Doubts for newbies in love 30, doubts for newbies in love

Listening to you, you feel that you care a lot about what she thinks. In fact, I think the most important communication is emotional, and if you communicate well, you will feel comfortable with each other, and communication is very important. But you can't ask her that kind of question directly.

Girls are more reserved, and of course, girls also hope that boys are not too direct! If it's too direct, it will scare the girl. The questions should be tactful, but when the two of them communicate, they should be relaxed, so that the atmosphere will not be so awkward.

When the question is over, if she is really busy, understand her, don't tell her too much about your feelings, then she will feel burdened, give her enough time to finish her own things, and you can continue your relationship. But....If she really doesn't like you, don't give her too much burden, people are to live chic, chic, and say 88 chicly, and at the same time you can be friends, girls like generous boys.

I think it's better for you not to ask, if she dislikes you for everything, she won't hang out with you. Now that I'm out with you, I don't have as many problems as you think.

If she thinks you're ugly or boring, then she won't have anything to do with you, your looks are on the surface, you don't need to be suspicious, and you don't have to be confident.

When you go out to play with a girl, you must care more about her, and it goes without saying that you eat and buy water, you walk all the way and talk all the way. It's okay to hold hands appropriately.

In contact with her, learn more about her temperament, and what she likes and hobbies, and you can do what she likes in the future. Let's get in touch slowly, and feelings are also obtained by slow contact. After a long time, it will be easy to do.

First of all, you have to get to know her and see if she is really busy or perfunctory.

If you are really busy, you need to be considerate of her, and you can also study with her.

If it's perfunctory to you, it's probably not interesting to you.

Don't ask like that, you should trust him, and you shouldn't be so unconfident in yourself. It doesn't really take any special skills to ask him out to play, you just have to put your mind to it, and she can feel it.

I feel the same way you do. I don't know how to do it, so I don't think it's too much of a burden on her. It's good to be happy, and occasionally play poor. But there are degrees. Try to keep a smile on your face that way, no matter how it ends. I won't be embarrassed to bless you.

Actually, you don't have to ask. That's the answer in the way he looks at you when you look at him!

Then you can study with him!

Or you can really ask him if he really likes you?

Good luck!

Love is all in waves, haha......There must be many children who have not yet fallen in love, or have just stepped into love.

It is said that falling in love is a very happy and happy thing. But this is also a premise, that is, you have to talk about love. In this way, you will feel the sweetness of falling in love.

Now let's share with you what issues you need to pay attention to when you fall in love for the first time.

1. The first date must be short.

Since it is a relationship, couples can't avoid dating. What are the things that couples need to pay attention to when they go on their first date? When couples meet for the first time, they should remain mysterious and not stay together for too long.

Because couples are dating for the first time, they will definitely be excited, and there is not much to talk about. So try to keep the time short. The best date is best at lunchtime.

If it ends perfectly, it means that there will be further development for the two of you. Otherwise, you will face a breakup.

2. Be curious about love.

There will be a lot of topics to talk about as couples get to know each other. Maybe you don't know much about what the other person is talking about. Maybe you're good at playing games, but the other person talks to you more about cross-stitch, then we need to be curious, listen attentively, and whatever the other person says, you should keep it in mind.

Maybe you'll find something more interesting. A successful relationship is not only about being a qualified confidant, but also about being a qualified listener. You will only be more successful if the two are perfectly combined.

3. Don't think that if you fall in love, you will be together.

First of all, you have to be confident. To put it in detail: if you don't just have your own merits, you don't think you are attractive, how can you let others believe in you?

Don't always think that this is not good, that is not good. Some boys will say, "I'm too short...

Some girls will say: I'm too fat... Actually, two people are together, and that's not the point.

The point is to put your heart into it. It's not to tell people to be too confident, so that people will say that you are arrogant.

Fourth, don't think of love as a burden on life.

Don't think of falling in love as a big deal, put too much weight on it, so that it will be easier to get nervous. It's easier to make mistakes... Be sure to take it easy so that you can bring out the best in yourself.

5. Don't lose yourself when you fall in love.

There are many girls who are desperate to get the love of a handsome guy in their hearts, and even sacrifice themselves to change for the sake of boys, in fact, the same is true for boys. It's not a good thing to lose yourself like that. A child with personality and self will please more people, right?

The above is a summary of a few questions to pay attention to when you fall in love for the first time, and give them to couples who have just stepped into love.

I don't feel like I need to change myself deliberately, just do it according to my feelings, and I thought before that if I fell in love, I wouldn't need to do this, I wouldn't use that. It's naïve to think about it now. At that point you will naturally know what to do, and you will know what to do with this girl.

Good luck.

It's very similar to my husband's personality, he is also 25 I met and I didn't have any previous experience in love, we naturally came together, as long as you are brave enough to take the first step, everything will fall into place, and you don't need to think too much about it.

First of all, we must slowly understand the girl's preferences, so that we can shorten the distance between each other, as a boy, we must learn to tolerate our girlfriends, since we have contacted girls, we must learn to give, learn to change ourselves.

When you fall in love, you have to be generous, you have to be thoughtful, you have to make the girl feel that you are very reliable, including the two of you go out on a date, you have to think about today's itinerary, you have to think about all aspects, including if it rains, what arrangements do you have, there are many things to consider, and you have to tell the girl what you think, then she will adore you, feel that you are very reliable, very secure.

If you want to get married, then you have to show your most positive side, and your small shortcomings must be slowly let the other party know and adapt, and the relationship needs to be run-in.

Don't be too careful with your interactions......That feels fake......If you are true to yourself, the woman doesn't like it, and you can only say that you are not suitable for .........

What should I pay attention to, two people must have been together for a period of time at the beginning.

In this way, his girlfriend will also be sad and even feel that she is not important.

Since he chose her, then he must learn to accept her. In other words, if he himself is not good-looking, if he is looked down upon by the opposite sex, it will also hurt his self-esteem. First of all, it is not a question of the so-called love between men and women, but about the quality of his person.

Men, don't look at other people's appearance is very important, the better the appearance, not necessarily the charm, sometimes it is inversely proportional. For example, some people are very good-looking, but they just feel that if they don't have that layer of aura, they will find that they are not as good as average-looking people.

Looking for a girlfriend and wife is not looking for a vase, and you have to worry about being remembered by thieves every day.

If he really loves her girlfriend, he shouldn't care.

If he really cares, it means that he loves face more than his girlfriend.

Then they are not suitable to be together.

Loving someone shouldn't be so superficial.

It just means that your friend doesn't really like it! If you really like it, don't you think it's pretty? Besides, is there a girl who looks so scary now? Are you looking for a girlfriend to show your friends or do you want to live together?

If I were that girl, how could I possibly give him a chance to be so entangled? Turned around and walked away...

Go your own way, don't care too much, care too much about yourself and you can't get along with yourself!

If that friend of yours really likes that girl, he won't say that the girl is pretty...

1. Excessive impulsiveness Impulsiveness is the devil

2. Frequent inspections - often cause the other party to be scared away because they have no personal space at all.

3. Suspicious and suspicious - excessive tension causes misunderstandings

4. I don't understand romance, I am ruthless - lose my attractiveness.

5. Carelessness - creating the illusion that the other party is not taken seriously.

That's all I think of, in love, heart is the key Good luck!!

Too much to think of your own preferences as someone else's preferences. I think that others who like me will like it, but it's not. Ask for the other person's opinion.

Lack of communication. There are many troubles that come with not communicating. It also leads to frequent quarrels and too much obedience. That will make the other person feel very boring.