Do you think calculating is an advantage or a disadvantage?

Calculated, most of them are caused by a bad family environment. Their behavior is really inappropriate and will cause confusion to those who get along with him. But people are not as good as heaven, and suffering is a blessing, and he has lost far more than this cheapness.

We who are calculated, please don't lower our stature and get by. This tolerance and generosity will also make you who you will be in the future. Otherwise, you will be reduced to the same kind before you know it.

Keep your mouth shut, don't let him get to know you, and pay more attention to the other person's situation.

Actually, I'm a more generous person, but if I really find out that I have this kind of friend around me, I will choose to have less contact with him, and if it is unavoidable, I will never let him have another chance to calculate me. In fact, in my opinion, for those who love to take advantage of small advantages, we might as well be open-minded and don't worry about their own gains and losses with them, because this kind of people, if you reason with them, it doesn't make much sense, as long as the benefits will not be particularly large.

No one will be calculated by their so-called friends, and they can continue to get along with him regardless of their previous suspicions. For this kind of person who calculates others everywhere, in fact, it is best to let them feel the position where they are being calculated.

Don't accept the other party's small favors, keep a proper distance, don't talk about the people and things around you, the other party's point of view neither agrees nor opposes, the other party's unreasonable request to learn to be silent or euphemistic refusal, the last point is the most difficult to do, but it is also a killer weapon to deal with calculating people.

I have come into contact with such people, calculating with my parents, calculating with my boyfriend, and interacting with ordinary friends and colleagues. I feel poor all day long, and these are the things that nag about, but in fact, I am richer than anyone else.

Learn to look down, there are many such people now, and if you find out, stay away from such people, there is no need to make deep friends and ignore him. If you meet such a person, you must learn to see through his scheming and don't be fooled yourself.

There is no need to expose him, such a person should not get too close to him, if you get too close, you will suffer and be prone to conflicts, as long as he does not hurt you, there is no need to care about him.

There are too many people like me in front of me, and I will become more cunning than them, and then I will fight with them and become a social expert, so that they will consciously put away those little tricks.