My boyfriend doesn t want to date me, and my boyfriend doesn t have any appointments scheduled for h

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    He loves you very much and cherishes you very much, so he suppresses himself. It can be seen that he is very serious about you, there are very few boys like this, cherish it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you like what you say? , you should see how he usually behaves towards you.

    But it also depends on what kind of person it is, if so, it is an introverted person. Maybe it's not very good to be around you. I don't like to talk a lot.,It's always as if you're wrapping up your heart.。

    If you are an extrovert, he likes your words. He must be doing a great job around you. To achieve his ends. Regardless of the unit price.

    If none of these are available. Then there must be something wrong with his heart...

    You're not very young anymore, he should have what he thinks. I don't think you talk to him much. Right. Take your time to see what kind of person he is. See how he behaves with you. Then you will know about him.

    Have fun.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm a man, I dare to say responsibly: I definitely don't really love you, I've done this kind of thing before, sometimes women cough and don't want to pick up, say that they try to excuse themselves on a date, and they don't even want to hold her hand on the street, even if she takes the initiative to lead, they want to get rid of it....Thinking about it now, I feel so sick.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He must have a psychological problem, so I suggest you take him to see a psychiatrist.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He's afraid of having children, or he doesn't like you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The fact that the boyfriend has no arrangement on every date means that the guy is more straight and depends on what you like to eat.

    Boys must see the tips for asking a girl for dinner for the first time:

    1. Casualness does not mean frank and easy-going. You can't be independent without advice.

    Even the most powerful girl will silently appreciate the person who is very attractive in her heart. So, whether you choose a hotel or not, try to do your course well in advance. The private house billboards you must eat are steak or fried chicken, green sauce and white sauce.

    When girls gradually hesitate which dishes are the focus, it is time for you to adapt.

    Remember, being casual doesn't mean being frank and easygoing. If you don't have your own opinion, you will question your own personality. After a highly recommendable one, pay attention to her choices, but don't forget to tell her passionately. It's okay if you don't have an appetite.

    2. Chat with yourself to find a topic, and it is absolutely forbidden to swipe on your mobile phone.

    Nowadays, many people are addicted to mobile phones, but the first tryst is absolutely taboo to swipe wildly on the phone. Most of the emotions between people fade away in trivial matters, and she will think that you can get married on your phone. If you really want to look at your phone, try to control it, put it back in three seconds, and then ask her what she just talked about, or ask her if she wants to eat some ice cream.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This may be your boyfriend's problem, does he have no concept of time, or he doesn't care about these things, if it's the latter, then it's better to talk to him, if it's the former, you also have to think about whether it's really suitable between you, if you think you're suitable, then you have to talk to him, if he doesn't like you, then no matter how hard you try, he won't like you, because a person who doesn't like you, he won't feel what you do, So don't be too sad and don't pay too much for him. Good luck!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My boyfriend asks me out, but I don't want to go out and I don't want to refuse, what should I do?

    1. Tell the other party that you have something to invite from the opposite sex, but you don't want to go to the appointment, you can tell the other party that you have something to do, and you will talk about it another day when you have time. After hearing this, the other party will naturally understand what you mean, and will definitely not chase you and ask you what the hell is going on. This refusal will not hurt the harmony, and it will not embarrass the other party, and at the same time, you will feel much more relaxed, and you will not be awkward because of this matter.

    2. Tell the other party that if you are not at home and face a date you don't want to go to, you must learn to find a reason to refuse tactfully. When the other party sends you an appointment invitation, but you don't want to go to the appointment, you can directly tell the other person that you are not at home, or that you are not local on a business trip, so that the other party knows that you are not available for the appointment. 3. Ask what is going on in advanceWhen the opposite sex asks you out, you can ask the other party what is going on in advance, if the other party says nothing important, you can tell the other party at this time that nothing important will be solved through ** or text message.

    If the other party says that they have something to do with you, they should also ask what is going on in advance, so that they can decide whether to go or not.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think I can go to the amusement park if I don't want to be so embarrassed, because the fun atmosphere of the amusement park is easy to enhance the relationship between each other, so I think it's a good place.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    On the first date with your boyfriend, if you don't want to be so embarrassed, you can go to the playground to play, because if two people have fun, there will be a lot of words, and it will not be cold.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can go to the park, these places have a better environment, and the temperature is suitable in all aspects, and it is very romantic to take a walk and talk about your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can go to the restaurant to eat, and when you pay, two people will AA system, so that two people will relax, and there will be no psychological pressure.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The most common place is to go to a restaurant to eat, or to sing, watch a movie, go shopping, or go to play an electric game.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, you can go to some places where there are fewer people, such as the beach or a western restaurant a little farther away.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. And finally 1Overcome the weakness of the heart.

    Because you like it, your heart is empty. But no one but yourself knows that you like each other. So you don't have to be weak-minded.

    2. Overcome tension. You like the other person, it's just an inner activity, there's no need to show this tension, and you don't know if the other person will like you yet. So there's no need to be nervous.

    Keep a normal mindset. Before you express your liking to the other person, the other person is just an ordinary person you know, or you don't know yet, you have to maintain this mentality.

    Good evening, dear<>

    Take your time, we can do this.

    If you particularly like this boy, you have to strengthen your psychological construction, make yourself strong, love to speak out loud, not to mention just asking the boy to come out, there is nothing nervous, for your own disguise next to love, fight, right? You can have regular contact with this guy, and slowly, you will become friends, and you will be bored and dare to date him.

    And finally 1Overcome the weakness of the heart. Because you like it, your heart is empty.

    But no one but yourself knows that you like each other. So you don't have to be weak-minded. 2. Overcome tension.

    You like each other, it's just an inner activity, there's no need for Wu Zhan to show this kind of tightness, and you don't know if the other party will like you. So there's no need to be nervous. Keep a normal mindset.

    Before you express your liking to the other person, the other person is just an ordinary person you know, or you don't know yet, you have to maintain this mentality.

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  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You may have been in a fake relationship, and I think dating my partner is very simple, just make a **.

    In a relationship, two people can get along with each other often, which is one of the prerequisites for the development of the relationship. If two people don't even have time to date, then the relationship may not be as beautiful as you think it is, but will end abruptly before you even enter into love.

    It's easy for me to date my partner and he always responds to me positively. usThere is no big difference in the working status of the two people, and when I have time, he probably has time.

    Under normal circumstances, he took the initiative to call me, and then asked me to set a time for the two of them to go out together. I also took the initiative to go on dates many times, and basically every time I called, he could agree without hesitation.

    I think this is a normal state of love, after all, in a relationship, if you don't even have time to date you on your birthday, then do you think his life can do anything for you?

    Dating is a way to enhance relationships, but also a temptation in life. Your boyfriend doesn't go on dates with you on weekends, which means he has what he thinks is more important to do. Whether it's going to the company to work overtime, or going out with other people, it shows that your value in his heart is relatively low.

    For a normal relationship, this value ranking means that the relationship between the two of you will not be too close. This actually means that your relationship is not as deep as you think, maybe you are in a relationship, but you are not his only relationship.

    If it's really that hard to even date, then why fall in love? It's good to have a direct online relationship, what's the point of finding a boyfriend in real life?

    On the premise that both of you have time, whether your boyfriend chooses to go on a date with you or not, I can only say that your relationship may really need to be revisited. Of course, love can be given bravely, but there is no need to do something that is destined to be fruitless.

    Take the initiative to ask your boyfriend out again, if he really has time and doesn't want to come, it's time to consider breaking up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because both of them are in the rising period of work now, there are indeed many working weekends that have to work overtime, and sometimes they can only see each other once in half a month, which is also inevitable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My boyfriend is a workaholic, he can only sleep about 4 hours a day for work, so it's really hard to make an appointment with him for the two of us, but he is still very caring and considerate to me whenever he has time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on whether he is busy at work and can't accompany you, or doesn't want to accompany you. My boyfriend is very busy at work and can't get together during breaks, but I will understand.

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