What book can you read to forget an unhappy past?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't know if you've read Dream of Red Mansions, but how many times have you read it, the book is different from the TV series. The more you read, the deeper your understanding will be, and it will not make you forget your troubles, but it will make you see through the cause and effect of life and suddenly open up. In the past and future, it is impossible to break it with wisdom.

    Cause and effect, you need to know that you are close and do not meet. Forget that the troubles are only temporary, see through, let go is the truth, although we do not become monks, but look down on it will not be annoying, the Buddha said: There are eight sufferings in life:

    Birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, resentment for a long time, can't ask for it, can't let go. I also hope you can see it clearly, and then let it go, don't push yourself so hard and let yourself go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Count me to correct you, no book can help you forget, at most enlighten you, the key can only look at yourself, it is necessary to put your mentality right, what you say may be a bit heavy, but I really hope you can get better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The teachings of the Buddhist scriptures. Believe in cause and effect, no matter how great the hatred, no matter how deep the suffering, can help you break it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you want to forget the unhappy things, you don't need to read books, because you look at the books and feel bored and have nothing to do, you will want to go up and be unhappy, it is recommended not to read books, it is better to watch movies and TV series on the Internet.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Inspirational and the like, Youth Digest, these slow and perusal will change your state of mind, naturally many things will be opened, and the mood will naturally be broadened.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Read more classic motivational books.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When a person wants to forget something more or a person remembers it more clearly, I can't forget it myself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Make your life full and busy, just don't let yourself be idle, so that you don't have time to think about the mess, and it will be okay slowly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People are easy to think more when they are idle, in fact, they don't want to forget too deliberately, after a long time, it will fade, time is a knife on the head, what escapes, if it is really painful, just eat, find what you like, things, relax, divert attention, you will find that everything is nothing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think more about happy things, actively do some loving activities, and start a new journey.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's about keeping yourself busy and letting time forget.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, love is a habit. Isn't it? Accustomed to being hurt, accustomed to being spoiled, accustomed to being treated well.

    Get used to having someone to comfort when you're hurt, and someone to share when you're happy. Accustomed to being tired and being hugged by someone, accustomed to being hurt and coaxed, and accustomed to thinking that someone is there. Actually, love is a habit.

    It's just that sometimes it's hard to be discovered, and after going through it, I suddenly wake up one day. Because when we are in love sweetly, we don't have time to think. When we broke up, we were hurt and painful, and we couldn't get over the hurdles to think.

    Actually, love is a habit. It's just a habit, just like the habit of using your right hand instead of your left hand when eating. When you have it, don't be surprised; When you lose, you don't need to grieve.

    Time will change all habits. Even if you were once happy and sweet, even if you were once grief-stricken. Time will change all habits.

    Don't worry about not being used to not having someone by your side all the time... Time will change all habits. You can keep love fresh, don't worry about someone in the previous habits...

    Sometimes, I wonder: if love becomes a habit, is it still love? Actually, love is a habit, in itself, from the beginning.

    Actually, not loving is also a habit. Life is made up of habits one after another. Love and love and get used to it.

    Slowly, I got used to not loving it!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't always think about those unhappy things, find things you like to do, make yourself happy, let your heart be free、、、 hehe remember what I said before, we came empty, and now, it's still empty, so there's nothing you can't let go, everything is to blame yourself for not being relieved、、、 you must remember, happiness is everywhere, you have to grasp it well, live well, because in the future, it's an unknown 、、、

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feeling aggrieved? But I can't vent itIn the long run, it is easy to change a good mentality, and if it worsens, there will be psychological problems.

    Therefore, you must properly express your inner dissatisfaction and be a positive and optimistic person in order to survive in this stressful society. Sometimes when you're in a bad mood, whatever you do will touch the scene. From another point of view, as long as you feel that life is very helpless, the same angle of helplessness is not wonderful, no one is willing to live like a blank sheet of paper, come on, good luck, give it to me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The pursuit of life should be good memories and a happy life.

    The beauty of the past, no matter when, is the beautiful warmth in the memory, which is worth cherishing and recalling. The good times of the past are the spiritual wealth we have lived, encouraging us to move forward positively and cherish them for a lifetime.

    The memories of the past are bitter and bumpy, and the pain is unbearable. The best choice when forgetting them, the mind is limited, save more memories for the good. You can think of it this way:

    Unhappy things are the accumulation of beautiful things, there is no bitterness, and I don't know sweetness. A little bitterness is the premise of sweetness.

    The stars and the moon rotate, nothing is static, and the unhappy past is used as the driving force to move forward. When you succeed, looking back, so many bitterness of the year may have made a good story.

    Actively explore every period of life, so that the years bring us the happiest past.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Have plenty of time for yourself, relax and play.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Far away, the rest will be left to time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Inspiring, inspiring. Looking to the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is nothing that a book person will not forget after reading it, only a person, who yearns for it or not.

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