In the face of current love, I feel uncomfortable and bottomless. How do I go about it?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Life is very practical, let go of the illusion of feelings. If you feel that it is suitable for you, you will take it seriously, and if it is not suitable, you will let it go as soon as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After listening to your description, it feels like you are thinking too much.

    Any relationship has a time limit, and you can't stay in love for that long.

    Therefore, it is wise to deal with your relationship sensibly.

    And from your description, I found that you actually don't love him at all, your purpose is very simple, that is, to get married, so, a very realistic problem, if you find that it is not suitable, it is good to separate as soon as possible, after all, there is no emotional bond, the longer it drags on, the more troublesome it is.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First, your boyfriend is not honest at all.

    Second, you still love him, but he doesn't love you anymore.

    Appear directly in front of him and see how he reacts You yourself are cranky and don't know what is going on with him He is really like what he said Except for work and home, he is in a situation where he has no desires A woman's intuition is very sensitive You can see it at a glance These things are best to talk about in person You can't imagine it yourself You don't know him Learn more about him Learn more about the following Pay more attention to it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At least he's responsible, so there's no way he's going to feel sorry for you, and it's nice to marry a responsible man, because they'll never be able to leave you because of their responsibility.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you don't know him, you should know him more, from his friends, family, to know what he is thinking, if he doesn't love you, now you are not married, why take your mother on a trip.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love him, try to give him another chance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm really sorry for you, this kind of woman, you better let it go. Find someone who really loves you and you like, get along well and forget about it all. You're a good person. There will be good rewards.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello! You can wait for her, but in fact, in the process of waiting, you are also choosing to forget, so you don't care too much, you should go to work hard, live your own life, and don't take her too seriously, then you will be very tired. The more you exhale, the more you lose.

    The more sad it will be, so why bother??? You might as well live your life. One day she sees it, she thinks it out, and she's still willing to come back to you.

    If you can forgive her. Then you can live a good life together. If she comes back, but you don't love her anymore, then give up, in fact, you didn't lose, she let you change back to another self.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Alas! I had to give up! Don't wait any longer!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Classmate, do you write **!! What age is it, innocent love is worth it, you don't know how to work hard to earn money first, and when you have enough money, you can still not change your mind. Then you don't have to write** she can also appear.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He definitely doesn't love you, you cherish yourself, don't wait for her, find a girl worthy of you! Let's eat a trench and grow wise, and return to reality!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe she has her own hardships, alas, it's hard to be a man.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Give it up, it's not worth it for such feelings. The end means a new beginning.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Friend. I am connected to you by the same fate. The woman I love so much has been entangled with a man.

    She seemed to be hiding that I was doing a good job. Thought I didn't know anything. She didn't know why I was angry every time for no reason.

    I give a lot for her as much as you do. But so. She kept saying she loved me.

    I really can't feel her love anymore. Ay.. But I really love her.

    Why do we all suffer this way? Now I don't lose my temper. Good job.

    What about her. Hehe... Ay..

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The first thing you face together is the pressure of your parents, and I don't really fit in with you. It's not a bad thing for a man to be too good to a woman, but it's definitely not a good thing either, she doesn't care about you, so why bother yourself. I had an experience similar to yours, but then we separated, how do you talk to your parents?

    Having said that, it is enough to experience such a thing once, no matter how good-looking the girl is, of course love can tolerate everything, but you have to think that your dedication to her is disproportionate to her dedication to you, you are a good man, it is not this girl who should be waiting for, let it go as soon as possible.

    If fate comes, together. Men should focus on their careers, if you have money, you can't find any woman, if you can't become strong, no matter how beautiful a girl is, it's just a brilliant firework. Men are more emotionally important than women, so you are in pain, give you a suggestion, don't love with sincerity easily, love with style, don't be too careful.

    Go with the flow, don't blindly give, if you don't have too many family connections in that city, you can change the city to live, or go to another city to play for a month, I believe you will be much better.

    A killer is never bound by any emotion, you don't have to be a killer, but you have to have a killer's attitude towards feelings.

    Besides, you just give something, just adjust your mentality. It is commendable to be able to love with your heart regardless of paying, you love to mistake it, stop it,

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't be fooled by this so-called illusion, get back to the track of your life!

    Time will help you forget all this, and spend your energy and time on work and study.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What is love, love is mutual. Carefully scrutinize the things that others are with you, and the motives for being with you, let's divide it!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When she doesn't love you, no matter how much you wait, it's in vain, when she starts to lie to you, what you do is in vain, when she really disappears, what's the use of you going to be stupid to stay, what else do you want to prove, when a woman says that he can let go of her husband and children to be with you, it shows that the woman's heart is so ruthless. A woman who is not worthy of your love, why should you miss her bitterly. Put her in the deepest part of your heart, treat it as a memory, and live your life in a different place.

    Maybe the girl who really deserves your love is waiting for you somewhere. Be brave buddy! ~

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She has never loved you and herself, but she has some intentions for you for a while, don't be stupid, cheer up again, and find your happiness!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Seeing this, I thought of an old saying: Only villains and women are difficult to raise!

    You're a villain, and I'm not talking about the demeaning villain. All living beings, we are all a small person in the world, in this life, how many people have passed by you, but you chose her, I don't want to say how much she is wrong, she is at fault. But this matter has nothing to do with her, and she is not worth it.

    You are the one who can't think about it, you are the one who is miserable, and you are the one who is decadent. And I just want to say to you. In the whole thing, you make three mistakes:

    One, naïve. She said hello, you are with her, but there are many good people in the world, why is she not with others. Second, kindness.

    Kindness is a good quality, its outward manifestation is compassion, Bing Xin said, love is on the left, sympathy is on the right. You are very sympathetic and kind, but love is not sympathy, like you said, she approaches you with a purpose, but you are still willing to get it for her, isn't it stupid? Is it worth it?

    Three, stubbornness. Stubbornness is called persistence if it sounds good, and pedantic if it is not good. You've only been together for three months, not three years, thirty years.

    You don't work, sleep, or eat for her, so what is she doing for you? She's hurting you. I also want to ask, is it worth it?

    It's not worth it at all.

    Be a chic man who can afford to put it down, because love is not the whole and only life, life has multiple elements enough, she is the episode of your life, not your main theme, she is the guest of your life, not your return!

    Cheer up and give your passion and dedication to the person who deserves what you are doing for her. The joy of the two is love, the pleaser, and the happiness. So love is not pain and decadence. It's joy and sweetness, with some little sorrow and little trouble, but that's not a problem.

    It can be seen that you are a good man, because you are responsible and serious, and kind, why destroy yourself for an unworthy woman, think about it, tomorrow is a new day, the sun rises and sets as usual, maybe, the next corner, there is a girl in the outer beauty and wisdom, waiting for you to love!

    It's just some of my personal vulgar thoughts, whether it can help you or not, it's up to you. If you are offended, please forgive me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The possibility that you are deceived is already very great, and the person who is often hurt the most emotionally is the one who pays the most, you do pay a lot for her, you can imagine that you are indeed very injured, maybe you love her and you just want to pay for her, as for her to pay for you without you don't care, I don't know if you have been in love, love is a matter of two people, not relying on someone to cultivate the feelings of both parties, in love, for the two of you, you should be the pursuit of fairness, But what you are getting now is unfair treatment, which can show that she doesn't love you at all, sometimes it is indeed very contradictory, I want to be with the person you love, but she doesn't love you, you pay to want to be with her, but she still left you. Don't wait, your pay at least let you see something clearly, this will be an important experience on your future life path, a person from your side to leave your life or live, the person you love leaves you means that she is not what you want, your she is still far away, what you have to do now is to cheer up, after all, tomorrow will be back, you still have to pursue your love, she is just an inconspicuous passerby on your life path, life is short, don't waste this limited time on fruitless waiting, I'm sure you'll get through it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's live again, good luck.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't wait, since she can't let go of the child so much, you might as well quit.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Fool, you have been deceived, look at what you wrote, you will know that you have been deceived at a glance, maybe it is really the authorities who are obsessed with bystanders, don't be stupid anymore, you should live again, you will be deceived if you are deceived, no one else takes you seriously, you are still waiting there stupidly, such a person is not worthy of your love, sometimes don't trust others easily. Now there are a lot of women.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is recommended that you can talk to him well, don't release the pressure on your girlfriend outside, and don't complain to him at every turn if you say it, so that he will be very annoyed, and the trivialities in life will always annoy people, but just face it with a normal heart

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This kind of boyfriend is not good, if you don't love it to that extent, I advise you to break up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Now China's national situation is that there are more farmers and fewer citizens, and things are scarce and expensive, so if there are more citizens and fewer farmers, what will happen, your attitude will know that you are a person who looks down on farmers, people who look down on the poor, you can't let go of your so-called rich life, because you will not be able to survive, but she can, in the face of such a problem, you are far inferior to him, and love someone Don't talk about money, don't do anything to compare with money, you have to compare why you don't compare with Li Ka-shing, if you can't compare with others, forget it, you are not rich, there are more rich, on the other hand, if you think that people are farmers and break up with others, maybe with other people's qualifications, you will find a marriage that is a hundred times stronger than you, and when the time comes, you drive an Audi A6, and people drive Ferrari. I am very pleased that you are very realistic, money is very important, but in the face of life, money is paper, but you can exchange food and drink, not true love. Marriage doesn't need a second time, just like life, reincarnation is not reincarnation, only after this life does you know, life is very short, you can't live 100 years old when you're young, in the blink of an eye, don't look down on others, you have to learn to respect others, everyone is equal in front of life, if you insist on your opinion, you don't like farmers, then don't delay people, it's already very wrong for you to look down on people, and delay people to find a partner, which is even more unspeakable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    From a woman's point of view, I would never choose a man like you, but you are right. The family environment is indeed the most important factor. If you love her so much that you can't love herself, don't care about anything else, hold on to her.

    But if you just like it and think she is more in line with you, don't force it. If you really get married in the future, you will only quarrel day and night because of trivial matters, and even a trace of beauty between the two people will be worn away.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe, this is always a very real problem, others will never be able to help you solve anything, the important thing is yourself, do you really love? Is love really deep? Do you really love her so much that you have to love her?

    Do you really love so much that you don't care about anything? If you love then be brave, the eyes of the world are focused on money, so your eyes are on **? No one knows what will happen in the future, the love family is all the two of you, and the relationship with others is very small, if the right money worshipper girl I don't think you will want it, the emphasis is man-made, happiness is fleeting and you can't think thoroughly, come on, whether it is successful or not, I hope you can be happy.

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