What kind of funeral would you like to have?

Actually, I don't want to have a funeral when I want to leave the world, I think it's actually good to leave quietly, because after all, my departure will also bring some people's pain, so it's better to leave quietly.

Relatives and friends were there, and then, quietly watching me being cremated. Scatter half of my ashes in the sea and scatter them in the wind, and the other half, keep them if you want to, if you don't want to keep them, just find a random place and bury them, which can be regarded as inheriting traditional customs, let me be buried in the ground.

I think an ordinary funeral would be fine, because I can't feel how luxurious my funeral is, and my family is still very sad, so there is no need to make it so grand.

At my funeral, all of us should not cry. It's a smile to remember some good things when I was with me, and to wish me happiness in another world, never hurt.

I hope that at my funeral, no one will cry, no one will cry, but they will all sit around me and talk about what has happened recently, and talk about what is happy about them.

Burial at sea. Forgive me for being a literary girl since I was a child, and I feel very romantic when I see the heroine written in ** always hoping that after she dies, her ashes can be scattered in the sea.

And I think it's more environmentally friendly to scatter the ashes in the sea and not waste the cemetery

I hope that at my funeral, there will be no people who come for the sake of relationships, the funeral will not be solemn, there will be no banquet, so that my ashes will return to the land quietly, and everyone who comes will toast me with a glass of good wine and talk to me in their hearts.

I will make the highlights of my life a prologue at the funeral, without applause or crying. The joy of life, the calmness of death. Finally, I use "I have been here in this life, and I am very happy" as my life evaluation.

I hope that others will say this to me at my funeral: I am kind, willing to get along with others, conscientious and responsible in my work, ideologically, adhere to the right direction, and am a rare bosom friend.

I don't need them to evaluate me, I just need to move them, let them know the value of my existence, and if they leave me, they will be very heartbroken, and make them feel that they have really done a lot of good things for him, and he will be very moved.

What I want most is that others can evaluate me very well, because I am the kind of person who is very arrogant, I just want everyone to be able to evaluate myself very well, and I don't want others to say bad things about me, so that I can be very happy.

He is a good person, he has lived for others all his life, and I have also given a lot for my own family and friends around me, and finally I have died.

This man has been here, but death is eternal, and it is worth making me a friend, I am proud to be a mother, and I am proud to be a wife.

I hope that others will judge me at my funeral, that he has no regrets in his life, that he has done what he wanted to do, and that he has got what he wants, and that he has no regrets.

In "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People", when talking about the second habit, "Beginning with the end in mind", it says, "When you get up in the morning, dress whole, and prepare to go to a funeral, and you set out with a heavy heart, and you arrive at the funeral place, and find that it is your own funeral, who do you want to be the people who come to your funeral?" ”

If you're a visual person, this scene may feel a little scary.

When the horror and fear are still there, ask yourself, who do you want to pay tribute to you at this time?

At this time, many problems in life become no longer unsolvable, no longer hesitate, and become not problems.

In "Do Not Disturb 2", Li Xiangshan was about to die because of melanoma, and held a memorial service for himself.

Everyone who came to the funeral said goodbye to Xiangshan in their own way, telling the story of Xiangshan, and Xiangshan's daughter recited the song "See or See" by Cangyang Gyatso, which made people think for a long time:

When you leave, who do you want to pay your respects to? Then prepare for your funeral from this moment on.

Your family, your friends, your co-workers, people you've never met to help.

Money, status, honor, meaning?

"Living to die" requires courage and wisdom.

In Japanese funerals, there is a link that will ** a video of the deceased, which was recorded in advance by the deceased, which contains the deceased's message to the living and his hope for saying goodbye to this world.

Think about what you would say if you recorded a video of your funeral?

And what you want to express in this passage is what you want.

We are lamenting the loss of life, the fragility of life, and we are also lamenting the unfinished things in life, the unfulfilled wishes, and the failure to protect our relatives and friends.

Ask yourself, who do you want to pay your respects to when you attend your own funeral? ”

Then, write it down, get into action, and don't let time steal your time.

Lingchai Zhou Dao Liang Zhaoji's family died, you go to mourn.

Give gifts, send wreaths, and kowtow in front of the statue to show respect.

Say to the leader: "Condolences and change".

After that, just stand honestly in a place that is out of the way and accompany the leader to keep the vigil.

Don't be too diligent, and be annoyed by others by talking too much.

Especially on this sad day, the leader feels uncomfortable, don't add to the chaos.

In the air as Chinese New Year's Eve approached, a pair of phoenixes flew around, singing and changing the town with mournful songs, and fragrant trees holding branches flew to Danxue Mountain.

There is a withered sycamore on the right side of the mountain, a well-definite spring on the left side of the mountain, a vast sea in front of the mountain, a reckless plain behind the mountain, and a cold and cold ice sky on the mountain.

The sky is dark, the fragrant wood is high, the phoenix is tired, the phoenix is tired, and their death is near.

The phoenix pecks the fragrant wood, and the fire of a star bursts out.

The phoenix fanned the sparks, and the wisps of cigarettes rose.

The phoenix pecked, the phoenix fanned again, the cigarette smoke on the mountain was dispersed, and the fire on the mountain was full.

The night is dark, the incense wood has burned, the phoenix is tired of pecking, the phoenix is tired of fanning, and their time of death is near.

Ahh Mournful Phoenix!

The phoenix dances, low!

Phoenix sings, tragic!

The phoenix dances again, the phoenix sings the core thick, and a flock of mortal birds fly from the sky to watch the funeral.

Feng Ge. That is! That is! That is!

That is! That is! That is!

The vast universe is as cold as iron!

The vast universe is as dark as paint!

The vast universe is as filthy as blood!

Universe, universe, why do you exist?

Have you been here since?

Are you sitting in?

Are you a finite empty ball?

Are you an infinite whole block?

If you are a finite empty ball, the space that embraces you.

He came from?

Why is there life in you?

Are you still a living communicator?

Are you still an inanimate machine?

I raised my head and asked the sky, the heavens are high, and there is no knowledge of it.

I looked down and asked the ground, the ground was dead, Mo breathed a little.

I stretched out my head and asked the sea, and the sea was raising its voice (kouyi).

Hee-he

Today is a good day".

Love when you die".

I'm here waiting for you to come back, waiting for you to come back and see the peach blossoms bloom."

Learn from Lei Feng, a good example".

I want to live another 500 years! ”

Why not go back in style! ”

Always go home and see, go home and see".

The east is red, the sun rises".

Pleasant goat, beautiful goat··· If there is any danger to hunt me down, I will not panic... Think of it as a game! ”

Little genius, long intelligence, learning is like playing a game".

Even if you are at the end of the earth, I will go to you... Tonight, don't go, I'll go find you. ”

Come on, come on, meet at ninety-eight! ”

Get up!!!

The lyrics of "Happy Hometown" are like this: Come with me, and set off at dawn.