I feel a bit inferior and autistic and don t have good friends

I understand your situation, because I have had the same situation as you, don't force it, don't force it, it will be very tiring, it's because you're too sensitive, remember that you are unique, be confident, don't pay attention to this aspect of your mind from now on, do what you like to do, I believe you will always find a confidant, it doesn't matter if you can't find it, it's really difficult to find a confidant, your own good life is the most important thing, don't live for others, don't care too much about what others think of you.

Everyone has the value of their existence, even if others ignore you and society does not affirm you, but you do have your own value, as long as you affirm yourself.

Wishing you a happy day.

First of all, we must adjust our mentality and take the initiative. If you're too withdrawn, no one will care about you. You have to learn to communicate with people, find topics that others are more interested in, talk to others, or find friends who share your interests.

You can also participate in more outdoor group activities. In short, the most important thing is the mentality! Mentality!

If that doesn't work, you can also seek out friends online.

Listen carefully to what they are talking about together, if you are familiar with something, of course, you can say a word or two at any time, if you don't know anything about what they talk about, there is no room for interjection, you have to let yourself learn a little more from other aspects, and then you can chat with them without obstacles!

It's not that they don't want to pay attention to you, but your silence has become a habit, the problem is still with you, no matter what questions you have to say, just talk to them directly, be good at interjecting when chatting, and say it when you encounter something you have something to say, so that over time you will naturally have a lot to say.

You may be an introvert, but introversion can be turned into an extrovert, just be good at speaking your mind and communicate with others

I wish you to be cheerful and find friends

Don't care too much about what others think of you, you are who you are.

You are an introvert and don't need a lot of friends. A bosom friend is enough.

Find someone with an extra personality among your classmates, neighbors, and relatives to complement each other.

May you be happy every day to come!!

It's very similar to my previous situation, but it doesn't matter, as long as you want to communicate with others, it means that you are not really autistic. Try to find something to talk to, even if you can't say it, and although it may be difficult to take this first step, you will taste a joy that you have never experienced before, and that is that you are opening your heart and breathing the outside air with a new beginning. This is my personal experience, you can also try it.

At the critical moment, you still have to rely on yourself, friends don't take it too seriously, remember that the disaster is coming, and you fly separately.

How old are you? If you're old enough, you should have a boyfriend.

What are you: There is no answer. The kind of person you think you are, who you are, and others will see you that way.

This is a major discovery in psychology in the last world--- self-intention.

-You can't be beautiful if you think you're not pretty enough. If you don't think you're brave enough, you can't be brave. You think you're stupid, you can't be smart.

The spirit of intelligent and confident people is open, and conversely, the spirit of people with low self-esteem is relatively closed. In fact, there is very little real distinction between being smart and not being smart. As long as a normal person is open to experience, then he must be smart. It is recommended that you:

Eliminate low self-esteem --- regain self-confidence.

1. Positive identification with oneself.

You can't just see your own shortcomings, and the inferiority complex is largely generated in contrast. Therefore, while actively identifying with yourself, you must not regard others as perfect. People with strong low self-esteem do not have this awareness:

He's human too. Since they are"people", all have personal strengths and weaknesses. Accepting oneself means accepting one's weaknesses and strengths.

2. Build self-confidence.

To build self-confidence, you must first learn to say: No!

Low self-esteem is a manifestation of psychological weakness. The point is that their self-confidence is not strong, and they dare not show their thoughts to the outside. As a result, he followed the crowd in action, had no opinions, and had no courage, resulting in psychological depression and depression.

Psychologists believe that if you think you are stupid, then you are stupid. If you think you are elegant, you are elegant ... Therefore, low self-esteem can be overcome. But to defeat it, you have to rely on yourself.

Success says: God helps those who are self-reliant!

3. Positive autosuggestion.

Learn to say in your heart: I can do it too!

You might as well ask yourself: they are all the same people, he can do it, I can do it. He can do it, and so can I.

4. Actively interact with others.

A healthy mind doesn't come up with it.

Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, mental activity turns inward, towards himself. The scope and content of mental activities are limited to a certain extent, and coupled with the limitations of understanding, mental activities often go to extremes.

It is dangerous for a person's psychology not to be understood by others, even if it is felt by oneself"How ahead of its time"。When you associate with a healthy person, your heart will be purified, your heart will be open, and your experience will be open. The shadow of the psyche gradually dissolves during the activity.

I wish you a happy day, and your adoption is the greatest encouragement to me.

Good luck

There are at least two ways to solve this problem.

One is to come out through your own efforts, everyone has a period of low ebb, during which if you can regain a new understanding of yourself and life, it will be a qualitative leap.

The other is to seek help from a psychological counselor, through their professional knowledge to understand their current situation and clarify their future life positioning, which will also play a certain role in promoting their physical and mental development.

Sister, I'll teach you a method. I don't know if it's useful.

Write a very miserable and tragic book yourself and publish it.

Then it would be better if you got on fire.

Autism, low self-esteem, poor handling of interpersonal relationships - the root of these are all psychological problems.

There is a saying that 'thoughts determine action', and if you can list your problems and ask for help now, it is a good indication that you are desperate to change your mind, but you are struggling to find the right way.

In fact, it is easy to change, as long as you change the psychological angle, all your problems will be solved

I'll give you a layman's example:

Now you are like a lost person, you can't see the direction, you don't know where to go, you have tried hard to trek for a long time, but you still can't find your direction, you are very tired and confused.

The difficulties in front of you seem to be an insurmountable mountain, and when you can't overcome them despite all your efforts, it's time for you to 'think again', and if you look at the problem from a different angle, there will often be unexpected shortcuts.

When you get lost and can't find your way all the way around, you might as well stop and turn backwards

The same goes for your psychological problems, if your psychology is a journey, then now you have entered the psychological misunderstanding, you must immediately make a sharp turn, the right direction, your path will not be wrong.

From now on, make up your mind to change yourself!

People are equal and the same, everyone is born with a blank sheet of paper, and they are all acquired through hard work to obtain connotation, charm, honor, and so on. Maybe my current performance is worse, but as long as I am willing to work hard, I will definitely get ahead. Just like everyone is in a race, everyone has two legs, and fast and slow depends entirely on how hard you try.

As long as you want to change in your heart, you will work in that direction. Even if it changes a little bit from day to day, it will change a lot over time.

Think of the drop of water to wear-

Always remind yourself: it's no big deal, what others can do, we can do well.

When I was depressed, I thought that Li Ka-shing's situation as a child was not necessarily better than mine......

Sometimes I'm like this, I like to go alone, with the help of the Internet, I add the friends I want to know to Q friends first, first from the Internet chat and then slowly become real good friends, so I can hide my lack of confidence.

Don't let yourself be too withdrawn....If you want to meet friends, you must first take the initiative to talk to someone: you have to be confident, otherwise how will you mix in society!