything, and you want to solve such a solution.
The right is to enrich yourself happily every day, and every day to have continuous things to accomplish yourself, so as to solve your life troubles first, and social troubles, you must often participate in meaningful activities, make yourself feel not very lonely, let the society accept yourself, and help everyone around you to live like this, but also often set your own dreams and goals, establish your own career and studies, find more interesting things and things, regulate your sensitive nerves and your own brain We should also have enough rest time, often do some exercise with reason to brain, change our view of the world, treat the outlook on life, society, and world view correctly, and wish you happiness every day, happiness every day.
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There are many troubles in life, and the biggest trouble is that I have done something sorry for myself and my family, and no matter how many other troubles there are, it is a small matter.
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The Buddha said that there is life.
Seven sufferings: birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love, parting, and unwanted.
The troubles of life are contained in these seven versions of suffering. Right.
We are troubled when things are out of our grasp, when something throws our plans out of the way, when we have stumbling blocks on the way to success.
We can't control the coming and going of troubles, but we can control our emotions and control the thickness of our troubles.
We can get out of our troubles with a good attitude.
Have fun.
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There is no biggest trouble, the main thing is what your heart values most, and the things you face will increase as you get older, which also means that you have thought about it more, that is, you have matured a lot. The immediate society is a society for the survival of the fittest, a society that is efficient, fast-paced, full of competition and challenges, and [shopping malls are like battlefields, changing rapidly].
In such a situation, how can human beings maintain a balanced mentality and keep their minds in a healthy and good state? We can only try to maintain an optimistic attitude, strive to demand ourselves, and try to keep up with the pace of society. In a period of time, only do one thing, reduce their mental burden, it is best not to do many things at the same time, so as not to make the body and mind haggard, when we have a bad mood, it is easy to do wrong things or make yourself out of shape, rather than regretting it afterwards, it is better to control your emotions in advance.
It is inevitable to encounter some difficulties and setbacks in life, and setbacks can make a wise man grow. Fools are negative. We should face things positively, look at things objectively, look at the results optimistically, and plan things in people.
Most of our lives depend on ourselves, and others will not bear the consequences for us. Escape is not the way, life is only a few decades, how much time is left for us to waste? Pressure.
Motivation is only a thin line, and happiness and pain are often the difference between a thin line. I think it's important to have an optimistic heart! I hope my answer can help you!
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The biggest problem in life should be one's own desires, especially when the individual's ability to acquire is far below the desire to desire. For example, if a car accident requires immediate surgery, but the patient's family is unable to raise 30,000 yuan for the operation, the trouble arises.
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The biggest trouble in life, I think, is:
Tried everything, but never got the desired ending.
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People, life, and living are survival, and people in some barren and miserable areas are still struggling for survival.
The problem of survival solved, the troubles of life come one after another, (heh, in the face of the problem of survival, what are the troubles of life. Or that there is no time to take care of it).
When people live, they have to eat, drink, and sleep, which is the basic condition of survival. It's also human instinct.
In the final analysis, the troubles of life are the unsatisfying of seven emotions and six desires.
A monk is a person who seeks peace of mind, perhaps to escape, and cannot stand the troubles of red dust.
Some people say: There are no troubles in life, all troubles are self-inflicted.
That's the best answer.
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Why do people get annoyed.
Girls will be annoyed because there are too many clothes and they don't know which one to wear;
Boys will be annoyed by this and that because they are getting older;
It's annoying that the CPI is running fast, but the salary has not changed;
Those who are not married are annoyed because they want to get married, and those who are married are annoyed because of what happens after marriage;
annoyance of family matters, work matters, personal matters;
Annoying....The above things are not contained, juxtaposed, or combined.
According to this understanding, as a higher animal in the animal kingdom, isn't it annoying every day?
Empiricism tells us that this is not the case.
Every day we are at work, busy, eating, communicating with friends...And all of these behaviors require us to spend time and energy, and this is how life is "lived".
Those annoying things don't happen, it's not that you forget.
It's just that your attention is on each individual thing, to deal with it.
In each of these individual things, you will feel a little tired and upset.
Time passes in a second, day by day, and the "annoyance" of a single thing and a single thing at ordinary times eventually changes in quantity and quality.
The important thing is that we are free from our troubles, we learn to deal with them, get rid of them, get happiness and live well.
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Then it depends on a person's calm mind.
If you are a person who can see everything.
Optimistic and cheerful. Then there will be fewer worries.
If you worry about this and worry about that all day.
People who like to worry more.
There must be a lot of troubles.
To have less trouble.
Think of everything for the better.
Say it to yourself all the time.
I'm the luckiest.
The mood is naturally good.
Naturally there are fewer worries.
That's a great idea.
That's what I've always thought.
Hope to solve some of your difficulties in the future.
Give me extra points, okay. Hey.
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In fact, I personally think that the easiest and most effective way is to chat with good friends, and it should be okay to release the depressed mood! Hehe.
Life is like a relay race, and there is no smooth sailing.
The road is not flat either.
The road ahead of you is very rough and bumpy.
You have to have faith in yourself.
As long as you have faith in yourself, everything will pass!
I wish you a happy day.
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Seeing through and seeing through the truth of life, this world is inherently painful, without exception.
When you're happy, you have to think that this happiness isn't eternal, and neither is the pain, so you can let it go. There are 8 sufferings in life, and they come to the world from head to foot. Old age is bitter, youth is easy to lose, and the body gradually ages involuntarily.
Sickness, whether physical pain or spiritual troubles, inevitably accompanies a person's life. Death is bitter, and I have to accept the day that it has been brought about. Can't ask for it, love parting, resentment will be bitter, the five yin weaving is full of suffering, (affected by physical contact, thoughts), too persistent attention to oneself is the root of all suffering.
I know that only by letting go of attachment can I feel comfortable and happy. can calmly let go of no worries. Therefore, when liberation comes out, we can be at ease with what happens to ourselves, teach sentient beings according to our circumstances, and always have a pure and peaceful heart.
In the pure mind of the Buddha without arguing with others. Compassion is happiness, sorrow is to pull out suffering, joy is happiness, and freedom is to be at ease, cultivating these four kinds can not only be good for others, but also better for yourself...
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Downplay the ego. In order to eliminate psychological troubles, the most important thing is to downplay oneself and establish a correct outlook on life. If we carefully analyze the causes of trouble, it is not difficult to find that people who are troubled are often related to the over-expansion of their ego in their minds.
If the word "me" in my mind is inflated, it will inevitably continue to hit a wall in the living space. Therefore, if we downplay the ego, shrink the ego, look at the gains and losses of the individual lightly, and take the size of our own honor lightly, many troubles will disappear on their own. It is better to adopt the method of "going in the left ear and leaving the right ear when you can't hear some things," so as not to be troubled.
Vent your emotions. When you find yourself entangled in your worries and unable to get rid of them, don't lock them in your heart. Bacon once said:
If you tell a friend about happiness, you will get two happiness; And if you pour out your sorrow to a friend, you will be divided into half of it. Therefore, when you feel troubled, you may wish to confide in your relatives and friends to help you eliminate your troubles. When necessary, it is better to lose no time in seeking counseling with a psychologist, because counseling itself is an excellent kind of relief, and you can find a panacea to eliminate your troubles in a psychologist.
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