I just broke up with my girlfriend and felt empty in my heart

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you can't be reluctant to be together, then you can only give up ruthlessly, time can dilute everything, don't think about it, let yourself live again, you will find a more suitable and cherished girlfriend!

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You don't have to get along with yourself.

    I've had experiences like yours, and my experience is more brutal than yours. We had to go for less than three months. The last two months are thousands of miles apart.

    Listen to me, divide it.

    I was so sad at the time that I burned my arm twice.

    She offered me several breakups, but in the end, I tried my best to keep them, and I didn't break up.

    But in the end, they broke up.

    She kept saying, "Persuade yourself."

    I thought to myself, "Okay, I'll advise myself."

    I ended up having a big fight with her and broke up.

    I don't think it's a big deal for two people to be in two places, but she magnifies it. If she starts to offer to break up, then please accept it. Don't embarrass the two of you anymore.

    Now that she has proposed to break up, it means that she no longer values this relationship, what do you still maintain? Twisted melons are not sweet.

    And this breakup was the day after you went to her and came back, saying that she proposed it, and the two of you can't solve the problem when you meet, what do you have left.

    That is to say, she will regret giving up such a man who loves her in the future, but just regret it, just be sad.

    Let go, don't be in a long-distance relationship, let go and you'll feel that both of you are better off.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't feel very deep about him, and now you're just used to having someone talk to you about love and sweet words. It's good to wait for an adaptation period to pass, and you have reached a bottleneck between you, and if you still like each other, you have to think about your own problems, otherwise this kind of thing will definitely happen a second time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since there is no such fate, let's go with the flow... It's useless to be uncomfortable, adjust your mood as soon as possible, and live your life... Time can forget everything].

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time will dilute everything, find another one, maybe forget it the next day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are good at forgetting, and it will be fine after a while!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have a sure choice, you should know that you are doomed to be hurt. Forgetting is the stupidest decision. Even if.

    Time has diluted everything. Someday, someone or something will touch your deepest memories. Forget to use it..?

    A person's life·· It's not easy to remember a few people.、Instead of thinking about how to forget.,It's better to think about how to remember whatever he brings you.。。 But he is always in your memory ...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Annoyances are inevitable, but you have to think about what I've said below.

    It is your right to love someone, and it is also his (her) right to love that person to love you or not, and each of us can exercise this right. And, if you think about it, he or she was not born destined to marry you, and you certainly weren't born to marry that person. You may also meet other friends after separating from this person, whether it is another relationship in your life or your future husband (wife).

    Also, I don't know if you're worried about whether you still love him or her. I once read a passage that said, "If you still love him or her and you break up, then you should be glad that you have just lost someone who doesn't love you, and if you don't love him or her, then there's nothing to regret because it's someone you don't love." ”

    So, there's nothing to worry about when you figure it out. I typed it word by word, I hope it will help you. I also hope that you can get out of this incident as soon as possible, after all, life is a long road. If you think about it later, maybe you won't remember it so clearly.

    Well, you can also find friends to have a good time and vent, the sun is always after the wind and rain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's good to have a lot of time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe, don't mind us.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Go out on a trip, find someone to drink, sleep with your head covered, go for a run.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is not all you have, there is a lot that can be done.

    Study hard, work hard, and learn some knowledge.

    Anything will, men and women are rare for you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The old does not go, the new does not come.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    broke up but felt empty in your heart, which means that you still love her.

    Don't let go easily if you are still in love, first sort out your emotions, and have the courage to face your heart.

    Then think about what makes it necessary for you to say the breakup, is it the other person's reason or your own? Calm down and think about it carefully.

    If you are sure that you still love her and can't lose her, then find a way to redeem it in time.

    It's not easy to have a heart-warming person, don't regret it for life because of impulse.

    Falling in love is not a sweet thing, there are bitter and sweet, this is the real taste of love, don't always feel very tired, think more about the sweet memories between you, I think there must be a lot, right?

    Go to her and have a good talk, tell her your true feelings and thoughts, and believe that she still loves you.

    Since you can feel tired together, it's not a good thing to be separated temporarily.

    You can tell her directly that you still love her, but you are tired, so you have to think about your relationship.

    You are all adults, you should be able to think independently, about life and the future between you, love should be a common responsibility between two people, you must learn to take it together.

    If the two finally figure it out and choose to be together in the end, then be together, be more tolerant and understanding, and less complaining and suspicious.

    Of course, if everything is irretrievable, then try to let it go.

    Although letting go must be a very painful thing, a long pain is better than a short pain, and letting go early may be a relief for two people.

    Do something to divert your attention, you can go on a trip, try to go to no one she lives in the space on her own.

    Maybe you can't forget her, but it's enough to put her in some corner of your heart, don't force it too much, isn't it or "there is a kind of love called letting go"?

    Life should not only be love, and those who live by love are also destined to be fragile, may you be strong.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Organize your mood well, don't be empty and go find one, you will regret it.

    Wait until you're calm down and look for it, that's fine.

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