What s it like to suddenly find yourself old?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When I was a child, I always longed to become an adult; When I was young, I always joked that I was old. Do you think people really grow old? Actually, no, one day you will suddenly find yourself old.

    Those signs of aging hidden in the body, those mature thoughts that suddenly burst out, are you like them, you also have such momentary ......Looking in the mirror and finding that there are wrinkles in the corners of the eyes, I feel back pain when I wash the dishes, when I am in the New Year, I will no longer have the excitement of having children, there will always be some life experience in my heart, I don't know the stars, I am not fanatical, I have converged my character, I am willing to believe that marriage should be chosen rather than love, the ID card is from the last century, the more I use toilet paper, the slower it is, there are some dreams that I dare not do, and some people dare not think about it, I gradually began to stop doing something because of curiosity, but began to care about the so-called efficiency and meaning. I know that I am more like an ordinary normal person who does not drill the horns of the bull, but I understand that the moment I decide to give up, I am no longer the same person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When a man grows old, he is like an old corn stalk in an autumn cornfield, which withers and turns yellow. This is the law of nature. When people are old and far away from the red dust, they must forget the glory and wealth of the past.

    When you are old, you are just an ordinary old man. Everyone is the same: white hair, wrinkles gradually spread all over the face, unable to do anything, legs and feet are not flexible, the back is hunched, walking with crutches, eyes are also glazed, ears can no longer hear clearly, and speech is hoarse.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the past year, I feel that I have grown old, mainly because of the change in personality, I like to be quiet, and my previous hobbies are gone, such as dancing, listening to songs and writing things. I want to buy something I like, sometimes I feel tired, my physical strength is exhausted, and I like to reminisce about the past. With all these changes, I think I'm getting old.

    But others said that I should apply for a bus card for the elderly, which is convenient for taking the bus without money, but I am very annoying, and I don't want to hear the words "old man card" when I swipe the card. So I don't do it, but I have a feeling that people are sad when they get old.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I've been through a lot of things, and I feel overwhelmed! I don't have the ability to take care of the old and the young, I feel that I am really old, I feel that I am becoming more and more useless, and I feel that it is a very terrible thing to get old.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Suddenly there were a lot of gray hairs on his head, his body began to gain weight, his waist became thicker, and he was wearing expensive clothes, all of which were bucket waists, shapeless, and he began to pant when he climbed the fourth floor of the child's school.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    From the very beginning, my aunt saw you call you a little girl, and she came out to work at such a young age! Isn't it a minor! Until now, here is Auntie, call Auntie!

    From the beginning I like to wear dark clothes, slim fit, ** to now I like bright clothes, I like casual, loose clothes!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I had 2,000 yuan in my pocket, and I suddenly wanted to buy something delicious in the future, and I was rich enough to buy it, so I went around the supermarket for an hour, bought a bottle of water, and found that I was suddenly getting old.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At over 70 years old, aging has firmly attached itself to me. Withered hair and teeth are shaking, and the face is twilight, "the curtain is swept by the west wind, and people are thinner than yellow flowers".

    The brain is slow to respond, and the pen is poor. The three or two hundred words of the essay written by Wu Chaxiang now needs to search for dry intestines and meditate hard. Some of the Tang and Song poems stored in my mind when I was young have long been gone.

    Wake up at three or four in the morning, tossing and turning, unable to meet your eyelashes. It is in response to the ancients' "young chickens crow on the pillow, and the old Xun orange spring people wait for the roosters to crow on the pillow".

    The myopia of the eyes has deepened, and it is said that myopia will not be presbyopia when it is old, but I am not, and now it is both myopic and presbyopia.

    Aging is irreversible, the end of the years, Ying is indifferent, and the ordinary life is good, so that the flowers bloom.

    Life is the only way, time is the most real, can't hide the passage of time, can't cover the wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, can't go back to the lightness.

    Life always goes by year by year, and when they don't understand it, the children have grown up, looking at the immature faces, they are in a trance to their actual age, and the psychological age is always less than the real age.

    Twenty-year-old youth, like a brocade of youth;

    The life of thirty years old is your own life;

    At the age of forty, the children have gradually grown up;

    The only thing that can be done is to often mention the mistakes you have experienced to your children, use your own life experience to teach them repeatedly, and often communicate with your children where they realize that there are shortcomings, and try to let them know a little more, a little more.

    Young children grow up day by day, and their middle-aged selves are savoring life every day.

    Time flies, I am not afraid of getting old, I just want to be happy and fulfilled every day, and live a good life with my family.

    I hope that my relatives will be healthy and safe, and it is enough to wish.

    Yes, a sense of loss.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When did you realize that you weren't young anymore?

    Normal feeling. That is, when your next generation grows up. You realize that you are very old. I really feel old. In general, this is just a fact that has to be admitted, and the same is true when you feel it for the first time.

    In other words, when some of your peers call you uncle or uncle, you will suddenly feel that you are really old. This situation is easy to encounter in real life, and you may have experienced it too. Others naturally have physical changes. And this change manifests itself in:

    First of all. You feel like you're not as physically strong as you used to be.

    Why aren't things as neat as they used to be? Agile. Then you will feel your hair gradually turn gray.

    At this time, I really felt like I wasn't young anymore, and secondly, the rest of my body. It turns out to be overall energetic now. I have no energy during the day, and Fan Qi can't sleep at night.

    It felt as if I had completely lost my body. Actually, it's a symptom of old age.

    You're gradually. It's not like it used to be. Can work.

    Resistant to fatigue. Right now. No longer.

    In other words, the people who were able to eat and sleep before became. People who can't work or sleep. I lost my appetite after eating, but I was fine before.

    Gradually, at this time, you will find that you are indeed becoming old and cautious.

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