I discussed with my boyfriend about the bride price of the house, I feel that I am very materialisti

Since you feel that you are very materialistic and greedy, you might as well ask for less bride price, or try not to go too far.

After all, getting married now is too expensive for the man.

Not to mention that the family is rich, we are basically ordinary people, and it is not enough to earn money for decades to buy a house, not to mention buying a car and giving the woman a bride price.

The house bride price, everyone can get by on the face, don't pursue too high, it is easy to affect the relationship between the two of you.

Of course, if your boyfriend's family conditions are good and he doesn't say anything about the bride price house, then it doesn't matter if you want a little more, but people can't be too greedy, after all, you want to marry him for a lifetime, don't let crawl have a thorn in your heart because of the wedding bride price.

If your boyfriend is not very good at adding some conditions, and he has tried his best to buy you a house, then the bride price may as well be appropriately reduced, so that he will be full of gratitude when he thinks of this in the future.

Marriage is based on love, it is two people who love each other for a lifetime, not purely for the purpose of possessing money, and they can get by! The days are your own, not for others to see.

Because of these things about the bride price of the house, I discussed with my boyfriend, and I felt that I was very materialistic and greedy, and it can be seen that you are a good girl and have a very kind heart.

For this problem, you can understand it in this way, it is a normal phenomenon to have a bride price problem, and it is also a good thing that there is a problem between the two people to discuss the amount. So there's no need to dwell too much.

In love, for couples who are about to enter the palace of marriage, the most feared thing is to talk about the bride price before marriage. Because talking about the bride price is related to the choice of interests of the two families, it can also be seen from the side that the humanity and three views of the man and the woman can be seen. Whether it is for the man or the woman who is buried in the stuffy liquid brother, they don't want to make the other party feel the material reality when talking about the bride price.

But reality is reality, and the bride price is clearly something to be solved. At this time, the couple who was a couple on weekdays became a good hand at negotiating business. Once you feel that you are being taken advantage of by the other party, there will be a quarrel, and then it will affect the relationship and the wedding.

For couples in many real-life cases, it is that the bride price cannot stand the test, and the negotiation has completely collapsed, and the love is gone. In fact, the "bride price" has always been a sensitive topic. After all, the woman's family raised her daughter so big, and it was reasonable to ask for a bride price.

However, the amount of the bride price should also take into account the man's own family, and if the family is wealthy, it does not care about the bride price. However, if the economic conditions of the man's family are not good, and the woman's family opens his mouth, it is indeed a bit inappropriate, and the bride price should be given according to the actual situation of the family. However, if the man's family conditions are relatively good, and the bride price demanded by the woman's family is reasonable, and the man's family wants to prostitute it for nothing, it is a bit excessive.

In short, whether to give a bride price or not is the pattern of the woman, and whether to give a bride price or not is the dignity of the man. If you pretend to be confused in that room, it will be undignified. In fact, because the bride price negotiation collapsed in the end, it was because of the family problems of both men and women, and there must be one party who was not decent before the bride price negotiation collapsed.

Either the man thinks that the bride price is too much, or the woman's family lion opens his mouth. No matter which one it is, I still hope that a good relationship can have a good outcome, and I hope that both parties can give concessions and not embarrass young people. Once couples who love each other start to discuss the bride price, it is essentially tilting from the spiritual world to the material world, and the emotional connection begins to become a transaction.

In the context of sensual love, anything can be solved. But in a deal with clear logic and clear numbers, there is no room for compromise. This kind of contextual transformation is very common in life.

For example, when a good friend has a meal, you must AA, and AA is not counted, you must calculate a few cents and a few cents clearly, you will wake up the other party's accounting logic and let the friendship temporarily go offline.