How to be a gentle, but assertive, optimistic and low key girl?

Read more, girl. In the ocean of books, there are all kinds of nutrition, what kind of life you need, it will be clearly shown to you, you can imitate, just like playing at home when you were young, in the process of imitation, you will find the essence. Slowly become very assertive and thoughtful.

When you fill the void in your life with knowledge, you will find that many things are not strange, because in the world of books, you have seen and experienced them. So you become opportunistic and know how to communicate with people.

People who read always have a rustic atmosphere, simple, transparent and elegant. When the mind is not bound, the horizon will become broader, the inner world will be full, and it will naturally be optimistic about everything. Slowly learned to keep a low profile, because too many great people have grown up living in the market, and before they have full wings, they lie dormant and endure until the moment when the opportunity is presented in front of them.

The enough ability they have accumulated has helped them support their own world. I always think that only stupid and ignorant people like to quarrel with others because they can't think about it. It's a tendon that thinks that things will not change anymore when things have developed, and they have been entangled by external things, but they don't know how to break it from the inside.

Some people say that external breaking is destruction, while internal breaking is growth. I think it makes a lot of sense. Most of the girls in the book are always very spiritual and always bring strength to the people around them.

Love yourself, starting with the first book. Feel the richness of life and witness the changes of history.

I used to want to be a gentle, clean but assertive, optimistic and low-key girl, but I found it really not easy, really difficult, in the process of changing me, friends will ask me, what's wrong with you, how do you feel a little wrong recently, is there any problem, I smiled and said: I used to be too girly, I want to be a beautiful girl. The friend frowned at the time and said:

You don't need to change you too much, you are you, you are unique, you are very good, humorous, kind and warm-hearted, you are our pistachio and vitality girl. At that time, I listened to my friend's words, and suddenly realized, yes, I am me, different fireworks, if I am too harsh to change myself and imitate others, what is the difference between it and Dong Shi Xiaofeng.

Maybe I still have a lot of shortcomings, but I am happy to listen to the opinions of others, constantly reflect on myself, and change my shortcomings.

There are no two identical leaves in this world, each one is unique, if the girls in this world are gentle, clean but assertive, optimistic and low-key and beautiful, will you like it, won't you?

So, what you should do now is to reflect on yourself, see your shortcomings, know what problems you have, and know how to change them.

I don't agree that gentle girls don't have opinions.

In fact, gentle girls just have super good personalities, are super easy to get along with, and speak softly, but this does not mean that they do not have their own opinions; The more gentle a person is, the more assertive she is, and gentleness is just her character. I know a friend, she is super gentle and soft-spoken, not like us with a rough voice, but she is very assertive, every time, we go out to play, I don't know what to eat, it's her idea; She knows exactly what she wants. From my friend, I learned that gentle people are also very assertive.

It is not true that gentle girls are not assertive.

Because assertiveness is a person's insistence on one's own will, meekness is not in conflict with assertiveness.

Many people say that gentle girls are not assertive, do you agree? Why?

Disagree, gentleness is to consider the problem from the other person's point of view. Not selfish, but that doesn't mean not assertive.