My son is three years old and goes to kindergarten, why is he always with girls and not playing with

In fact, there is nothing strange about it, my daughter always recited the names of male classmates when she went home at the beginning of kindergarten, it may be that those classmates are more outstanding and lively in kindergarten, so children are more willing to play with such children!

Is it true that when your children are young or at home, they spend more time with their mothers, grandmothers, and grandmothers? He is more inclined to girls, more familiar, and takes care of him more, he is more willing to approach girls, thinking that girls are safer, leaving home in kindergarten, leaving the familiar environment, so that his heart can be more steady!

When the teacher begins to give toys to the children to play in the kindergarten at a certain stage, there is a distinction between boys and girls, boys and girls play differently, and the teacher will also distinguish between doing activities and something, and the time rules are long, and naturally the children are used to playing separately between men and women.

If you have concerns, you might as well give you some advice, that is, whether there are relatives, friends, colleagues at home, neighbors, children playing downstairs in the community, also boys, you take out more so that your baby is with them and have more contact, of course, the adult must be within his line of sight, (let him see you at a glance) let go, let go of his worries, let him play with them! Children are very good at communicating on their own, it doesn't matter if you don't get in at first, you also join in to play, (it's better to be Dad, Mom and Dad are better!) Play with your son, with these children, participate in these games a few times, and when your son finds out that "it will be very fun, it will be safe, and it will be fun" to play with the boys, and he will naturally want to play with the boys, and even take the initiative to play with them.

In fact, the kindergarten teachers are still very willing to communicate with parents (the kindergarten teachers I am in contact with now are quite dedicated, and I also like to communicate with parents about the situation of their children, they know more about your children, and they are easy to bring!). It's okay to ask them to arrange for your son to play games with the little boy or something.

Personally, I think that as long as your children don't particularly reject, hate, and hide from boys to play together, then it's nothing, and it's better for boys and girls to be in contact! Hehe, hope it helps you and your child.

Is there a significant difference between a child in kindergarten and at home? If there is a significant difference, find out why there is a problem based on the difference!

Mom can also try to do this:

1 When picking up the child from school every day, parents can ask the teacher how the child is doing during the day? Did you have any friction with your children? Is there anything he's particularly happy about today?

3 As an exchange, tell your child about the happiness and difficulties that the mother who has been working for a day has encountered today. I hope that I can use this to explore the inner thoughts of children.

4 Ask your child what he thinks of his classmates. Are there any classmates who make him feel better? Or a classmate who makes him particularly annoying? If so, why do these classmates make children annoying? Did he do something that he hated?

1 For "bullying" children, teach children to communicate and solve problems.

Mom can teach her children to communicate with them, why bully me? Do you want to play with me? You hurt me, I don't like to play with you anymore! You call me, and I will hear you. ”

2 If they are bullying classmates.

You can talk to the teacher so that the child's own morale should not be low! Tell your child that when being bullied, running away is not cowardice, but a means to protect yourself. Although the bully child is strong, I am not afraid of you.

I ran away because I didn't think of an argument. If the warning is useless, and he is really bullied to the point that he can't bear it, then avoid the key point and beat him up!

3. Be lenient with others and accept the shortcomings of others.

If there is a small problem with the classmates, we can help or tolerate! Because no one is perfect, my mother also has problems.

Again, they have merit, don't they?

If the child can't make friends, as a parent, the mother can "help" the child make friends!

1 Prepare a small snack for your baby to share with everyone.

2 When school is out, take your children to play with them more.

3 On weekends, you can also make an appointment with your parents to play.

4 See what interest classes the children have signed up for? Are there any children interested? Increase contact time and develop common hobbies.

Parents should take their children to participate in collective parent-child activities, so that children have a sense of collective participation, encourage and praise children in the process, and cultivate his sense of independence, so that babies can quickly adapt to the new environment and love to make friends.

Don't worry, just enter the kindergarten is not suitable for group life, wait for a period of time to meet new children, familiar with kindergarten life will play with children.

You should communicate with your child more often, find out why your child does not play with other children, and then communicate with the teacher to help your child integrate into the environment.

Mainly because the psychological strength is not enough, the child has just gone to a strange environment, it is inevitable that he will have a rejection of this environment, he does not know whether the surroundings are safe, he needs to be familiar and adapted, if a child's psychological strength is not strong enough, then his adaptation period will be extended.

In addition, parents can help their children at home to simulate the scene of interacting with their children, and children may not know how to communicate with other children, and do not know how to integrate into other people's groups, especially in an environment that they are not familiar with, and children are easy to artificially isolate themselves. This requires the guidance of parents and helps him communicate with others correctly.

Mom can play this game with her child at home, let Dad be the other child, and Mom be her own child, and then Mom walks over to Dad and says, "Hello, can I play with you?" At this time, the father tries to imitate the situation that other children may have, and then the mother shows how to operate it one by one, and finally asks the baby to complete it again on his own.

This is a very effective way to develop your baby's social skills.

Children have low self-esteem and need to be patiently counseled, and they will gradually get better.

Hello parents! Two and a half years old should be the age of nursery, and the difference between genders is not obvious until the child is 3 years old, so parents don't have to worry about why they don't play with boys.

The main reason for this is attractiveness, and it may be that the games and toys that girls play are more attractive. In addition, the development of girls is faster than that of boys of the same age, that is, we are talking about maturity, which is relatively independent and more controllable, and boys are of course willing to play with children who can bring themselves to play, so this is a normal phenomenon.

Hope it helps.

Now you should figure out why your child is crying all the time, is there something happening in kindergarten, is it the teacher, or the child? Children are now in the process of psychological development, and if our parents do not understand the inner world of their children in time, it will be very detrimental to their growth. If everything is fine in kindergarten, teachers and children are very good to him, it means that the problem lies in the baby, we adults should consider how to guide the child how to treat the problem of kindergarten correctly, if it is said that the child is hurt in the kindergarten, then the child should be transferred to the kindergarten, change a good environment so that the child receives a better education.

I think it's time for you to get to know the front of the side and talk to the teacher to find out why your child doesn't like to go to kindergarten.

Three-and-a-half-year-olds should be able to understand something. Some of them were filmed when my daughter didn't like to go to kindergarten. I told her very solemnly

Mom and dad are responsible for going to work so that they can earn money to make a good life for their baby. The baby's task is to go to the kindergarten and be educated there. We all have to work hard to get it done.

I think it's also important that you should communicate more with the teacher. Because children spend most of the day in kindergarten, teachers should generally have ways to guide children to slowly change bad phenomena and behaviors. When we send children to kindergarten, we not only let the children and teachers take care of the children, but more importantly, let the children be educated, whether in terms of IQ or emotional intelligence.

Teachers have the obligation to impart knowledge to children, and also have the obligation to correctly educate children how to behave and do things, and cultivate children from the perspective of personality.

As parents, we should communicate more with our children, bring our children into contact with the environment, communicate more with teachers, cooperate with teachers, and guide and cultivate children correctly at home.