Why am I like this? Why are you the way you are?

You're a boy, and your personality is entirely due to laziness. Nervousness when meeting strangers is due to the fact that you care too much about what others think of you. You'd better enrich yourself and talk to others only when you're talking to them, that's the best way to do that.

It's normal to be nervous when you see strangers, as long as you don't care about making an impression on others, it's easy to do and make you perform better.

Is it because you have something on your mind?

If you're worried about something, you might as well try to relax.

If you have time to go for a walk, listen to ** or something, I believe that you will become cheerful again in the near future.

I wish you to find yourself soon.

I used to be like this, my method was to pretend to be crazy and stupid, and sing when I couldn't find a topic, haha, this is my method.

It's not a matter of personality, it's a change in the cultural circle. There are different levels of consciousness in your mind. This is normal.

Lack of self-confidence!! Learn to smile!! Help others more!! Hehe, you try it! ：）

I used to be a very cheerful girl, but the first year I went out to work, I went to my cousin, because his personality is extremely strong, I often can't get used to it, I don't like that, I haven't spoken for half a year (because the place of work is only me and her, her brother and another pro-Wei in her family), it is because of that small half a year, my personality has changed greatly.

But I found an interesting way, that is, don't get out of the circle, once you get out of the circle, you can't get back to the previous feeling, and don't contact people when you have something, you can't pay attention to people when you have nothing to do, and others ignore you because you ignore others first.

There is always someone in this world who lives the life you want.

Some people become the people they want to be, while others stumble along the way and get nothing.

Qin Ming has wanted to be an English teacher since he graduated from university, and five years after graduation, this matter is still on hold. In the end, it's just talk.

How many times have you picked up a book and been confused by the game.

How many times have you tried to improve your spoken English, but in the end you have failed in entertainment.

How many times did I want to wake up early, but still chose to sleep in.

I want to work hard, but I can't always beat my laziness and procrastination.

I want to work hard, but I don't want to give up entertainment. So, in such a tangled contradiction, the years have been wasted.

I always complain that the timing is not right and the talent is not enough.

It is always said that if I had not chosen to work but went to graduate school, maybe my salary would have doubled compared to now, and if I had not chosen this industry, maybe my road would not have become so difficult.

I always feel that all kinds of misfortunes in life are helpless, but I never find the reason from myself.

I often sigh that it would be different if I should change my way of life, but when I really want to change, I will find all kinds of reasons, and I feel that I can't change because of this society, my unfortunate childhood experience, and my lack of money and connections, but I won't attribute the reason to myself.

Rabindranath Tagore said: "We see the world wrong, and say it deceives us." ”

The way everyone looks now is actually the accumulation of all their past experiences.

Good or bad, it's all your own making.

Everyone's time is the same every day, why do some people become better and better, but they have not improved.

There is a good saying that there is no road in vain in life, every step counts.

Only by doing what you want to do can you become the person you want to be. If you choose perfunctory time, then, time will also choose perfunctory time.