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Because of the guilt in the heart of deception, the heart is uneasy, so the heart will feel uncomfortable. This is uncomfortable precisely because you can't get through that level in your heart. Prove that you are still a good person and cannot be completely hypocritical and deceitful.
So you should respect your heart, you are a kind person.
At this time, I suggest that you sincerely apologize to the other party and beg for forgiveness. After doing so, no matter what the outcome is, you will be able to face your life head-on, face yourself, and be worthy of yourself.
I think such people will live more tastefully, I hope it will help you, hopefully.
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Method steps.
First of all, both of you are uncomfortable, you have to find the cause of the problem first, two people who are in love for a little longer will have a lot of problems, it is recommended that everyone solve the problem.
Then you have to know that the girl doesn't want to mess with you unreasonably, she just needs some of your care and actions, maybe she doesn't think so much so it makes you feel uncomfortable, thinking of this, as a man you have to learn to let go.
Both of you feel uncomfortable, you must find a calm time to tell her, don't be angry if I'm wrong, okay or something. She'll be sure to say if I'm asking too much of you or something.
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If you deceive someone and don't want to go, it proves that you still have a conscience, if you really can't face the reality, you just need to forget everything around you for a while and do what you want to do, if it's a white lie, you don't have to worry, because this little lie will bring happiness to others.
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Then confess your mistakes to him and ask him for forgiveness for comfort.
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Hello, what should I do if I feel very uncomfortable when I deceive others? People are sincere and friendly in society, tell the truth, do real things, and the prestige of the feast can be improved. Saying one thing and doing another, duplicity, relying on foolishness, it is difficult to win the trust of others, and his prestige will not be too high.
If you still have the courage, you should apologize to the deceived person, explain the truth, and correct your mistakes sincerely. As the saying goes, "the prodigal son does not change his money when he turns back", wrong, it is not terrible to read silver, it is good to change it completely, as long as he is determined, he will not cheat in the future. "If you are not a sage, you can do no wrong", I want to believe that you will return to the ranks of good people.
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When we deceive others, or after being deceived, some uncomfortable emotions and feelings will naturally appear in our hearts. In this case, we need to deal with our feelings well and avoid letting these emotions affect our daily life and work. First, we need to face the mistakes we have made and reflect deeply on our actions.
We need to admit that we made mistakes and apologize to the other person. Because only by apologizing can the other party feel our remorse and sincerity. In this process, we must insist on sincerity and sincerity, rather than empty words.
Secondly, we need to acknowledge the impact of being deceived on our psychological state, and adopt a positive psychological adjustment method to ease our psychological burden. We can reduce our anxiety by participating in activities such as sports, games, etc. to divert our attention. We can also try to communicate with friends, loved ones, etc., seeking their support and understanding.
By sharing our own feelings and listening to the opinions and suggestions of others, we can better ease our psychological burden.
Finally, we need to learn from our mistakes, reflect on our actions, and avoid making the same mistakes again in the future. We can improve our quality and level through studying, reading, experience sharing, etc., so as to better cope with future problems. At the same time, we should also adhere to good moral character and moral values, be honest and trustworthy, and not use what we know to deceive or hurt others.
Overall, it is uncomfortable to cheat or be cheated on, but we must not let this emotion affect our life and work. We need to face our mistakes, admit our mistakes, reflect deeply, and try to alleviate our psychological burden through sharing, communication, and various positive psychological adjustment methods. Finally, we should also uphold the right moral values and morals, learn from our mistakes, and avoid making the same mistakes again.
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Summary. And for girlfriends, this "cheating" is harmless, in fact, it doesn't matter, don't care too much, everyone lies more or less in their lives. If it is a friend or relative who has a good relationship, then if this "deception" is a more serious matter, it is better to tell the truth to the other party, in case it will cause follow-up things in the future, and the consequences will be unimaginable.
Whether it's a white lie or deliberately fun, it's not always good.
Dear, how long have you been in this state? What is the case with such thoughts?
Everyone has a different perception of themselves, and it is normal to have different thoughts, why do you have this kind of thought, do you still remember the specific reason?
Ask your girlfriend out.
Being deceived is indeed a particularly sad thing, so take a deep breath and adjust your emotions first.
Emotional deception and material deception can make people feel particularly sad.
If the loss is relatively large, then we must first consider whether we can get the loss back. If the loss is too great and you feel that your mentality is about to collapse, then I highly recommend that you find someone you trust, talk to him, and let him go with you to face such a thing. This person could be your parents, or your siblings, or a good friend.
Hold the accompaniment. I cheated on my girlfriend, how do you answer it?
Boa: Did you cheat on your girlfriend, or did you get cheated?
Being deceived is not entirely a bad thing. If it is a small material loss, it will make us more vigilant against similar ** withered chops, then such a loss will become an experience for me who have not been senchang, and it may be possible to avoid greater losses in the future.
If it is an emotional loss, it will only make us know a person more clearly. If the other party deceives us unprincipledly, we should keep our distance from him in time and stay away from him.
If you have deceived someone, confess! What you lack is action! Even if others don't forgive you, it's normal, make mistakes, know mistakes, and be willing to change the ruler and dare to admit it, so as to be worthy of your conscience. Hope it helps.
And what about Biju Sakura's girlfriend,,This "cheating" is harmless, in fact, it doesn't matter, don't care too much, everyone lies more or less in their lives. If it is a friend or relative who has a good relationship, then if this "deception" is a more serious matter, it is better to tell the truth to the other party, in case it will cause follow-up things in the future, and the consequences will be unimaginable. Whether it is a white lie or deliberately fun, it is always a bad repentance.
The voices of the outside world are all references, and if you are not happy, don't refer to them.
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Summary. He thinks like this: "The rivers and lakes are sinister and unpredictable," so he has such a mentality, "the heart of harming people must not be dispensed with, and the heart of others must not be without." It's not a psychological problem.
That's what I do.
Because now these people are calculating people, and the point will be calculated by others, which is normal, and the vigilance is high, which proves that this person has many eyes.
I am always worried about whether the deceived person has something wrong with his heart.
He thinks like this: "The rivers and lakes are sinister and unpredictable," so he has such a mentality, "the heart of harming people must not be dispensed with, and the heart of others must not be without." It's not a psychological problem. That's what I do.
Because now these people are calculating people, and the point will be calculated by others, which is normal, and the vigilance is high, which proves that this person has many eyes.
Hope mine is helpful to you.
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Summary. 3. The psychology of saving face or being afraid is that one is afraid of being criticized and laughed at, and even if you are deceived, you are unwilling or afraid to admit it; The second is that they don't understand the law, and they can't help but be intimidated by simple or even absurd threats, and as soon as they hear the words "case handling", "money laundering", "fraud", etc., they have no master, and hurriedly surrender and pay "money". ** Often catch the subject with these psychology and deceive unscrupulously.
Hello, it's a pleasure to reply to you, the psychology of the deceived person: 1. The psychology of greed for money. Believe in "pie in the sky".
In the **set up**, there are obviously a lot of strange things, just because of greed and money, I don't care about suspicion or "don't be in vain" anyway. Wu Kai** said what the pure age said, they believed it; Whatever they let them do, they will do.
The second hall is blue, blindly following the herd mentality, blindly obeying others. When he saw scenes such as "rushing to buy" and "gambling to win money", he had a kind of psychology of being afraid that he would not be able to buy and win, and Wang Chun would unconsciously lie in wait and try his luck under the guidance of "childcare", and as a result, he was deceived.
3. The psychology of saving face or being afraid is because of the fear of being criticized and ridiculed, and even if you are deceived, you are unwilling or afraid to admit it; The second is that they don't understand the law, and they can't help but be intimidated by simple and even absurd threats, and as soon as they hear the words "handling cases", "money laundering and jujube cover-up", "fraud" and other words, they have no master, and hurriedly surrender and pay "money". ** Often grasp the things with these psychology and eliminate the owner, and deceive unscrupulously.
Fourth, the psychology of being anxious to make a lot of money Some ** often take advantage of people's psychological weakness of being anxious to make a lot of money, and use tricks such as fake and true, shoddy, underreporting business silver socks and oaks, and giving kickbacks and commissions, etc., to lure the victim to take the bait.
Fifth, the blind pity of others is to reason for some ** to target kind-hearted people to carry out fraudulent activities. It is necessary to remind everyone that there should be no lack of anti-fraud awareness, and that we should calmly analyze and distinguish the truth from the false. We must be vigilant against the big rent deception, and there is no mercy at all.
Sixth, in the type of gullible psychology when encountering a sudden and uninformed "bright rent power" and "celebrity", lack of vigilance and irritation, blind belief and worship, resulting in being deceived.
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1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......
3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.
4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.
5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.
6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.
7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.
8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.
9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.
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Let's be a lesson! Don't trust others so easily in the future.
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I want to get to the bottom of the story, and besides, if you don't like him, you won't care too much about his confession, so if you like him, don't worry about him, chase him.
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deceived me of 30,000 yuan, right to my source.
It's an astronomical amount. I hope that the relevant departments of QQ will recover 30,000 yuan from me. I don't know if it's a dao person, can you be above his **?
I'm struggling right now, I really feel like I'm dying and I have a choice, and I've been broken down all my life. This person is really **, and now he is still pestering me and asking me to pay another 60,000 yuan to help him get the package, otherwise he will die a barbaric death, on the battlefield. Please God bless me.
Since it's an ex-girlfriend, it has nothing to do with you, it has nothing to do with you who she sleeps with, what is uncomfortable in your heart, you are typical of locking the toilet door after going to the toilet, not letting others go, this kind of psychology is very bad.
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