I have a strained relationship with my friends at school, what should I do?

If you are in an environment, you can't change the environment, you can only adapt to it. What is there about the people around you that you hate besides swearing? If you just like to swear but your character is still kind, you don't need to care too much about the way people speak, you can't change other people's habit of swearing, then you can only try to communicate with them, with your own true thoughts.

Tell them what you want to say. A lot of times if you think about it from a different perspective, you'll feel much better. What is it that others say that they are unpleasant?

Do you find it unpleasant to hear, or are they all talking in a way that you are not used to? If that's the case, then they're not targeting you alone, so you won't feel bad. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky!

Everyone has to have patience, but the older you are, the more frustrations your soul accepts, resulting in swear words, I hope you can be considerate, even if others scold, you have to endure it, this is natural, no one stops it.

Don't look down on people who swear, swearing doesn't mean you want to hurt others, it's not malicious, it's just a habit, or a joke.

The distinction between the noble and the despicable has never included swearing, and do not think that those who swear are bad people, and those who do not swear are civilized people.

If you say that you have done something good, donated half of your family property, or donated your cornea, I will admire you, and if you say that you don't swear, but just like to despise others, I think you are nothing.

If you can be like Lei Feng, no matter how much you swear, someone will admire you, otherwise you will be alone!

The upstairs is full of normal people.

*When there is a conflict between classmates**, the first thing you need to do is calm down. Think about the cause and effect of the contradiction and check if there is a misunderstanding. You can try to find out the situation with another student, or communicate directly with this student calmly.

Sometimes, with just a simple exchange, the knots of two people can be unraveled, and you will find that resolving the conflict turns out to be such a happy thing.

Remember, forbearance can defuse turmoil, and regression can bring about a vast world. In the face of conflicts, we should maintain a tolerant attitude, learn to empathize, and care about the feelings of others. If the problem is difficult to solve, you may wish to seek the help of the teacher to help solve the problem to promote the development of the relationship between teachers, students, and classmates.

As long as you usually maintain friendship and friendliness with your classmates, do not rush or be impatient, do not quarrel or quarrel, and have a tolerant and generous heart, then the situation of conflicts with classmates will be greatly reduced. If contradictions are really inevitable, we should deal with them rationally and rationally.

I don't think there's any need to have such a stiff relationship with classmates just to make a few jokes, even if they like to make boring jokes, you just don't keep quiet, just leave, there's no need to confront them, talk to them, this is not necessary, you can usually say it well, don't make such jokes.

No matter whose fault it is, take the initiative to reconcile with him and show your generosity. If it is your own fault, sincerely apologize, hope that he will forgive, and become good friends again; If it's his fault, think about his goodness, forgive him, and don't make him embarrassed and restrained. No matter what happens, you will always be good classmates and good friends.

Give him a step and regain his old friendship.

Sometimes it's really awkward to chat without paying attention to the occasion, the atmosphere, and the feelings of the party. It's better to wait for a more appropriate time to alleviate it, and if you can't be in a hurry, don't worry too much about the past, and be humble.

There are not many friends, so it's good to be sincere enough. Those who like to make fun of you, don't bother with them.

One punch is opened, lest a hundred blows come. Think about this sentence carefully, don't be too kind.

In our daily lives, we are close to our peers, and although we are not relatives, we get along with each other like relatives. However, although you and your peers are close, you may still quarrel at some point because of conflicts. At this time, if you realize that it is your fault, you should immediately take measures to make up for it and maintain your relationship with your peers.

Specifically, at this time, you should respond by immediately apologizing to win the forgiveness of your peers, changing the topic and resolving conflicts, and giving gifts to your peers to express your apologies.

1. Immediately apologize and win the forgiveness of your peers, which is the best solution.

When a person makes a mistake, the simplest, most direct, and most effective solution is to admit the mistake and apologize. ......Although doing so will make you very embarrassed, but after all, you are at fault, so even if you feel bad, you must admit your mistake and apologize, which is what you must do. ......For the intimate relationship between yourself and your peers, if you find out that it is your fault after a quarrel, then immediately apologizing will minimize the impact and make the relationship between yourself and your companion not affected in any way.

2. Changing the topic, downplaying and resolving contradictions, can maintain your relationship with your peers.

When you make a mistake, you need to take steps to make amends. ......Choosing to apologize can make you feel embarrassed, so it's perfectly understandable to choose something else. ......For example, you can change the topic to downplay and eventually eliminate the conflict between yourself and your peers, which is also very effective and can effectively maintain the relationship between yourself and your peers.

3. Giving gifts to companions can express apologies and ultimately resolve conflicts.

When you quarrel with your peers, you must take practical action to recoup the impact. ......At this time, you can choose to give a gift to your companion, which can not only resolve the conflict, but also take the initiative to show your companion your sincerity, and then get his forgiveness, so that the quarrel and contradiction will pass, and the two parties can reconcile as before, and be close and close friends again.