Are you afraid that you won t be able to wait for someone who deserves to be loved for a lifetime?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To be honest, this is something that some single dogs may be worried about, and I am a single dog now, but I am not the slightest bit afraid of this problem. Because I believe that it will definitely take some time to wait for the person you are worthy of loving for a lifetime, and the longer you wait, the more worthy of your cherishment will be proven. And I'd rather wait a little longer for that person than accept a relationship casually.

    I'm sure it's going to end well if we keep waiting.

    Why are many people afraid that they won't be able to wait for that person? There are two reasons, one is the age problem, in order to wait for a suitable person, it may take you a lot of time, but the age of the person will not stay at that time, when you grow older, the people around you have a partner, you don't have it, you will feel that you have too long alone, you may miss the best age to fall in love or get married, you will be afraid, afraid that you can't wait for that person, you may give up the willingness to wait. Another reason is the opposition and advice of parents or others.

    When you reach a certain age, you still don't want to fall in love or get married, your parents will be anxious, they will urge you to find a partner from time to time, or directly ask you to go on a blind date, and the people around you will often advise you to end your single state, which is human nature. Since you often listen to their persuasion and urging, you may gradually give up waiting for someone who is worthy of love for a lifetime.

    But for me there is no such problem, I am a boy, I am not afraid of not being able to find a partner because of age, as the so-called older boys are more attractive, and my parents will not force me to do anything, they are quite open-minded, and I believe that it will not be long before I will wait for the person who is worthy of my love for the rest of my life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, I think it will. Because not everyone is so lucky. There are too many people who have never met a true love in their lives. If you can't meet it, you are not lucky, you are miserable, this is the normal state of life, you can meet, how lucky are you?

    Actually, knowing these facts, I may not be so afraid, but if you ask me if I will or not, I will still do.

    I'm afraid I won't be able to touch it in my best years. If I don't meet it, I guess maybe I'll give in, or maybe I won't. That's all the decisions I made in the future, and I am now.

    I won't compromise. I know how lucky it is. I also know how hard it can be.

    Then if you can't meet it, don't force it.

    Think about it, what kind of person is worthy of love for a lifetime?

    He has to look like what you like, you don't get bored with him, the way you deal with things, the things you like don't have-for-tat times, you want to be with him for the rest of your life. Look at how harsh and difficult these conditions are, and how many people you will meet in total.

    Someone once calculated that there is a finite one, so in your limited population. It's hard to find one of those people.

    Will you just give in? I think a lot of people will, just find someone who is not bad. A good marriage and a good child, living a decent life. It's just not bad.

    But if you can meet such a person. He is unique, and everything you do with him is worth cherishing. Do you still want to live such a "not bad" life?

    So that's the problem, we have a great chance of not meeting it, so we have a great chance of going to that kind of thing, the one that we didn't like but have to live on, will live. That's what scares me the most.

    Therefore, you and I, or everyone, have only two paths: one is to live the life you want to live, even if you can meet it at the last moment of life, you have to wait.

    One is the life that I don't want to live, but most people are living. Which one do you want to choose?

    I wanted to choose one, but I don't know if I have enough courage. You have to think about it, and I need to think about it too.

    Let's encourage each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I often say that being single is my own choice, there is nothing wrong with being single, I like to be a quiet person, in fact, I have been single for 20 years, how can I never be afraid of loneliness.

    When it comes to love, my view is that it's better to have less than to have more. I just want someone to treat me with sincerity. As for marriage, my opinion is that marrying love is romantic and beautiful, but it is not too bad to go on a blind date and then get married because of life.

    However, I think that in a person's life, he must always show his heart to fall in love once. As Xu Zhimo said, I just want to meet you in the most beautiful years.

    I'm a very emotional person, and I really hope that I can meet someone who loves me so much that I forget myself, and I love me so much that I forget myself, and I want to have a vigorous relationship. But now, I am twenty years old, and I have never loved someone with my heart, and I have never loved someone with my heart. I'm actually very afraid, I'm afraid that I really won't meet her in love.

    I'm afraid that no one will fall in love with me and be good to me, but I'm also afraid that I'll get used to it alone and learn not to fall in love with others. After a few years, I can accept the marriage brought to me by a blind date, but what girl doesn't want to have a vigorous love in the most beautiful years. We went shopping together, ate delicious food together, watched movies together, and went on a trip together.

    I fantasized about these beautiful images and was scared at the same time. Who's going to do it with me?

    My answer is that I would be afraid, even if I was a woman who always said I liked to be single. I can't always do this for the rest of my life. I've been waiting for that person, and after more than twenty years, he hasn't shown up, so I'm scared.

    I hope to meet him around the next corner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm scared. Now I am a lonely single dog, although there have been a few so pink memories, but most of them are also an unbearable past, there is the bitterness of meeting people, there is the pain of entanglement, their love and the ideal love are opposite, often there is no good death, for the former partner, I want to say the best not to see.

    Several failed relationships have almost shattered their illusions about love, whenever in the dead of night, whenever couples are full of streets, whenever the snow is falling, a person is always alone. It's been lonely for a long time, and I'm more eager to meet a good person to accompany me, but ah, when I've been lonely for a long time, I can't raise my interest in love anymore.

    I can no longer outline the appearance of a perfect object in my heart, I no longer have a standard to locate him, I don't know what I like, I am buried in the crowd of ordinary me, I have repeatedly failed and made a fool of myself, I don't look outstanding, I don't look at it, I don't want to be loved, I'm shy when I see strangers, I'm going to hide everything in my heart, I can't find the point in my body that attracts the opposite sex, and I think I'm going to be lonely and old, so I'm going to be very scared, I'm afraid that I'm so lonely, I'm afraid that I'm anxious to start a blind date because I'm lonely, I'm afraid that I'll find a partner whose parents are pleasing to me, just because he has a house and a car, and I'll make do with my lower body, I'm afraid that my wrinkles are getting more and more day by day, I'm afraid that I can't wait anymore, and I don't have time to wait for someone who loves me, to wait for someone who is worthy of my love, to wait for an ideal love, to wait for a perfect wedding.

    I hope he's on his way to the fast race, because I'm really scared that time will make me lose the courage to say love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sometimes I'm worried, but as long as I like it, two people can get along well, and it's best to give each other a step when there is a conflict.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, in fact, I always ask myself from time to time what to do if I can't wait for someone I like in the future. I always feel that the rest of my life is so long, I should marry love, find someone worthy of trust, your every move affects his heart, and your little problems are all the most beautiful scenery in his eyes.

    Maybe I've watched too many idol dramas, and I always look forward to having someone I like very much in my life. But the reality is that for more than 20 years, I haven't met anyone who will be together. Some people will say that it must be that you are asking too much, and if you ask a little lower, you will definitely find it.

    But in fact, the longer a person is single, the higher his requirements for his lifelong partner will become, because his memories of love come from the beautiful love and almost perfect love in the TV series. Therefore, the standard in their hearts will only get higher and higher, and it will become more and more difficult to find the love of their life in the end. <>

    I will also be afraid that I will compromise in the future, I will be forced by my parents to go on a blind date, I will be forced to marry someone I don't like very much due to family pressure, and then I will be left with a dull life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar for the rest of my life, living for the sake of living. Life is so short, we are all human beings for the first time, if we can't be happy, love the people we love, and do what we want to do, what a pity. Many people will compromise with life, because many people's hearts have worn out their youthful enthusiasm as they grow older, and they live in the rules and regulations of society, and in the past, they used these rules and regulations to restrain more people.

    We are afraid that we will not meet someone who is worthy of the love of our life, probably because that person has to be very good, enough to impress you, but reflect on yourself, are you worthy of such a good person to like you? So you must work hard to make yourself better, so that you will have the opportunity to meet an excellent person who can impress you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I won't wait until I leave it alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I won't be afraid, I'll be lonely for the rest of my life, and it's nothing, but I feel sorry for it occasionally.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's better to choose someone who loves you, if the person you love doesn't love you, then even if you're together, you're not happy, and after a long time, you may be disgusted and even break down....And the people who love you will be good to you and love you....

    Take advantage of it....

    Don't worry about the road ahead, no one in the world knows you;

    Some people are close to the end of the world, and some people are close to the end of the world;

    Relax your mind and look forward to the future!

    I wish everyone in the world can find a good home for filial piety

    If there is one aspect.

    On the other hand, re-culture.

    People have feelings.

    Love needs to be tasted! In other words, we need to have more contact with the opposite sex to know if we will meet the people we love in this life! Some people usually feel bad, but after getting along for a long time, you may find that they have a lot of advantages, and at that time, you may feel that it feels good to be with this person!

    It should be a little confident, hehe, how can you not meet the person you love, happiness is to find it yourself, we should not sit still, we have to take the initiative, don't you, I hope you succeed in the New Year, hehe.

    That can only be said that there is no fate, people always have to look forward, it is impossible to give up on themselves because they can't catch this girl, regain their strength, and always find a home.

    Yes! My neighbors are, all sixty years old, still an honest person, never in love, never on a blind date.

    There is a saying, plain is true, most of people's lives are spent in the ordinary, whether you are rich or powerful, no matter whether you are rich or poor, in the end it is the same road of life and death, as long as you live happily and work hard, as long as you do things worthy of conscience, live calmly, and will not leave regrets.

    Then find someone who likes you!

    In fact, you yourself dare not face the reality. In the world of feelings, there is love and love, these are the true feelings of giving, there will be lucky people to find each other and keep going, and there will be more people who compromise because of helplessness. In fact, feelings sometimes depend on time to run in, it's not that if you don't love, you can never fall in love, and it's not that you won't change your mind if you love, so feelings are something we can't control.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know about other people, anyway, I know that I am not afraid that I will not meet someone who loves me in this life, because I feel that even if no one loves me, I have myself and I love myself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, a person's world is very lonely, and no one who is willing to pay for himself can only rely on himself to be really tired, and he must make himself stronger all the time to avoid being hurt.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I won't be afraid, because my wife loves me very much, and of course I love her, I think it's all mutual, and emotional things are mutual understanding and mutual care.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, you have to believe in yourself, you have to make yourself good enough, and constantly improve yourself, you must first know how to cherish yourself, constantly improve yourself, and you will always meet people who cherish and appreciate you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be afraid, if you want to meet someone who loves you, first of all, you have to pay yourself, you really give to the other party, you can feel it, so you are afraid that you can't find someone who loves you?

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