Am I good or sinister?

This is a society of the jungle, you are a mortal, not a Bodhisattva, not everyone knows and can do what the King of the Earth Bodhisattva said: I don't go to hell who goes to hell, as long as you help people on the premise of protecting yourself, people are actually selfish, if you touch your own interests, you will resist, but don't be too ruthless, leaving a way back for others is also to save your own life There is no great evil or great good in the world, good and evil are only in one thought

In a word, if people don't offend me, I won't offend people, and if people offend me, I will offend people, I think this is pretty good, love and hate must be clear, and there is no need to be good to everyone in this world!

Hello, the front is compassion and is very kind; There is a bit of cruelty in the back, and it is an evil heart.

1: Buddhism talks about the four righteous diligences: "A pair of born evils are to be eliminated, and diligence is diligent."

Second, the evil that is not born is even more diligent and diligent in not being born. Three pairs of unborn goodness, diligent and diligent for life. Fourth, the goodness that has been born is diligent and diligent in order to grow.

That is, to cut off the disgusting behavior that has been born, and not to cause the disgusting behavior that has not been born; Strive to give birth to the good deeds that have not been born, and increase the good deeds that have already been born.

2: Accepting the advice of others, when we do something that displeases others, we have strayed from the right path and gone astray.

3: Think about it, what kind of mentality and mood do I have when I am our opponent? In fact, when you leave a way out for others, you also prepare a way out for yourself.

When we treat others with tolerance, generosity, and kindness, we often receive the same courtesy.

4: Carry forward the good heart, suppress or cut off the evil heart, learn the good qualities of the people around you, learn to be easy-going, tolerant, learn to cherish each other's fate, and try to give kindness to everyone.

Everyone must have certain principles in doing things and being a human being. You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

From the above two sentences, judge yourself!

You may not be able to deal with human relationships yet. Because it's complicated.

Oh, yes! To be a principled person, you must not have the heart of harming others, and you must not have the heart of guarding against others.

Brother, kind-hearted, not afraid of what a thousand people point out, but ask with a clear conscience.

Everyone can be kind, but people who can't be too kind can be kind. If your kindness is taken for granted by others; If you help in exchange for an inch; In the end, it's either that I'm cold, or that others turn their faces. If you are too kind, you will lose your own value and the respect of others.

Don't let your kindness illuminate others and hurt yourself. Therefore, when you are kind, you should also try to protect yourself and not let your kind heart be hurt.

1. The premise of kindness is to be kind to yourself, only by preserving yourself first, can you have more time and energy to help others. 2. Kindness needs to be rational, don't be too emotionalWhen kindness loses its principles, it may be worse than evil, because your kindness may be used by others to hurt other innocent people. 3. The best life is kindness with a little edge, kindness is precious, but too kindness is weakness.

Persimmon picks soft pinch, and the more you are afraid, the more you will lose.

Those who respect me, read the scum and respect it; Whoever despises me, forsake it.

When you start rejecting others, they start to respect you. When you retaliate, the people who bully you will fear you.

You are not RMB, there is no way to make everyone like it. Just be yourself, don't let your kindness become a ** for others to hurt you.

1.We will continue to uphold kindness.

2.Kindness is a choice, a choice for yourself not to regret and to live openly. Therefore, kindness is not to show people the potato lease, but also to give oneself an answer sheet.

3.When kindness is blasphemed, of course, we must continue to be kind, there are so many people and things on the dregs of this world, do you mind the end of the game? Be firm and be yourself, and only talk about your own heart is the best way.

4.To be a man, there must be a moral bottom line and principles, kindness is just an adjective, once the bottom line is broken, this line will be low and low, especially if you taste the sweetness of not following the rules, it may cause greater problems later. I believe in cause and effect.

Yes, what you plant is what you reap, there are actually no fools in this world, everyone understands very well, if you do something bad to others, in the end others will return it to you in various forms, which is what is often said to come out and mix it sooner or later. The mother-in-law is not kind to her daughter-in-law, and she sees her mother-in-law in the first ten years and her daughter-in-law in the next ten years, and you can see it in the future; The husband is not kind to his wife, and in the long run, he will lose a true lover, and the wife will not be very good to the husband in the future.

I think it should!

Because kindness is not without a bottom line, but has its own principles! Perhaps in the eyes of many people, kindness is a kind of unprincipled and bottom-line, who does not know how to refuse other people's requests, and even if they can't do it sometimes, they agree to it.

This is actually not real kindness, this kind of kindness is a kind of flattering disease, it is the fear that one's own rejection will make the relationship stiff, to put it bluntly, it is the bottom line of unconfidence, and it is the embodiment of self-cheapness. And true kindness is based on self-knowledge, which is responsible for oneself and others.

True kindness is based on self-knowledge, and we may need to remember that kindness is never a principled way to help others. Our goodness is based on self-knowledge. Just like if someone falls into the water, if you are not accustomed to water, your best way must not be to jump into the water to save people, but to find someone who can swim or call the police for police assistance.

Each of us may need to weigh our own weight. For example, when we don't have much strength, the best way to do it is not to please others everywhere, but to strengthen ourselves. When we are strong ourselves, we will have more strength to help others.

When we are weak, remember that it is more important to learn to be obscure than to be deliberately kind, because you must first learn to take care of yourself.

Kindness is actually a very noble thing, it comes from our inner cultivation and conscience, but also from our self-understanding and our principle of helping others. Kindness is the most cherished part of the world, so don't let your kindness become cheap, but first learn to be yourself, bloom yourself, and let yourself have more ability to help others, which may be the attitude and principle we need the most. There is nothing wrong with being kind, but being excessively kind is a kind of connivance, which goes against the original intention of being a kind person!

Summary. Hello dear. The meaning of this sentence is: your understanding is not necessarily correct, although for you he is a good person because he is good to you. But to others he is evil, because he does not treat others as he treats you.

What you think is a good person is actually a wicked person.

Hello dear. The meaning of this sentence is: your understanding is not necessarily correct, although for you he is a good person because he is good to you. But to others he is evil, because he does not treat others as he treats you.

Dear, this sentence tells us that everything has two sides, and we can't judge the right or wrong of things based on our own understanding alone, but we need to analyze it from many aspects.

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