Go see your boyfriend and ask for help? The first time I met my boyfriend s mother, everyone helped

Updated on technology 2024-05-20
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you take the train, there are the following big cities to choose from, Xi'an, Luoyang, Zhengzhou, Taiyuan, the train is safer, as long as you pay attention to the luggage, you can also take her around in the big city, romantic and romantic, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's a netizen. Hehe.

    This should not be measured by distance, but by convenience.

    A location is currently the most suitable.

    Sian. Wuhan.

    There are more vehicles in these two places, and they can generally go directly without reversing.

    Going to Xi'an is the first choice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's good for you to go to Jinan.

    In this way, the cost of travel on both sides is relatively low.

    Jinan's consumption level is also low.

    There is also a lot of play. The point is that hostels are cheap.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think the junction of the two of you should be in 'Huayin City', which is very close to Huashan. This also has a moral implication: the two of you have crossed the obstacles of the unfathomable mountains to meet, and the meaning is profound.

    It's more convenient to meet by train.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As a man, you should walk more and take care of your girlfriend, this is what a man is, hehe, as for the specific place to meet, it depends on your hobbies and personalities.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I lived in Cangzhou for a while, and the traffic in Cangzhou is very inconvenient, so I can only choose the train!

    It is recommended to meet in Beijing, it is very close to Cangzhou, she doesn't have to reverse, you should also have a direct connection there, so you can take care of her.

    And the train is safer, she arrives in a few hours, and you can sleep too, so she will feel that you take better care of her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Shandong is good. Shandong people are kind, and there will be no dangerous situations. You can also meet in Taean. Two people can also climb Mount Tai.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why can't you reach your respective city? Can't overcome this difficulty? What kind of love is it?! Fei made so much effort to meet early. Romance is not ...... like that

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm also worried about wanting to see my boyfriend, but I'm still arguing over such a thing... It's so depressing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wuhan, about in the middle, the train lines also pass by, and the scenery is also very good! It's just that it might be a little hot right now. Jiujiang (Lushan) is also a good choice. However, considering that it is more advanced from Cangzhou, it is best to be in Henan.

    You are from Sichuan, I would like to express my condolences to you and wish your family good health!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are you really a couple?

    If it's a netizen, I'll forget it

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't stop your boyfriend from dating people, let alone friends for many years, if you stop him, it will make your boyfriend think that you interfere too much in his private life, it is a constraint, and the relationship is easy to break. The lotus flower is not stained by the mud, and it is not necessarily black near the ink....You just have to remind him not to be influenced by him, your task is to help him and not limit him, and he will be inseparable from you after a long time!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You are netizens, it's better not to do this, it's dangerous to go to a strange place.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really love her, go to her own place to find her! I think she'll be very impressed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, I am from Dalian, we have this custom here, the first time will give the woman money ranges from 100, and after marriage, when you go to relatives, relatives will give it, this is a custom! When his mother is not satisfied with what you say, she can feel it, or simply let his son break up with you, this sister is just a custom!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it should be like this. My sister is already satisfied, and my mother must be satisfied.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's good that you and your husband are in love, and the parents will accept it after a long time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It should be. I don't know how much money his mother gave you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Dress generously and decently, and the accessories should not be too exaggerated (such as big earrings, or even ankle rings and the like are exempt, the elderly don't like it).

    2. If there is any housework, you can rush to do it, if they don't let you do it, don't do it.

    3. The gifts you buy don't have to be too extravagant, it seems that you are virtuous and can run the family. A fruit basket, a bouquet of flowers, and even a few cotton towels are all good options.

    4. Keep smiling!

    Good luck!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1 Traditional Gift: A gift box of wrapped wine. Now that the Chinese New Year is very close, it is more important to send this to the solar term. It is better to use a well-known red wine.

    2 Practical gifts: If their parents are a little older, they can buy a blood pressure monitor. This one is more practical. A friend sent this to her boyfriend's house.

    3 Beautiful gifts: If her mother is more particular about dressing (you can ask her boyfriend about this), give her a leather bag. The kind of leather that looks classy. There's no woman who doesn't like bags.

    4 Thoughtful gifts. Thermal underwear. This is easier to grasp in terms of size than clothes.

    5 Featured Gifts: This one is for those who are not in the same city as his parents. I sent my boyfriend's parents to Changchun ginseng.

    6 Touching gifts: If you know how to knit, knitting a sweater by hand is very touching. If it's not too complicated, small items like scarves are also good. You can make his mother feel your virtue.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Do what you like!

    Then we have to see what customs they have and what they value more.

    But don't buy too ordinary, too ordinary.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ask your boyfriend, he knows his family. He can give you the best advice.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is not a concealment, it is concealed, and it is also for your sake. He went to see her because he had a good memory, which showed that he was a nostalgic person, and you should feel lucky.

    Don't reject his relationship, go to memories with him, share together, hold his hand and walk with him through the path he walked as a child, go to the place where he went to elementary school with him to see the frolicking child, tell him that you envy his elementary school classmate, and ask him if you were his elementary school classmate, would you pass by the same?

    I promise, he'll hold you tight and say no.

    Give me extra points!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's nothing, you don't have to be too nervous, for first love, people will not be so easy to forget, especially men, but they don't say anything when they meet, he still loves you now, you have to believe in yourself! The reason why he doesn't tell you is because he is afraid that you will think too much, it is to protect you, and you have to believe him! Rest assured!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The first love was in elementary school, so it shouldn't be the first love at that time. Asking him to meet may also be a meeting between friends, and you think too much.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it's just pure eating, it will take you there. But trust is the most important thing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Never forget your first love! But if your boyfriend is measured, he won't go back to get along with her, so what if you meet. You should show your demeanor in this area to show your charm even more!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you should trust him first.

    Don't think too much about the rest.

    As a man, if I go to meet my first love, it doesn't mean anything.

    It's good to have memories.

    You shouldn't see it.

    If you don't go, you won't be able to reflect your man's feelings.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Ask, instead of guessing, it is better to ask clearly in person, don't be hysterical, ask calmly, don't force him to move him with tenderness, let him see your respect and belief in him!!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He didn't hide it from you, and you should show your trust, hehe, believe him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Do you know that there is a saying: the first time you fall in love is the most sacred, and the second time you fall in love may be the most loved.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After reading your things, my first reaction is "divided", this kind of boy is unreliable, insecure, like you said, he doesn't seem to have grown up, maybe he doesn't even understand what love is, love is to be paid by both parties, you pay unilaterally like this, he may feel that this relationship is easy to come, will not be cherished, people always know to cherish after losing, you go to worry all day long don't you feel that the future is a little slim, maybe one day you really become, but, take him doesn't like to learn to say you, Considering your future life economy, everything must be considered the consequences, smoking and drinking all day long at such a young age, there is definitely no future, and you definitely don't want you and his future life to be frugal for the economy. You have to think about whether he is really suitable for you? If it were me, I would definitely break up with him, why am I always worried about him, it's unfair.

    You will really be very tired like this, other people's love is sweet, why is yours like this, and you are not at the age of non-marriage, if I am, although it will be a little painful, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain, you have to be responsible for your own future, who said that women can't be as free and easy as men, your future is in your hands, insecure love, I would rather not! Hope you think about it!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Well, you want to go on with him forever, so what else can you do? What is needed now is how he does it. This is a contradictory proposition, if it is you who has shortcomings, we can sue you what to do, but if it is he who has shortcomings, it should be what he should do, and he should ask this question.

    He said he wanted to go down with you, but there were some things you didn't like, and asked us what he could do to reassure you. If he doesn't have the determination and willingness to change for you, I think then you won't be all the way, and even if you come together, you won't be harmonious. So talk to him and see if he cares about what you think.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I can't find an umbrella I like, I'd rather get in the rain. Being single is fashionable, and happiness doesn't have to be forced! You guys are hanging.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have no drama, no emotion, no future.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Men always have to grow up in a long time, let it be, there is no good way, calm down, give yourself some confidence, silently keep, if it's yours it's always yours, no, you can't control it, don't always want to change him, it's better to do a good job of studying and he is hot, I always listen to the little boy's complaints: my former girlfriend is good, I love her, but it's so annoying, that's why I broke up, and now this won't be like this. Wait, I hope you think about it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    He should work hard for you, and he should give up for you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You're studying now, and if you're mature, you can't be mature, and you're going through a lot of things to be mature, and it's normal for you to study, and you're going to eat and drink with your old friends, and don't care, you can't look at it from this point of view.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Beware of people who only know how to eat, drink, and be merry.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Haha, I want 120 points for feelings, but I don't know how to say it, give it to me, I'm younger than you, I don't have a girlfriend, ......

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You'd better be patient and call him every day, and one day he will fall in love with you

    When you are with him, you say funny things! A lot of jokes ok1 ?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If your boyfriend has a problem with himself, you give up on him, and if it is the influence of others, let him make friends with good people in the future.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The human heart is flesh and blood, and the true heart can touch anything!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let him understand what you think, let him know that you have him in your future.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Ah! It's too small, and it will always hurt, so you don't have to deliberately leave him as the upstairs said, but I think there will be a day! Unless he's mature, it's hard!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Cherish the happy college life every day in front of you, remember that going to college, not only for the sake of falling in love, don't think that you are already very mature, and when you are employed, you will feel very stupid when you look back.

    So go with the flow Don't deliberately change anything other than yourself College love, how many couples can be? It's all because of loneliness.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I can't accept borrowing money from a girl who likes him Don't fantasize about changing your boyfriend or anything, unless you really realize a certain level and want to change, others can't change it!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's better to break up, such a boyfriend doesn't love you at all.

    There are many men, and you will meet a breakup with someone who is really worthy of your love in the future.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    He said, "Girls' money is easy to borrow." It can be seen from this sentence that you, your current boyfriend is really thick-skinned, and you still have illusions about him, such a character cannot be changed, because in his heart, he thinks he is attractive and not worth mentioning to you. In this way, the man is not responsible.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Such a boy is really not worth it, his character will not change unless he has been hit hard, and it may get worse and worse. Actually, I don't like boys wrong girls' money, spineless. And such a person will end up not wanting you for money.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I always feel like he's lying to you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Look at the comparison with me.

    I'm not bad, but there's always a comparison.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Hehe,,, this sister, you are so weird,,, since you call him "boyfriend", then why do you care about his appearance? Hehe, looks can't represent anything, and the face can't be used as a bank card to swipe, right? Hehe, as long as the heart is there, why care about superficial things.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Well, let's talk about family, friendship, and love first.

    Family affection is something that everyone will get, and will get better and deeper family affection, because it is too easy to get, too easy to do, so everyone's affection for their parents is difficult to cherish and value!

    Friendship, in life, is also easy to get, basically, similar temperament, with a fixed environment and time, will be cultivated, and constantly change with the place and time, lost, it will not be very painful!

    Love, relative to the above, is the most difficult to get, especially in this era of focusing on economy and material, it is difficult for you to hit the water alone, and it is difficult for you to resist the vulgar "amorous hooligan culture", and it is difficult for you to come all the way, be good at your body and heart.

    To sum up, it is to advise you that when you are sad, when you are grieving, you can find friends, find relatives... And many more people who love you ...

    Judging from what you said, you have to return to the essence of love, acquaintance is not important, acquaintance is not important, attraction is the most important thing, do you match him? Is it a good fit? Character, materiality, interests, abilities, past and future...

    Don't, be forced by the world, by the people around you, and by your own inertia, examine your own position, sort out your own conditions, find someone who is really suitable for you, and live your life.

    Love, compared to family and friendship, is rare, at some time and in some places, basically, it has become extinct; Many people are in a state of improvisation, carrying out a kind of marital responsibility; There are also many people who are deceiving each other with a kind of "pseudo-love" and hurting this society.

    Take the time and fight these in the hope that you can walk over and be yourself like me!

    Wishing you the happiness that suits you!

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