My girlfriend has a boyfriend, how can I prevent him?

First of all, I really want to tell you that it is possible to have a character like Lan Yan, you don't feel that you can't accept that there is no one in this world, so relax your mind, don't let your girlfriend think what you think about her, then I estimate that you will not be green by your boyfriend but by your own idea.

I think the first thing you have to do is to have a good chat with your girlfriend, communicate your thoughts, and you tell her very directly that you actually mind the existence of male girlfriends, and hope that they can try to contact as little as possible in the future, it is impossible not to contact each other and a sign of disrespect for each other, I don't mind you doing this, if you really love her, you have to try to accept her original life.

Then you can indeed take some measures, I suggest that you can also be good friends with her male girlfriend, you can try to start by meeting, let the two of them adapt to your joining, you can completely treat him as a woman, how you treat her girlfriend should be how you treat her girlfriend, and then you can add his WeChat, talk to him privately, see what kind of person he is, and by the way, touch his bottom, you can even create a group so that they talk about what you can see, you can also join their topic, Wouldn't that be great? They are all very simple friends, so why think so much?

In fact, the most direct way is for you to directly talk to his male girlfriend about your worries, and everyone will talk about it, if there is really nothing wrong, they will consciously distance themselves. And this method should be more suitable for boys.,The method I said above looks like I'm fighting in the palace.,I'm really tired.。 But the most manly thing to do is to trust your girlfriend, or believe in your own charm and feelings.

Only by knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent can one win a hundred battles. I think that girls have male girlfriends, and as a boyfriend, you have to know your girlfriend's boyfriend, and it is best that the relationship between the two can develop into a friend relationship.

Because when the relationship between two people develops into a friend relationship, you ask your girlfriend some topics about his male girlfriend, it will not seem so abrupt, male girlfriend as a mutual friend between you and your girlfriend, you have the right to talk about your girlfriend boyfriend, the girl can't use a sentence, he is my friend to prevent the idea of inquiring about the male girlfriend.

Because your girlfriend's boyfriend is also your friend, when they make an appointment to go out together, and you ask to go together, the girl will not feel that you are spying on her, and she will gladly agree to your request, I think in this way you can see if there will be too much secret behavior between your girlfriend and your boyfriend, and you can also successfully prevent the ambiguous feeling between the two people.

Boys will definitely have a grudge against the boy before they know the girl's boyfriend, but if the boy has a full understanding of his girlfriend's girlfriend, then I don't think the boy will be very wary of his girlfriend's boyfriend, if you think the two of them will really not produce any sparks.

Girls generally belong to the kind of people who hate their boyfriends to get to the bottom of their friends, so if a boy doesn't know a girl's boyfriend, it's easy to give the girl a feeling that you're investigating her when asking for each other's information, which is definitely not a good direction for the relationship between two people.

To reassure yourself and not let your girlfriend think that your approach is excessive, you still have to start with his male girlfriend.

You ask this question, and you feel so cute! I wonder if my boyfriend would ask the same thing.

You can observe whether your girlfriend and her boyfriend are pure friendship relationships, although there are pure friendship relationships between men and women in this world, but not all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are pure, isn't there a saying that blue is green? If you find out that they are just ordinary friends, you don't need to be too careful.

This way your girlfriend will also be uncomfortable, and she will feel that you don't believe her, or that you just doubt her. This will cause the relationship between the two of you to become bad, if you know that they are friends and you are still jealous, you can also become friends with her male girlfriend, and they will know when they contact you in the future, so that it will neither destroy their relationship nor make your relationship worse. Why not?

If the guy likes your girlfriend, or if the two of them are a little ambiguous, then tell your girlfriend bluntly that if we want to continue, we must keep our distance from him, and if she loves you, we will stay in a relationship with him. Actually, I like my boyfriend to be jealous, I think he loves me.

So, if you say this to your girlfriend because you are jealous to keep him in a relationship, your girlfriend will not be angry. If you're angry, then break up, your girlfriend doesn't love you! This kind of girlfriend who doesn't take care of your feelings doesn't need to be cherished, after all, you cherish her, but she ignores you, this kind of relationship is useless!

Where in the world is there no fragrant grass? Why bother to love this person! If you're not afraid that a woman doesn't love you, you're afraid that a woman will raise a spare tire!

You should always pay attention to how your girlfriend chats with him and how often you see him, and declare your sovereignty.

It feels like you are insecure in your relationship, and boys can't accept that a girlfriend has a boyfriend, but everyone has their own circle, as long as you don't cross that line. If you can't get used to it, talk to her directly.

I can't prevent it, if something happens, something will happen a long time ago.

Don't have a boyfriend? Girlfriends are all liars......Only company brothers.

Psychological analysis: Subject, hello Through the subject's description, Wang Chongzhi knows that the subject's girlfriend and male girlfriend are very close, and the subject feels unhappy and reminds his girlfriend many times, but he still does something with his male girlfriend that makes the subject uncomfortable, and understands the subject's feelings at this moment. The subject has said to his girlfriend many times before, but that is just a reminder to pay attention to it in the future, and it is recommended that the subject find a suitable opportunity to sit down with his girlfriend and talk about this matter, and explain his true feelings in his heart, I believe that his girlfriend will understand the subject.

In addition, it can be seen that the subject cares about his girlfriend very much, so he will be jealous, but I hope the subject can put a good attitude, after all, girlfriends and male girlfriends get along for a long time, and it is normal to have more common language and the same hobbies, so the subject is not sleepy and will be too worried and anxious. In addition, the subject can try to be friends with his girlfriend's male girlfriend, so that they will not be too old and embarrassed to be together in the future. I hope the subject can make this matter clear with his girlfriend as soon as possible.

Best wishes

The heart of defense is indispensable.

At the beginning of "Thirty-Three Days of Broken Love", the heroine is betrayed by her best friend and boyfriend at the same time. For women, the reason why they can be good friends may be that they have the same hobbies, habits, similar tastes, etc.

What you like is not necessarily what she doesn't like, naturally, in reality, it is also very common for girlfriends to become juniors. What is the right distance for girlfriends and boyfriends? The two closest people, should they be wary?

So, my point is to try not to let your girlfriend and boyfriend cross paths. I'm sure some of my friends will retort, "It doesn't matter if you leave him alone." Even if you control him here, can you control him elsewhere?

1. Know your "enemy" best

Every girlfriend must have had a friendship with you for many years, and you have nothing to talk about. In other words, she knows everything about you. The biggest difference between her and the strange woman your boyfriend meets elsewhere is that she knows you best and can suddenly become your most dangerous "enemy".

So if one day, she steals people because of envy, jealousy, or hatred, or because she has a love for your boyfriend, then she has a much better chance of success than others. Even if she's not malicious, sometimes just trying to find something to say, she may inadvertently reveal the little secrets you want to keep from him.

Second, love over time

Girlfriends have been doing it for a long time, and there are often complementary elements in their personalities, in other words, you lack liveliness and cheerfulness, and she may just have; You lack silence and she may be a good listener. If you trust your girlfriend too much and don't forget to take her with you when you go on a date with your boyfriend, men will unconsciously compare the two sides when they "look" at each other. At this time, coupled with people's psychology of liking the new and hating the old, it is inevitable that they will not yearn for Bai Yueguang.

3. Never question a woman's jealousy

Maybe you're in a sweet relationship and just want to share your joy and happiness, but complimenting your boyfriend will in itself make your girlfriend interested in him. If your girlfriend is curious and competitive, then she will prove her charm by conquering your boyfriend.

Be sure to watch out for girlfriends. Because your girlfriend knows your shortcomings, she will provoke the relationship between you and your boyfriend, and she will know your boyfriend's needs from your mouth, so she will shush your boyfriend and compare you to you.

Yes, because people's hearts are unpredictable, you never know what your girlfriends are thinking, you can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

It is indeed necessary to pay attention to one point, although it is said that you can't forget your friends just because you have a boyfriend, but people's hearts are the most unpredictable.

I think it's still necessary because it's not good for them to be too close.