How do I express that? How do you express yourself correctly?

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Speaking is the easiest thing to do, and everyone knows how to say it.

Then, if you want to speak well and express your meaning correctly, maybe a large number of people will not, especially when they are more impatient and emotional.

So, how exactly can we express ourselves properly?

Most of the time we think it's enough to pause before speaking, take a few deep breaths, and organize the language in your head.

Is that really the case? That's only half right.

For many people who can't express themselves, the main factor is not in expressing themselves, but in pausing, thinking, restraining themselves, and deliberately practicing.

If you want to say it slowly, there is no problem with careful expression.

The difficulty is that when you are impatient and excited, there will be problems with expression. A little bit of it affects the mood of both parties, and a serious one of the two parties hurts each other.

Therefore, the primary concern of expression is slowness, accuracy, and deliberateness.

That is, to control one's emotions, to keep the emotions stable, and the brain to be controlled by the language, the language will be appropriate.

Some people say, what if I just can't speak?

Actually, it's the right place to come.

Writing is also a type of speaking. I can write and talk how I want, I can't be casual, remember to be polite to everyone, and I can't just think that this is my good friend.

Over time, it will become a habit. Habit became natural, and Mom no longer worries that we won't be able to speak.

Think about what you want to talk about in advance, and if you want to talk about it, organize the language in advance.

The first thing you need to know is what is the purpose of this conversation between you and the other person? Is it small talk, or is there a request for people, if you chat, people are more relaxed, it is best to choose some talkative friends around you, make more jokes, build language confidence, dare to speak, and will speak. If it's something important, then first listen carefully to what the other person is going to say, if you only care about yourself, the conversation is not right, it must be incoherent, it is better to speak slowly, and go through the words in your head.

It's good to express your truest side first, after a long time, everyone will naturally understand you, but the premise is that others understand you, and others will further interact with you.

Express yourself truthfully, so you need to exercise more, often set up some scenes for yourself to talk more, talk more in crowded places for a long time, and be thoughtful and comprehensive in doing things and thinking about things.

Build self-confidence! Friends: Everyone is not a master of communication, but a skill that is gradually learned in the day after tomorrow! Talking to people and reading more communication books when you have nothing to do will help you a lot!

It's natural to communicate. If someone else is asking you to talk to you, then listen to them first – make sure they understand what they mean, and ask if they don't understand – and then decide what to do.

If you're looking for someone else, be honest about what you want to do, what you need them to do – and make sure they understand what you mean – and then analyze the specific problem and decide what you should do.

To put it simply, if you are thick-skinned, you will naturally be able to communicate better.

I recommend you watch "Techniques for Expressing Yourself".

I recommend reading a book called "Equal Sign Marketing".

Most of us don't actually express ourselves properly, including feelings, emotions, abilities, etc.

We don't know what we're really capable of. Don't know how to express your anger when you're angry?

We are accustomed to covering up, shifting the blame to others, getting angry and then breaking down ......Why do we often do such stupid things?

I think it may be because everything on the outside makes us afraid, insecure, and afraid to show our sincerity and tell the truth.

So how do you express it?

1. Consistency, what you say and what you think in your heart should be consistent, angry is angry, happy is happy.

2. Positive expression is to correctly understand oneself and express it, without narcissism or self-deprecation.

1. Pay attention to improving your logical thinking ability, turn your words into a hierarchical and organized manner, express the key points you want to say, and express your meaning simply and directly. Write more drafts in your head, and then talk about it when you're ready.

2. You must believe in yourself, even if you say it badly. You may not be good enough to speak, and you may not understand your speech, but this does not mean how stupid or stupid you are, but it does not mean that you are not capable.

3. Talk less, not to say that you don't want to speak, but to talk less nonsense, and say what you want to express concisely, so that those who listen to you can feel your sincerity.

4. When it's not necessary, don't say it if you don't want to talk, it's no big deal.

Be sure to think clearly about your point of view, what you want to do, who you're talking to, and whether the occasion is appropriate.

5. Try more, practice more, you can watch more news broadcasts if you have nothing to do, why watch it? Because the press release of the news network is very, very good, it makes one thing clear in three or five sentences, without being verbose or ink.

6. Learn to speak with your eyes, a kind smile can show your concern.

8. When others talk to you, you should look at each other, and shy people often forget this. Of course, you don't have to stare at each other, but at least let them know that you're listening.

9. Don't be in a hurry to speak, speak slowly, just like writing, make a layer of things to be said, which one is in front and which one is last, it is best to say your main purpose at the beginning of the conversation, and then explain it around your original purpose, so that even if you express yourself clearly enough, others will know what you are going to say.

10. Don't forget to take notes when reading books to form your own cognitive structure.

11. Take the time to write out what you want to say, take it out every once in a while, change it, and you will know that those words are nonsense.

12. When you are talking, after someone interjects into the meeting, you have to continue to finish what you want to say, and the other party may be very interested in what you are saying, not that you want to deliberately raise the bar with you, so don't take this as a reason why you can't speak.

13. You can do more group activities, learn to imitate other people's behaviors, just like werewolves killing, skills to exercise thinking and expression, fish and bear paws.