How can honest and introverted people who have no opinions change themselves?

I'm also honest and introverted, when I show everyone my talent, everyone is blinded, in fact, my heart is very much want to show myself, finally have the opportunity to perform on stage, since then everyone looks up to me, always say that I am very inward, but to be honest, I don't like the word "inward" at all, I hope not to use this word anymore, if there is a chance who doesn't want to show it.

Honestly, I think it's good, but you can't be too introverted, and you have to have your own opinions.

You just have to be happy and you don't need to force a change, and if you don't accept the status quo, then you can always change it.

I don't want to change, I think it's good to be happy.

Slowly start with small things to make your own ideas, learn to solve problems with rational thinking, strengthen your beliefs, don't care too much about other people's comments, and listen to your true inner thoughts, in order to become an excellent self.

Since you are aware of your own problems, it means that you are not a pedantic person. Honesty shows that you are upright, which is your strength! Speaking of introversions, there are a lot of successful people in terms of introversions, and it depends on what kind of person you want to be.

I won't say much about that. But if you don't have an opinion, there is a big problem, what is the opinion, that is, what you think is good, stick to the right one, and regard it as an opinion. But there are times when you think what is right may also be wrong, at this time you need to listen to the opinions of others properly, measure from them, don't blindly be stubborn, in short, you need to think more about your own opinions, don't think about nothing, that is, there is no opinion.

Finally, let's talk about how to change yourself and let me know about it.

I think honesty is a good advantage, why change it? Now there are not many honest people in society, they are used to wearing masks to disguise themselves, in order to achieve their own goals, they will always tell some lies to round the field, in fact, they don't know, honest people will be more attractive to others. And honest people are very reliable people in the eyes of many people, and now I think reliable people are the most popular people, because we make friends, but just to expand our social circle, and even when we need help from friends in the future, we can take care of each other, and if there are honest people in our circle of friends, then you have an extra reliable road, so I think there is no need to change this point of honesty.

And introverted words I think it needs to be changed, I don't think introversion is a good advantage like others, there is no need to change, but I think if you are a very introverted person, you must be very depressed all day long, because he never wants to see the outside world, does not contact the outside world, and is also very resistant to socialize with people, but the world is made up of people, if you resist, then how to develop? And on the other hand, I think introverts, they have a lot less fun, and their lives may be more boring than extroverts, because they can't feel a lot of good things and try more and more fun things.

In the end, I think the most important thing to change is that there is no assertiveness, the reason why people are human beings, unlike animals, is that they have independent consciousness, have their own thoughts and thinking ability, they can distinguish which people in this world are good and which are bad, and then they are very clear about what they should do well or what they should do badly, so I think people must distinguish between good and bad, then you must have your own opinions, if others tell you to do something, you can't distinguish this thing at all, whether it's good or bad for you, then there's no point in you doing it.

If you don't have any opinions, if others tell you to do whatever you want, then others will think that you should always be called like this, because you never know how to refuse, never know how to choose whether you want to do this thing, so you have to change, if you encounter something you don't like, then bravely refuse, it's really nothing, life is mine, I want to do it, I want to do it, I don't want to do it, don't do it. You must also have something you like, and you have to cultivate a fun for yourself, and you don't have to blindly listen to others.

I feel like that, it's a good thing that you know you're too honest and don't have the idea to change. I also believe that you will change your problems one day in the future and become a person who can make all the decisions yourself.

In fact, I feel that what you lack from a person who has no assertiveness should be your self-confidence. Because you feel that you are not as good as others in many aspects, you will behave inferiorly, honestly, or even have no opinions in your life.

Then you must first know what you are inferiority for, and only when you know why you are inferiority can you change it and fundamentally solve the problems you are facing.

Many times you have to have your own courage, for example, when you like someone, you have to be brave enough to tell him, only when he knows what your ending will be. Just like other things you face in life, only if you dare to face them, then I feel that to a large extent, you are constantly improving, constantly changing yourself.

It's not terrible for a person to have shortcomings, it's terrible to know that you have shortcomings but don't know how to change them. Such talents will not have any development, and they will not have a future of their own. Then I feel that it is a good phenomenon that you dare to face it, at least what you can know is how you can change, and what kind of talent you become is what you need.

Don't be discouraged, it doesn't matter if you really have a lot of challenges in front of you, after all, no one's life will be smooth sailing. Only when we continue to face ups and downs can we know that we are so good that we can withstand all the hardships we are about to face.

In fact, every human being is an angel at birth and deserves the best. It may be that we are different from each other or something, but we still have to maintain an optimistic attitude towards our lives, and only when we are optimistic will we have a tomorrow that belongs to us.

I seem to be very assertive.

I feel that people's minds are so deformed now. Introverted sick? Honest and sick? It's normal to be outgoing, it's normal to lie and be hypocritical.

1. Before accepting other people's opinions, you should think carefully and then decide, and when you feel that it is easy to make mistakes, you must observe, think, and make judgments quickly.

2. Ask yourself why.

Before doing something, you must understand what you want to do, what your purpose is, and what the result will be.

Before you do or don't do something, ask yourself why you are doing it, what kind of results will be obtained by doing so, and try to analyze the reasons and results from multiple perspectives.

3. Appropriately reject other people's suggestions.

Other people's advice is just a suggestion and may not be suitable. Because it is someone else's experience or idea, not necessarily the truth, of course you can use it as a reference, but the initiative is still in your own hands, and what you decide is likely to be the most suitable for you, remember that trying is the beginning of success.

4. Don't change it easily if you decide.

You must be firm in your position, since you have made a decision, you must stick to it, if you are really wrong, many things are not absolutely good or bad, there is a difference between them, so you must be firm in your position, and other roads are not necessarily easy to take.

5. Action is truth.

People who are truly assertive are not people who say what they say, but people who are given action, and they should take more actions to enrich themselves, including reading more books, exchanging ideas with people with connotations, and slowly accumulating to enrich their thoughts.

1. Learn to say "no" boldly if you refuse to do what you don't want to do. Once you say yes, you need to do it well. So what can't be done is less promised, there is a promise.

When you have a problem you don't want to, smile and walk away. When you meet someone who makes a request, be sure that the other party says the purpose. 2. Learn to think independently and live independently.

Do your own things by yourself, especially emotional things, you must be independent and follow your own heart. 3. Keep learning, only if you know more, you will have your own ideas and opinions, that is, you will have your own opinions. Run to the library more often, travel to different places, and keep a curious and enthusiastic heart.

4. Introspection: Constantly reflect on yourself. After everything happens, give yourself a certain amount of time to think about it and summarize it. Then the next time this type of thing happens, you will have your own unique methods and ideas.

5. To be a simple person is actually an assertive person. Don't listen to people about many things, because everyone's ideas are different, and other people's ideas are just references, so you have to make a choice simply. Buy something, like it is like, buy it if you like it, don't think too much about it, and don't think about whether others will like it, live for yourself.

First, you must have your own ideas. Only by learning to think and forming your own ideological system can you come up with your own opinions. Thinking about ideological systems and insights .

Second, you must agree with your own ideas. Admit yourself. Once you have your own ideas, you have to find a sense of self-identity.

A lot of people don't have opinions, mainly because they don't believe in their own ideas. Those who hesitate in the face of things and do not have a firm heart will be crushed in an instant.

3. Be bold in expressing your ideas. Be courageous, be confident. Every expression is a self-salvation.

Some people have opinions, but they don't dare to express them. In life or work, once you meet someone who is strong and flamboyant (and will definitely meet), then you will shrink back. If you take a step back, others may impose some views or opinions on you and make you submit.

If you retreat and endure again, over time, you can only carry out other people's requests and act according to other people's opinions.

People who lack assertiveness can go out to meet people more, chat with people more to build self-confidence, try more things they haven't done, don't look ahead, do more things, and then you can build a sense of self-assertiveness.

1. Cultivate self-confidence.

Self-confidence is a person's awareness and full estimation of their own strength. It is an important part of self-awareness. I always feel inferior to others, and my understanding of my own strength and the estimation of what I can achieve is very superficial, unstable, and completely subordinate to the evaluation of others.

Therefore, it is necessary to evaluate your performance in all aspects with a positive attitude.

2. Improve the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.

Raise the standard of judging right and wrong, and do not judge the rights and wrongs of people and things according to your own emotions of love and disgust.

3. Think more. Assertiveness is the result of a person's thinking, and without the process of thinking, one will not put forward one's own opinions.

4. Learn to grasp the main contradictions of things. To solve problems, we must not always try to do everything, we must learn to grasp the main contradictions, and it will be easy to deal with things when the main contradictions are solved.

5. Find your own strengths and work hard to develop them.

6. The ability that you are not good at but need to have. For example, eloquence, interpersonal skills, etc., use every opportunity to train. You can set yourself a goal that you can achieve with a little effort, and once you do it, you will add a small sense of accomplishment.

After consolidation, we will work towards a bigger goal.

7. Take setbacks as an opportunity to exercise, find your own mistakes in failures and strive to improve, and strive not to repeat the mistakes of the past next time. Rather than thinking "I can't do it" when you get a setback. It is important to know that no one can succeed in everything, and it is important to have a good mindset to face unsuccess.

Character is built by habits, and changing thinking habits and behavioral habits can change personality

1. Learn to refuse. If you don't want to do something, you can boldly say "no". Once you say yes, you need to do it well. So what can't be done is less promised, there is a promise.

2. Learn to express feelings. When you feel that your good friend hurts you by talking and doing something, you feel very sad in your heart, so it is better to endure it and choose to be wronged and forgive the other party? Is it better to choose to remain silent and continue to be abused?

No. Not at all. Who is the other party?

The other party is himself, not you. What the other party does is only the language and behavior habits of the other party according to their own habits. If you don't tell the other person that you are sad and embarrassed, how will the other party know that you are sad and embarrassed?

If you don't tell the other person how you like to be treated, how will the other person know to treat you the way you like to be treated?

1. Rely less on others, which includes doing things, thinking, and deciding; 2. Think more about everything, form your own views and solutions to a problem and a thing; 3. Learn more, observe more, consult more excellent people, use your own thinking to practice, and constantly summarize experience; 4. Have the courage to try, don't be afraid to annoy some mistakes, annoying some mistakes in the process of growing up is a necessary price, if it is a major problem, it is recommended to consult more people who understand, brainstorm, form decisions and specific practices, and prevent major mistakes! 5. Change your gullibility. Ask a few more whys?

Instead of accepting them all without analysis!

Assertiveness comes from a person's correct thinking, judgment and understanding of problems or things, and then the correct and effective solutions and implementation. If you accumulate more of this practice, you will understand a certain aspect better, be more insightful, and naturally have your own opinions! The habit of thinking independently is important.

Independent thinking does not mean rejecting the reasonable opinions of others, on the contrary, absorbing the reasonable opinions of others will also enter a stronger independent thinking ability!

Being assertive, good at independent thinking, and having the ability to take charge of one's own side is a long-term process of cultivation, which requires a combination of specific problems and things to do, to cultivate, and to constantly summarize and correct one's previous shortcomings. As long as you make a plan and stick to it in the afternoon, arrange one or two problems or things that you can think about and solve independently every day, and after one to three, there will be obvious changes and effects! FYI.