I m not confident and don t know how to get along with old employees?

Actually, it may be that you think too much about it.

They don't necessarily see you that way, for example, if you smile at him, he turns his head or goes the other way.

You said it, too. You're on your first day at work, and people may have something going on.

It may also be because I don't know you well.

If that's really the case.

Here are a few things you can do.

Just advise) to be confident in yourself.

Communicate with your colleagues a lot.

When eating with your colleagues, don't leave yourself alone. Then they will think that they are too proud.

Take care of personal and business matters, and work with peace of mind.

Don't be too nervous about socializing with people, just treat them as friends...

You just arrived at the company, people don't know you, of course there will be nothing to say, strive to give a good impression to colleagues, strive for goodwill, find more relaxed topics to chat about the next day... You'll find that the distance will be a lot closer!

What do you do? When you don't know each other, you can't expect others to be too enthusiastic about you. You first try to slowly understand their habits, what they like, and where they need help when they are working.

Don't be too anxious to socialize with them, because there may be some people whose personalities are not suitable for you, and it will be embarrassing when you are estranged in the future.

Do you eat together at the cafeteria or buy a boxed lunch? If it's the former, you don't have to worry, since everyone is not familiar with it, you don't need to pay attention to anything, but you can see what dishes they like, and you will have a bottom when you help with the dishes in the future. The latter, you can ask, ask the kinder one, in fact, the best way to integrate into a circle is to get close to the most kind, the easiest person to get along with, and it will slowly get better in the future, come on!

You've just been out of contact with people for a long time, and you're not used to group activities.

Take the initiative to address others when you see them, and your voice should be loud. Raising your head when you walk makes you feel very energetic, it's not a big deal, isn't it just a face. Listen to my !!

Actually, I'm a little similar to you.

I think that in order to fit into that circle, you have to have common ground with them.

I am a student, and we have a small circle in our class.

Hobby basketball.

Loves to learn.

Hobby. You look at what your colleagues are talking about, and then you look at more information about what they're talking about, and you can get in with them for a long time.

Try it as I say.

Hopefully you're no longer alone

Work is to do things and observe how others do it.

I won't humbly ask for advice, but like everyone else, don't make it too outrageous, laugh less, and don't scare my colleagues.

Naturally, some as well.

The first thing you have to do in this matter is, don't be in a hurry, you can't be in a hurry to speak, talking is only a habit, and if you don't have this habit, it will only backfire. If you don't know what to say, at least turn your mouth into dessert first, brother, sister, uncle, aunt, just shout, put your own figure down first, don't keep thinking, as soon as I speak, people ignore me, it's too embarrassing, so you can never open your mouth, and then try to talk to some strangers you don't know at all, start with the weather if there is no topic, force yourself, and practice until you are not nervous.