What did you miss because you didn t listen to your family?

Occasionally, there will be times of regret, in specific circumstances. For example, when we buy a house, it is all my dad's money, and his parents don't have a penny, etc. I don't regret it at other times, after all, I love him, and regret is also regret that I dragged down my parents, but if you don't need the help and support of your parents, there should be no such thing as regret.

Although my husband paid the down payment by my father, he was repaying the loan, and wrote my name, promising that if he divorced, he would leave the house, so as to reassure me, and I think my father should also be pleased.

Have a regular schedule and don't stay up late, eat three meals on time, and being healthy is more important than anything else. Didn't study well, is what I regret the most, at that time longing for freedom, hope for an independent life, no one cares, you can get your so-called freedom, after not reading to feel how naïve it is to feel free and autonomous life, in today's society only by studying hard to get the life you want, let your young people outside through hard work to catch up with their own life is too difficult, from their own life is getting farther and farther away.

When I ran for a month to work, in Beijing to see the survival of boarding houses, I tried my best but just found a job that required me to work overtime until half past eight in the evening every day, and worked on Saturdays, and the salary was meager, when I really experienced what it was like to live without security, when I had a stomach ache at a meal near the company at noon every day, I really regretted it, sometimes I regretted it and wanted to cry, why didn't I listen to my parents and prepare for the exam for a hometown career editor, Why did I lose my heart when I was young and light chicken soup, believing that I was going to break through when I was young, but I ran out and mixed up like a dog, being squeezed by the boss, and I didn't have a little space and time of my own, it's really boring to think about.

Distant marriage. The parents on both sides are not in the same city as us, and from pregnancy to the child's one-and-a-half-year-old self-suffering, only I know the hardships, and I will cry when I collapse. When people use it, they hate less, and they don't dare to get sick with their teammates, otherwise life will come to a halt.

Fortunately, teammates are more powerful with babies. In the future, I will go back to the workplace to be discussed, and even if I go back, the treatment will not return to the past, after all, I have to talk about picking up my children from school early from work.

At first, my father didn't support me skateboarding, saying how to support myself after skateboarding. I didn't believe it, no matter if he cut my skateboard shoes or threw away my skateboard, I still insisted on it, hiding my skateboard at a friend's house and practicing secretly every day after school, until he got the ranking in the local competition, and he began to change. After ten years of playing, he was injured, and he couldn't go on the road of skateboarding at all, and when he looked back, he found that a twenty-five-year-old person didn't even have a skill other than skateboarding.

Now twenty-nine, work and life are very stable, and the children will come out at the end of the year. But sometimes I regret that I have spent ten years on a technique that does not rely on my body to eat, how far I can delve into it, and whether it can give my children richer resources.

When I got married, I regretted not listening to my parents, I recognized my husband at that time, I didn't care that he didn't have a house, a car, no money, I didn't care that he worked outside all the year round, I didn't care what his parents and family members were, and I resolutely got married despite the persuasion of my parents. But after getting married and conceiving a baby, there are too many helplessness, a person goes to work while pregnant, takes care of himself to eat and drink, and my husband comes back to see me once every two or three months on average.

I left a state-owned enterprise at 27 this year, and my parents said that you should come home early, but I always want to do something by myself, even if I am busy. Time is very expensive, but I am unemployed for a month, but I think the gap in the early stage allows me to choose the direction of the future, and I want to choose my own choice, and I don't want my parents to intervene too much. But your parents say you're still young.

After getting married, I saw that everything was as my parents expected, and regretted that I didn't listen to my parents at the beginning, so I made a desperate bet to marry him. I wish I could turn back the clock and make sure I listened to my parents.