My parents always ask me if I want to eat after cooking, what should I do?

Then you can explain to your parents in advance, you can tell them that you have something to do today, maybe you can't go home, you can't eat at home, and ask your parents not to cook your food first.

If your parents cook and ask you if you don't eat, it's not good, not only is it a waste of food, but it will also make your parents very sad. So it's best to greet them in advance.

I don't think there's anything you can't say about your parents, if you really have something to do and can't go home, or can't eat at home, let them know in advance. They will understand you, too. I won't say anything.

When your parents are older, they tend to think about some things, sometimes they think more, you tend to think cranky, you don't eat and don't say anything, they will think that there are other reasons, for example, you don't like to eat her cooking, you don't like to eat with them, etc. So whatever you have, you should tell them directly. In this way, it will not cause them misunderstanding, and it will not make them sad.

Judging from the questions you asked, I feel that the gap between you and your parents is very deep. In fact, these are small things, as long as they are well communicated. There is nothing wrong with that.

Your parents have cooked a meal, and then ask you, it can be seen how sorry your parents are for you, they are afraid of disturbing your work, and when the meal is ready, they call you and go back to eat.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world. If you have nothing to do, go home to see your parents and eat more with them, so that the elderly will be very happy. At the same time, it is what they expect.

Sometimes the parents cook and only the two of them are left eating, and they are also very lonely, in fact, they really want you to go home and eat with them.

You don't have to cook, and you have something to eat, is it a very happy thing, okay? If your family has cooked a meal every time they ask you if you want to eat. Then you can take the initiative to tell them in advance the next day that you don't eat, and it's okay.

Maybe I'm lazy, and I belong to the kind of typical thing that is better than less! My dad also used to say that if you can learn, you will be tired. Especially cooking. In fact, cooking is also quite complicated and time-consuming. Someone cooks and eats, and that's very happy. <>

Let's buy groceries before we cook. I don't know if I don't buy it, and I am very particular about buying vegetables. We have to buy according to the preference of the person who eats it.

And now the living conditions are good, some dishes, I eat this meal, and I won't eat them again the next meal, and I have to change my tricks when buying vegetables. If you're lazy, just buy it, and if you can't eat it, the rest will be wasted. Not only can you not always buy food repeatedly, but you must also know how to match it.

Some dishes can be poisoned if eaten together. For example, if we buy crabs, we can't buy pumpkins or eggplants. Because they can be poisoned when eaten together.

So before we buy vegetables, we need to understand that those dishes cannot be eaten together.

When I came back from buying vegetables, I had to start washing and cooking. Washing vegetables is fine in summer, but if it is winter, it is very cold. It's not that all the homes are washed with hot water, and the conditions are not met.

Cooking is a very important part, if it is not delicious, it will only waste the portions of ingredients. I've always struggled with cooking, and I want to wash my hands and make soup for my lover. I am afraid that there will be oil smoke in the stir-fry, which is not good for ** and clogs the pores.

Therefore, if there is a woman who is willing to wash your hands and make soup for you, you should be content, after all, she is a person who can give up beauty for you, it is not easy. <>

We work outside, and when we get home, my parents are cooking the dishes. One is because they are old, they don't work anymore, they are idle at home, and they always want to help their children do something. There is also understanding that our children work hard, and we are afraid that we will not eat well.

Eating out is always not as hygienic and safe as what you make at home.

However, some people, because of their work, may usually socialize a lot, even if they want to go home to eat, they don't have many opportunities. But there is this person, there is no external reason, and he simply doesn't like to eat at home. My friend is one.

She is actually very good at cooking, but she usually doesn't like to do it. She likes to eat outside, in a more elegant and stylish environment, and she is also very particular about the dishes. What she eats is not food, it is a style.

In fact, I think that when we are free, we can spend more time with our family to eat. As we get older, we find that we spend less and less time eating together. Especially when the parents are old, they don't have any big requirements, so they hope to get together with their children more and have a reunion.

If you really don't want to go home to eat, remember to give them a ** in advance and let them know that even if they can't be accompanied, they are always worried!

I think that when such a situation happens, it is completely due to a communication problem between you, and your parents' love for you cannot be ignored, but it is not good to communicate like this for a long time, and sooner or later it will become a conflict.

When I was a child, when we had no entertainment and no work, we had to go home to eat every day, at that time we would not have such a sadness, my mother would ask you if you would come back for dinner or something, she would only shout that you were going home for dinner, and you would go home to eat, if you don't go home to eat, there is no place to eat, who would dare to take you to eat.

When we grow up, our lives have changed, we have more choices outside, we don't go home to eat and we won't starve to death, we can make an appointment with three or five confidants to eat together, we can make an appointment with boyfriend and girlfriend to eat together, we can buy some fast food by ourselves to solve this problem of food and clothing.

Then, whether we want to go home for dinner has become the most perplexing question for parents, when we grow up, we are no longer in their control, they can't just shout to go home for dinner, we will come back obediently, we are like a kite with a broken string, fly far, they can't pull us back at all.

For such a phenomenon, we must have a certain amount of communication with our parents. Even if I don't want to eat, but because of the situation and the sophistication of people, I have to attend to eat, and I will call ** in advance to tell my mother, I will not go home for dinner today, because the company has a dinner in ** to eat, I want to go over, about what time to go home.

Don't feel that it's a bother, after you tell your parents like this, your parents won't cook all your meals and ask you if you can eat them. Your parents always ask you when the food is ready, because they really can't guess if you come back, and they are afraid that you won't cook your food when you come back, and you will be hungry, which is just full of love.

The question of whether to go home for dinner every day is definitely not known at the meal. Then when you decide whether you want to go back to eat, you should talk to your parents and explain why you don't go back to eat, they will not waste food to prepare meals for you, and they will not worry about whether you are hungry or not.

The relationship between the family, the relationship between the child and the parents, don't think that the parents will always be the roundworms in your stomach, you grow up, they are also old, the parent-child relationship is no longer as simple as when you were a child, the circle of children is getting bigger and bigger, parents can only wait at home for the return of the child, so when you can't come back to eat, say it in advance, the parents are easy to do, and you won't feel troubled.

Most families are like this, it's a very common thing for parents to cook and ask you if you want to eat, there is no problem of breaking it, I think. You ask this probably because your parents cook a meal that you don't want to eat, but your parents will ask you if you want to eat it when they cook, so you may be a little unhappy! I'll just talk about it according to my understanding!

First of all, what you want to eat, you can tell your parents in advance, say what you eat today, what to do today, parents are also very busy, busy working to earn money, but also take care of the family's diet and daily life, maybe as far as cooking is concerned, you may want to make some simple and quick meals for convenience, and you don't say what you want to eat, parents may not bother to ask, just do it, maybe just do what you don't want to eat, so that you have a faint sense of sorrow in your heart, so, what do you want to eat in advance and your parents say okay! <>

Secondly, what do you want to eat, if your parents are busy, you can also buy some raw materials by yourself, make a recipe, and try your own craftsmanship, especially when you have nothing to do during the winter and summer vacations, you can learn to cook by yourself, which can not only fill your stomach, but also reduce the burden on your parents, isn't it killing two birds with one stone!

There is another kind, that is, during the summer vacation, I often skip meals for **, my dad is not at home at work, just me and my mother, every time I go to the evening, my mother cooks some food casually, and then asks me if I eat, I answer, don't eat, my mother back. But in a moment my mom would hand me a cooked corn cob, very loving!

Finally, be more considerate and understand your parents, your parents should be the most selfless people in your life, all their hard work is for you, don't be so adjusted for these little things!

The starting point of your parents' cooking is always to think that it's time to eat, or "you should be hungry", and there may be situations where they want to give you some pressure in the form of "cut before play". Because parents always have good intentions, they can try to solve the problem by communicating appropriately, rather than objecting on the spot.

Just as many parents are accustomed to buying some daily necessities and clothes for their children according to their own hearts, the starting point of cooking before asking for your opinion is all good. But whether parents buy clothes for their children according to their own hearts, or cook for their children according to their own hearts, they often end up making their children unhappy.

Here, parents do not think about it enough, their thoughts that "the child should like this style of clothes" and "the child should be hungry and should eat" do ignore the child's feelings.

But, at the end of the day, it's not a particularly big deal. When children become parents, they can even make similar mistakes. We are more inclined to attribute this situation of parents to one-sided thinking and lack of respect for their children caused by concern and care.

In order to solve such problems, as a child, it is possible to express one's thoughts with one's parents outside of mealtimes; Try to explain and persuade them with reasons that are acceptable to them. For example: "Cook first, if I don't eat, it's not a waste", "You have to work hard to cook, I don't want your hard work to be in vain", or "Sometimes I'm really not hungry", etc.

At the same time, you should also ask yourself whether there is some phenomenon of not eating on time, which has caused parents to worry.

Try to avoid head-on collision with parents who are cooking for themselves, once a positive conflict occurs, on the one hand, the parents are cold, on the other hand, they are angry, and the gains outweigh the losses.

There are few obstacles between parents and children, and I believe you can solve the problem

Cooking may seem like a simple thing, but it's also tiring if you do it every day. In the morning, I had to go to the crowded vegetable market to purchase the ingredients I needed for the day, and I was dazzled and didn't know what to buy, so I was entangled. If you have figured out what you plan to cook today, then it is easy to do, go straight to the goal, buy it and go back to make it.

I think parents who cook every day will be happy to hear their children say what I want to eat tomorrow, so they don't have to worry about buying groceries.

The happiest thing for people who cook is that they are happy to eat, and they can be praised for their good cooking skills, which will make them very satisfied and have a sense of achievement. On the contrary, many families are like this, and parents ask, "What do you want to eat tomorrow?"

Answer: "Whatever! The next day, when I ate, I ate a few bites and didn't eat, and my parents asked me to eat more, and I replied, "It's all like this, and I don't have an appetite."

Parents asked, "So what do you want to eat?" A".

Parents are also very helpless, over time parents will not ask what you want to eat, can only guess by their own feelings that you may love to eat this, hope you eat more, and then ask you if this dish is delicious after cooking?

I remember once my mother made fried meat with bamboo shoots, I ate it very fragrant, and then I couldn't stand it and got tired of eating it for two days in a row, my mother thought I liked to eat, so I often made it for me to eat, but you don't say that she won't know that you are tired of eating, only if you do it and find that you don't clip it much. Now, if I eat at home, I basically tell them whether I want to eat porridge or noodles tomorrow morning, and what dishes they want to eat, and they are very happy. Everyone's tastes will change, and you will get tired of eating the same food every day, so it's best to take the initiative to tell your parents what dishes you want to eat tomorrow and how to do it.

In this way, both the people who cook and the people who eat will be happy, and the family will be much happier.