How to properly deal with the current contradiction between non marriage and family succession?

I'm not a firm non-marriage. But for parents to be relieved, you need to work on humanity: let them recognize that you are an individual, and give them the freedom to choose their marriage more easily than lose you.

For them who are accustomed to guiding your behavior with the authority of the patriarch, understand that these are cruel and will make them lose part of their survival expectations and life values. Losing you doesn't mean hurting yourself, it's just that you reduce your contact with them or simply don't contact them for a while. But occasionally, for example, when Baba Ma Ma has a birthday, remember to hit ** when you should call**, and hang it after saying your birthday wishes, don't listen to other words.

Don't miss the gifts you should buy. You must know that good medicine is good for disease.

And the reason why you still have to greet them occasionally is to tell them: on the matter, you are still their child, but please don't interfere if you shouldn't interfere. The subconscious mind creates an impression on them:

He or she is still my child, but what should not be interfered should not be interfered. In addition, there are many unhappy people around me who get married hastily, so tell your parents more details. Facts are the most convincing.

In this fast-paced Internet era, the usual work efficiency and quality of work are particularly important, a slight delay will be pulled down, we not only have to use our brains to think, but also hurt the body to stay up late, not to mention the rest of the time to find an object to relieve the fatigue of work, sleep time is not necessarily guaranteed, even if you are married, you are busy with your own business, and then take a step back and say that you have children and have no energy to take care of, and you have to leave your parents to take care of them, and then look at the education of our parents, Some of them are wrong education methods, but there was no way to solve them in that era, everyone wanted to make their next generation better, and now the education methods obtained through various programs are also more correct, of course, I want to have children and discipline children when I have energy.

If I could, I would also like to join the ranks of those who are infertile in marriage. In fact, we can clearly feel that even if the two-child policy is opened now, there are still many young people who are unwilling to have children, or have more children. The cost of raising a child is really high now, so having an extra one will put a little more pressure on yourself.

Nowadays, too many young people like to be comfortable, they don't like to make trouble for themselves, and they think that if they want to have children, one is enough. Sometimes I am busy with work and don't have more thoughts on my children. is a more selfish person, he likes to think about everything first, and I have also thought about not getting married, not having children, and fighting for myself all my life.

But this kind of thinking is unrealistic after all, if they don't have children, according to this trend, in the future, having children will become an obligation that women must fulfill, and it will become a mandatory requirement of the state.

Now there is such a trend, most of my friends around me in 92 years got married under the arrangement of their families not long after graduation, we all came out of small towns to work hard, and the family still retains a relatively conservative idea, and after graduation, we must get married as soon as possible, and then find a job to have the next generation. But in a big city like Beijing, there are many people who come into contact with after graduation who have not yet gotten married after 80, and have talked about this matter, many of them do not want to get married, but dare not get married, Beijing is a mature city, the pace of life is fast, like the bottom of us on the road or overtime in a day, after returning to their own residence, they don't want to move, they don't want to talk, they just want to lie down and rest for a while, how can they have the energy to fall in love, find a partner, not to mention shopping, When I go out to play, life in a big city is particularly stressful, and I can't breathe, and from the side, young people nowadays are also forced to get married late and don't want to get married.

As long as they are willing to bear different consequences for different choices, this is their freedom, and I respect them. I don't have such people around me, and I think there should be few people in my generation who have such thoughts, and they haven't married but haven't found a suitable partner for the time being. Now that the state encourages second children, although I respect these unmarried and infertile people, I still think that it is good to have a happy family, and it is best to have a child of my own.

My son is more than two years old this year, and he is so cute that he laughs when he thinks about it, and you don't feel sorry for not having children.

Late marriage and non-marriage are currently becoming a trend, especially for young people struggling in first- and second-tier cities, which is a choice they have to make. In this case, they prefer to spend their time on work and life, have their own space and their own suitable lifestyle, why not, after all, marriage is not the end of life, nor is it the only purpose, every young person has the right to choose. I also hope that this phenomenon can be accepted by society, and even by parents, after all, young people are facing too much pressure at present, this pressure is silent, but it can make people collapse at any time.

I think so, life does not necessarily have to be married and have children to be perfect, because now women have a lot of pursuits, can have their own careers, and live their own lives just as well. For example, I chose not to marry or have children, and now I am an executive of the company, and my monthly income is still okay, and I will go out to travel to broaden my horizons when I have a break, and I will go out shopping and eat with my friends when I have time. In my spare time, I also read some books to increase my knowledge and enrich my mind, which is also the ideal life for me.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that, if my parents hadn't pressed me with tears many years ago, I guess I wouldn't have gotten married, let alone have children. Nowadays, more people will plan to buy a house that is not big or small, give themselves a commercial insurance, a good savings, often see their families, and often go out to travel. It's good not to be complacent, not to compromise, not to be patient, not to be humble.

Nowadays, the pace of society is too fast, and the pressure on young people is increasing. Getting married can only bring more responsibility and pressure to people. Therefore, some people will choose not to get married, so that the pressure on themselves will be less.

And now today's children are more demanding from childhood to adulthood. It really takes too much money and energy to raise a child!

Nowadays, marriage is less secure, and the divorce rate is relatively large, which makes people lose trust in their feelings. Therefore, there will be more and more unmarried and infertile people, because they are insecure, and even if they are married, they do not feel so happy, so there will be more and more unmarried and infertile people.

The parents of our generation in their era are almost all arranged, the parents said that the line is almost settled, the relationship is good and bad, I feel that the majority of those arranged marriages around me can not survive, at first I only thought that the divorce rate in our small city is high, but when I came to Beijing, I found that half of the classmates are divorced families, and there may be misunderstandings about the feelings of the family. Fear of marriage is also human nature.

Modern society is fast-paced, and both life and career are facing certain pressures. In particular, the goal of high-quality life will make a considerable number of people dare not make decisions easily, and even dare not face the hardships of married life, including emotional, material and so on, which may be one of the reasons for the increasing phenomenon of single life.

Some women choose not to marry because of a combination of factors such as personal ideals, lifestyle, and economic independence. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Personal ideals and lifestyle: Some women choose not to marry because they pursue personal ideals and lifestyles, such as career, freedom, independence, etc.

They believe that marriage will constrain their self-respecting life and development, and they do not want to compromise their values and lifestyle for the sake of marriage.

2.Changes in the concept of marriage: With the development of society and the changes of the times, more and more women have begun to realize that marriage is not the only choice, and no longer regard marriage as the ultimate goal of life. They pay more attention to self-realization and the pursuit of self-worth.

3.Changes in the marriage market: With the rapid development of Chinese society, the marriage market has also undergone changes and unionization, with the emergence of "leftover men" and "leftover women", resulting in an increasing number of older single women.

Some women may not find a suitable partner for various reasons and choose to "not marry".

4.Economic independence: With the improvement of women's status in society and the increase of economic income, more and more women can live independently and support their own lives. They are no longer dependent on marriage and men's financial support, and have opted for a more liberal and independent lifestyle.

In conclusion, the choice of "not to marry" is everyone's personal choice and should be respected and understood. Society should provide more diversified life options and give more support and care to single women.

<> recent years, the phenomenon of "not marrying" has gradually become popular in China, and more and more women choose not to marry, or marry later, which has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions in society. So, why do some women choose to "not get married"? I think there are several reasons for this.

First of all, the change in the concept of marriage. With the development of the times and the changes in society, people's concept of marriage is also undergoing great changes. More and more women believe that marriage is not a necessary way in life, but a choice, a part of a person's life, can have or may not have, and this choice should be based on their own wishes and values, rather than social pressure and expectations.

Second, expectations for marriage are different. Compared with the past, women today are more independent and have different expectations for marriage. Many women think that marriage is not about having children or doing housework, but about sharing life with one person, supporting each other, and growing together.

If their values and expectations for the future are far from their potential partner, or they can't find someone who is worth entrusting their life, then they would rather choose to "not marry".

Again, worries about marriage. Many women have a lot of worries about marriage, including whether their married life is happy, whether their other half is loyal, whether they are financially stable, and the dilemma when facing divorce. Faced with these concerns, some women choose to "not marry" because they feel that being single is more free and secure than the risks and pains of getting married.

Finally, personal development and pursuit. One of the reasons why many women choose to "not marry" is to pursue their careers and personal growth. They believe that marriage will have an impact on their career development and self-fulfillment, and that it is very difficult to choose between family and career.

In contrast, choosing to be single gives you more freedom to pursue your dreams and goals.

In general, there are many reasons why women choose to "not marry", and this phenomenon is a product of the changing times and social development.

The reason why unmarried people don't get married is mostly because of these three reasons, don't believe it.

What is the reason for non-marriage? Li Yinhe analyzed to the "International Herald Leader" that first, because women are becoming more and more financially independent, they do not need men or marriage to survive, which is the factor that "pulls" them out of marriage; Another reason is to "push" them to the opposite side of marriage, that is, the shortcomings of the marriage system itself, such as extramarital affairs and extramarital sex, all reflect the problems of the current marriage system itself. In fact, not getting married does not mean that there is no love or sex, and unmarried women should also have their own reproductive rights.

When there is no better way to find a better way for the marriage system, it seems that more and more people choose to live together to avoid the "troubles" of marriage, try to enjoy a simple life, and be financially independent of each other.

The French beauty politician Royal and her partner have lived together for 25 years and have 4 children, but they have never had time to get a license. Although they still "made time" to complete the marriage formalities after deciding to run for France, people will not forget that she used the words "capitalist system" to describe marriage.

Perhaps this is an extreme example, but in many metropolises in China, many young people also regard "cohabitation" as a normal thing, and even an inevitable transition from love to marriage. Li Yinhe believes that cohabitation will be the trend of society in the future, but in the current domestic environment where family values are particularly valued, marriage is still the first choice of Chinese people.

Whether out of desperation or by choice, the ranks of unmarried people in China are gradually expanding. Although there is no social problem yet, sooner or later it will pose serious challenges to marriage traditions, laws and the social security system.