Is it wrong to be young and impulsive? Why is impulse the right choice?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Impulsiveness is not wrong, as a healthy person, it is wrong not to control harmful impulses. However, it is not harmful for you to say this to her, it may be because some of her actions at that time aroused your impulse, and you will say that you like her. Now that you have said that, you should no longer think about it.

    However, you can say something more to her and clarify the situation. I'm sure she'll understand. Also, don't say that you already have someone you like, otherwise it's an insult to her.

    The most important thing is that high school students like to be in contact with the opposite sex, but you have to understand what you need to do now, and don't be blinded.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's really your fault, and of course there's a big problem with that girl being so sloppy.

    A noble person also has physical impulses, but he will never have such impulses for everyone.

    It's understandable to have a physical urge to love someone, but if you feel that way when you see anyone, your reason doesn't listen to you.

    Tell the girl that you were impulsive that day, and ask her to forgive you.

    In the future, try not to leave school with that girl again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The fault lies in youth and ignorance, the fault lies in the ignorance of love, and the fault lies in psychological immaturity.

    See, it's all a passive mistake, so it's understandable, but it must be corrected.

    As long as you grasp normal interpersonal communication and restrain some impulsive psychology, it will be fine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Impulsiveness is not a mistake, and if there is a mistake, it is that you are not aware of your impulse, and you are not sorry for the damage caused.

    What should you do now, be ready to face the effects of your impulses, find the best solution, even if it may never find you, you should apologize and be ready to face him.

    Try not to let him affect your life, don't worry about this matter all day long, let it gradually move away from your life, but when he finds you again, you can face him without fear.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, you're at fault, you're all at fault. Don't do anything without thinking about the consequences, have a sense of responsibility, don't blame yourself too much now, and take the road ahead.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Young people, don't easily say love or liking to a girl, it's a man who is responsible for his words and deeds. Otherwise, it will hurt others

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, how do I think it's impossible?

    Only high school. Normal people will say you're wrong.

    I'm not normal, but I'm going to say you're wrong.

    It's not all your fault.

    The woman is also responsible.

    After all, she herself is willing.

    Maybe she likes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Each of us is the person we used to love and the person we like, and if we can be together, it will make us feel very happy and happy.

    But we see too many people who aren't with the people they like. Because they may have various reasons, or the two of them don't get along well in the first place, we see a lot of people, and they don't necessarily end up with the person they love dearly.

    So some people may think. When they are older, especially after the age of 40, they may regret not being with the person they once loved, and there are indeed some people who will regret that they were not with the person they loved in the first place. After all, the two of them liked each other so much at that time.

    So it's a shame for them.

    But for most people. They don't regret not being with the person they love, because they find that their current love is also very happy. Because now they have their own family and their own business.

    And husband and wife can also care about each other and understand each other, and for each of us, husband and wife can do a good understanding and support of each other, so that two people can be together and get along better, so that after a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will be better.

    So for many people, although they may have thought that it is indeed a pity that they were not with the person they love before, they are also very happy and happy with their current lovers, because they can achieve mutual care and love. This will also allow them to live a happy and sweet life with their current lovers.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The vast majority of people have the impression that acting impulsively often results in a loss of reason that leads them to make mistakes. But for me, it was because of impulsiveness that I avoided making mistakes, which benefited me. ......Here's how it went:

    I thought I wanted to buy a camera, and I looked like I chose an ordinary camera, but when I went to the merchant to buy it, I found that there was only one prototype left. I want the merchant to reduce the price.

    But merchants are reluctant to cut prices. So I decided not to buy it on the spur of the moment. This incident led me to eventually embark on the path of photography with a DSLR camera. ......In this case, my impulse led me to the right choice.

    It's because I set clear goals for myself, I don't compromise when I don't reach them, and I don't compromise on these three reasons. I set clear goals for myself when I do things.

    The reason why I acted impulsively in this matter but benefited from it was because I set myself clear goals when I did it. It is with this goal in mind that I am taking action. ......Because I have a clear goal, I have a very clear idea of what to do and what not to do.

    Therefore, although he was impulsive in his specific actions, he did not harm his own interests, but benefited from it. When the goals he set did not reach Sun Bu Xiaocheng, he would never compromise. The most fundamental reason for making oneself act impulsively without losing one's interests.

    It is that I will never compromise when I don't achieve my goal......At that time, I was not too satisfied with the state of the camera, so I wanted to make up for it by reducing the price.

    However, if merchants are unwilling to reduce prices, their goals will not be achieved. At this time, I did not compromise, but firmly determined that the goals I set remained the same, and because of this, I benefited from it. In the process of doing things, I have achieved firm belief and will not compromise.

    Fundamentally speaking, the reason why I acted impulsively in this matter but benefited on the contrary was because of my firm belief that I would not compromise. In that case, my goal was to buy a professional-grade camera.

    But the goal I set at the beginning was to be an ordinary camera. In fact, I am not satisfied with this state. And when the merchant was reluctant to talk home, he did not waver in his belief and did not compromise.

    Instead, he made the choice of the right shop, although he was really impulsive at the time, but he benefited himself, which shows that he must have a firm belief when doing things, and only in this way can he really benefit.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Values are immature, and they lack the ability to judge things calmly and objectively, so impulsiveness is the devil.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    We are young.

    Less has been experienced.

    I always feel that I still have a long way to go.

    There are still many opportunities for change.

    When I was young, I didn't think so much about the consequences, I didn't think about the consequences, and I didn't do things in the text, and I was too immature.

    As a result, they are not good at summing up experiences and lessons from things.

    So impulsively doing a lot of things without thinking about the consequences.

    When I'm older, I've experienced a lot more.

    It's going to get a little more steady, and that's when you think.

    Everything that is said needs to be thought about before we say it, otherwise there will be a lot of later costs to punish you.

    Therefore, when we are young, we should avoid making some very unnecessary mistakes and think more about things.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because I didn't know how to be calm when I was young.

    It takes a lot of time to know that this can't be impulsive.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't think much about the causes of the consequences.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because we are young and have never tried many things, we are very curious about many things, and we want to try them no matter what the consequences are.

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