I feel like I don t have a future to do 20

Don't think so, you'd better find a friend to talk to, vent some accumulated grievances in your heart, and just say anything.

I'm sending you an article in the hope that you can get some inspiration, and don't give up on yourself until the world doesn't give up on you.

Each person carries a heavy cross on their backs and is slowly and struggling towards their destination.

On the way, a man suddenly stopped. He thought to himself: This cross is too heavy, how many years and months will it take to carry it like this?!

So, he took out his knife and made a surprising decision: he decided to cut off some of the crosses.

He did it and began to cut down the cross ...

After cutting it off, it was indeed much easier to walk, and his pace couldn't help but speed up.

So, and so I walked and walked and walked and walked and walked for a long, long, long time. He thought to himself: Even though he had cut off a piece of the cross just now, it was still too heavy.

In order to be able to move forward faster and easier, this time, he decided to cut off another large piece of the cross.

He started chopping again...

In this way, he suddenly felt a lot more relaxed!

As I walked, I suddenly saw a deep and wide ravine in front of me! There is no bridge over the ditch and no road around. At this time, there was no Spider-Man or Superman to come out and rescue him ......He, what should he do?!

The people behind them slowly caught up, and they built a bridge on the ditch with the cross they carried, and calmly crossed the ravine.

He also wanted to do the same. It's a pity that his cross has been cut off a long section before, and it can't be made into a bridge to help him cross the ravine!

So, while everyone else was moving on towards the goal, he could only stop where he was, dejected, and regretful. At this time, a sentence echoed in his mind: There was once a complete cross on my shoulder, which I did not cherish properly, and I regretted it until I needed it.

There is no greater pain in the world than this! ......

In fact, each of us carries a variety of crosses every day, and we are struggling to move forward. It may be our learning, maybe it is our work, maybe it makes our emotions, maybe it is the responsibility and obligation that we have to bear. But it is these responsibilities and obligations that constitute the reason and value of our existence in this world.

Therefore, please don't complain about the heavy study, the hard work, and the great responsibility, because the real happiness is the result of the challenge, and we will not experience the hearty happiness without experiencing deep pain!

There is some darkness that can only be traversed by oneself; There is some pain that can only be experienced by oneself; Some are lonely, and they can only taste it by themselves. However, through the darkness, we must be able to feel the temperature of the sun; Out of pain, we will be able to reach the height of growth; Say goodbye to loneliness, we will also be able to harvest the depth of the soul!

Life is like this, work is like this, and so is feelings!! The only one who can comfort oneself is always oneself; The only one who can give yourself strength is always yourself!

Everyone's life has a period of trough on the road, you are still very young, it is normal to be confused about the future, everyone has had this experience, but life needs time to hone, hone our mind, you are just a kind of trouble when you were young, you can have this kind of worry about the future should be something to be happy about, indicating that you are self-motivated, as a person, you must go through various trough tribulations, to be able to persevere is the greatest courage and courage, when you experience, When you look back, you will realize that it was a fortune.

Friends, what we want on the road of life is our determination and courage to never give up, don't be discouraged, everyone has a time when they can't see the future clearly, as long as we persist in working hard, the future will let you see the direction.

This kind of trouble of yours is very similar to what I did back then, it is a rare thing to have a life, we have not reaped any success, and we want to end it, which is the biggest irresponsibility in life, I hope you can find the courage, you can.

What are you arguing with at home? Calm down and talk to your family.

The future is not given by others, you have to understand it.

Your future is created by yourself.

Develop your own interests and hobbies, show your sincerity, and make sincere friends.

Get to know more thoughtful friends.

After communicating with the people around you, you will grow up slowly.

Fill yourself up.

Don't think that you are sad and troubled, people should accept what you say, people are not garbage stations in a bad mood, there is no obligation, you have to learn to cultivate some interests, even if you have no friends now, then at least you have what you love to do, and you will not let yourself think crankily every day, and live bravely out of yourself. Maybe in your interest, there will be unexpected gains to find like-minded people...

Why do you feel like there is no future? I don't see what reason you have and why you can't see the future.

Actually, you're not mature yet, because you can't do anything right now, and all you need to do right now is to study hard, can't you use learning as a motivation for life? You yourself want to cut off your future, what can be saved.

Relax your mind, be confident in yourself, and buy a copy of Dale Carnegie's book, it should help you!

I think you should say why you're arguing with your family.

It's not that you don't have ideals, it's not that you're not motivated, it's not that you don't know what to do.

It's that you're so depressed. Friends are needed.

I can make friends with you, too.

I also feel that I don't have a future, I'm too cowardly, I'm afraid that I will gnaw on the old clan in the future.

I think as a man since he is married, he should take on the responsibility of the family, income is not the main problem, as long as he is happy, but be self-motivated, if he loves you, he will find a way to make your life better, I also play games but it is based on a stable life, and I don't know if you think about the future life when you think about getting married, marriage is not hot-headed, but a real life. I think if you are all self-motivated, life is getting better day by day, parents will also be impressed, if you keep doing this, parents will think that they were right at the beginning, you must know that parents oppose or agree to live a happy life for their children, so work hard for your happiness! Bless you all!

You're not married, you're just engaged, and you feel like the future is bleak.

To be honest, you have already begun to care in your heart that he is not educated, has no stable income, and is not self-motivated.

This shows that you see the gap and the incompatibility between the two of you. Then it should be broken.

Because after getting married, these dissatisfaction will be magnified many times. If there is no future, why hold on?

I hope you will talk to the boys about your grievances. I don't think academic qualifications matter, but it's important whether a person is enterprising and responsible. If you two want to get married and live, it will never work without an economic foundation.

If he doesn't realize any of this at all, you can consider breaking up. After all, you can also choose what suits you more than hanging yourself from this tree.

Have a good talk with your boyfriend, academic qualifications are not an excuse to stop you from moving forward.

What do you hope for?

What did you love about her when you were with him?

What advantages does he have now less than before?

Do academic qualifications really matter?

Behind a successful man there is definitely a successful woman! If there is still love between you, then everything is beautiful, and love deliberately changes everything! Bless you all!

Faithfully advise you to break up with him as soon as possible.

The longer the time drags on, the deeper the pain will drag, and now the question is how to break up quickly and completely, and let him go to his other half with peace of mind.

You can only do a little ruthlessness, let him despair of you, it will be very troublesome to break the thread.

Hope is earned by yourself, not given by others, serious efforts will be rewarded, persistence is victory.

I also feel hopeless, but for my own sake, I must continue to be strong.

Then work hard and get a job!

It's good to find some work to fill out.

Good people don't live long, bad people live for 10,000 years.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Go for it! The feeling now is only temporary, live in the present, live the present steadfastly, don't think too much, work hard towards the current goal, after a while, do you still believe in yourself, stick to your original intention, and move forward bravely. No matter whether the result is good or bad, the future is spelled out by yourself, you feel that you have not worked hard, or you have not worked hard to the way you should work, you must know that your future is your way out, no one will pave your future for you.

So, you, go ahead, you have your back, that's us.

In fact, if you don't think about it seriously now, you still feel that you have a future, but when you have nothing to do, you want to think about life, and you feel that you have no future at all, really, you don't work hard now, you always think about illusory things, and your actual practices and your own ideas are always not on the same road, alas, I don't want to work hard, but I also have to make myself full of confidence, don't feel that my future life is hopeless, and I am full of disgust for the whole society, I must always encourage myself, be kind to myself, come on, brother, the current society The opportunity to get rich overnight is still very small, hard work will pay off, of course, it doesn't mean that hard work will be rewarded, but if you don't work hard, there will be no return, this society is to look at money and power, work hard, make yourself more powerful, make yourself richer, and then you will have face.

What you want to say is that you don't know what to do next, right, you don't think it's your goal to achieve, every day as always, you drink the chicken soup that everyone knows written by others on your mobile phone, and then your body is a little warmer, and you plan to make a plan that can realize your dreams. Every day I plan to treat my lunch can only be fooled around, drink Red Bull in the afternoon or rely on the sky to survive, go back at night and finally lie down and be scolded, want to use the rest of the time to achieve it, but the day is in a daze, I feel that even if I work hard, I will be defeated by various things, or I can't always see the return, in fact, this is normal, because the world is quite unreasonable, not that what you do, you will 100% return something, But what you do must be meaningful, and all we can do is stand up again and again, raise the flag again, and move forward toward our hopes.

Because there is no other way for us to do so.