I used to like a girl, but now I give up. Yes

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Selectively forget. In the past, that girl was equal to not getting the best feeling. You should learn to experience new feelings.

    For example, if you think of the girl you used to have, then you can take the girl you know to do it. When you change the pronoun for a long time, it will be corrected, or you can get the old girl completely, so that you don't feel this way anymore. But it is recommended that you choose to have a good time with the current girl.

    And by your questions you decide that you are now uncertain. So, you must be the girl who is now replaced, or you can't forget the first one. Therefore, you should use the way of transposition, and discover what you want to achieve in the past and what you feel about the previous girl in the new girl.

    It's good for you and for any of her. If it helps, hope you can. Thank you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I didn't get it, and I was unwilling to do it. This kind of thing may continue for a long time, don't care, love what is in front of you and cherish what is in front of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you gave up, she didn't feel good for you, and you also fell in love with other girls, and you can be sure that you don't like it anymore, but you were a little unwilling to have unrequited love before, and it's okay, and it will be fine after a while.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be too deliberate, feelings and these things have to go with the flow, and over time you will find that the person you once liked is just a passerby in a long life. The present is the most real, look forward!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time, schedule your time tightly, so that you will rarely think of her, and let time dilute your feelings for her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Get a new boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is true that there is a girl who has been liked for a long time and finally gives up. The reason is a little helpless, because of the lack of qualifications. In the eyes of many people, as long as two people like love, they can be together at all costs. But that's the ideal state, and real life is real.

    Everyone is different, and if you can meet someone who is willing to love you and care about you regardless of everything, you must be happy. But if you meet people who love each other, they care more about their own families. It seems reasonable for her to choose to become a stranger to you because she is powerless to refute her family's interference in her life.

    In those months, I've been wondering, why can't two people who like it be together, whose fault is it? I tried, I told her desperately that I would work hard for our future, that I would bring her happiness, but to no avail. Then I gave up because I figured everything out and it turned out that everyone was right.

    It's just that the happiness of this world requires you to have matching qualifications. Even if you are lucky, you must also have the qualifications for good luck, such as the character, connections, background, etc., these various conditions are actually qualifications.

    Since then, I've never questioned in my heart why the world is unfair. Instead of worrying about those, you should improve your qualifications. Whether it's exercising your abilities, exercising, developing hobbies, learning to dress up, or working hard to earn money, that's all about improving your qualifications.

    When I have the opportunity to choose happiness, I hope to be qualified to have happiness, to be with the person I really like, and to give her and give us a beautiful future happiness.

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