How do guys determine who can be a wife and who can only be lovers?

Men have different criteria for choosing wives and lovers, and they will judge who is suitable to be a wife and who can only be lovers based on different criteria.

Criterion 1, whether the character and temperament are good. Men hope that their wives will be gentle and generous, that they can go to the kitchen under the hall, that they can respect their parents and love their children, and that they will care for themselves. Lovers don't have so many requirements, as long as they don't do much, they can accept it.

Criterion 2, whether you are talented or not, double quotient should be high. To find a wife, you need to find a talented person with high EQ and IQ, so that she can handle all kinds of relationships in the family and deal with the contacts between relatives and friends. In a home, a good wife plays a vital role in the harmony and warmth of the family.

A good wife can affect three generations. Lovers don't need such high requirements, as long as the two of them are happy together.

Criterion 3: Whether there is a good tutor. The candidate for the wife must come from a well-educated family, because after two people get married, they are involved in two families that are originally unrelated, and only a family with a good family style will have a lot less trouble after marriage, so that the family will not raise a "Ma Bao Man" and "Ma Bao Girl". My aunt's cousin's daughter-in-law is from a family that can't live in rural terms, and my brother-in-law belongs to the "mother's treasure girl", who listens to her mother for everything, so that after marrying her cousin, she often quarrels over a little thing.

So when looking for a wife, you must see what kind of people her parents are. And for those who can only be lovers, these don't need to be considered.

Most men will consider these three aspects when looking for a wife, because it is related to the happiness of their own life, and it is also related to the harmony and stability of a family.

If I'm happy with you, please give me a thumbs up with your little hand, thank you.

The lover is that when you are good to her, you still have more gains and losses, but your wife is different. When you are completely willing, that person is the one you can be a wife to.

Boys can fall in love with many people, and when they are in love, girls only need to be beautiful and cheerful, and wives will choose the kind of woman who looks average, but is virtuous.

Boys are generally more inclined to choose good-looking but introverted girls as wives, while extroverted and playful and good-looking women tend to be preconceived and only position themselves as lovers.

Boys can be judged by some of the person's behavior, more of a character, if it is a lover, it may be better to have a compatible personality, and the wife needs to have a stable and family-oriented character.