The other half is playing a game and I don t like it, how do I deal with it to balance the psycholog

I believe that many couples will encounter such a situation, the other half likes to play games, but they don't like to play. What can be done to balance the minds of both parties?

First, it is necessary to respect the interests of the other party, but also to control the other party. Everyone has their own interests and hobbies, as long as it is not a bad hobby, as the other half, we should all give each other enough personal space and time. In my opinion, there is no harm in playing the game properly, so respecting the interests of the other half is the attitude we should make clear first; But you also have to be a rule not to spend so much time on games that it interferes with your normal life.

Second, make regulations in advance. There may be many couples who ignore each other's feelings because one party is addicted to the game, resulting in quarrels and conflicts between the two parties, and in serious cases, they may even break up. Therefore, in order to avoid affecting the relationship between both parties because the other half spends too much time playing games, you should make some rules on principle issues in advance.

For example, when you can play the game, and how long you can play the game at a time. With objective regulations, there will be reason to follow when you have conflicts because of playing games, and it will be easier to determine which side of the problem is.

3. Understand the mechanics of the game played by the other half. You should have some understanding of the mechanics of the game that your partner is playing, such as mobile games, which may not be available for a period of time from the start of the game to the end of the game**; Or a computer game, where he has to do it with both hands and can't do anything else. When you know his game mechanics in advance, you can wait for him to finish the game except for the most important things.

In fact, there are many times when your partner only wants to play a game or two, but because you don't know the mechanics of his game, you think that he is playing the game and ignores you, which makes both parties unhappy.

I think that even after a relationship, both parties should respect each other's interests and hobbies.

Take boys like to play games, I think as long as boys play games moderately, girls should not interfere too much with their interests, after all, daily leisure and entertainment should still be satisfied.

One of the most important reasons why girls don't like boys to play games is that when boys often play games, they will put their girlfriends aside, which is definitely not right.

Like when boys and girls go out to play, you must put away your addiction to playing games, concentrate on accompanying girls to go shopping, take things or something, when girls are by your side, the first girl must be a girl, and the game will stand behind.

Boys must first have this awareness, so that after girls feel that they are more important than games, they will not particularly reject your behavior of playing games.

For girls, they are too idle, and boys play games too much, which will also lead to psychological imbalance, at this time, girls can arrange some things for themselves to do, such as chasing dramas or something, this is also a good way to pass the time.

Like myself, I'm the kind of person who will find things by myself when my boyfriend is watching live games or playing games, and sometimes I watch variety shows.

On a whim, I will go to find a high-rated horror movie, or play games with my boyfriend.

I don't think it's that difficult to solve the problem of playing games, as long as the two sides coordinate well, everyone can solve the problem calmly.

It's just that I think this problem is easy to solve, either you play games with him, or you find something you like, so you can pass the time while he is playing games. There are girls around me, and I am the first way. Isn't there a lot of boys playing Honor of Kings recently, and then the girl next to me and her boyfriend are also playing this game, and then he often complains to me that her boyfriend always plays games, and then ignores her, she is very uncomfortable.

But then he also began to slowly understand her boyfriend, and then he wanted to play games with him, but now the two of them are playing games together when they are fine, and they can't extricate themselves from the game. I think it's better if two people just play games in moderation, and they can go out together to promote relationships, but if you get into it, I don't think it's good.

The second point,I just suggest that you find something you like to buy when you buy games, you can also kill time,For example, shopping** and the like,Aren't many girls like to buy it? When the boy plays the game, you can go shopping, so that you don't waste time, and you can save a lot of time, and the two of you can get along together. I think it's normal for boys to play games, many boys have this need, we shouldn't be too harsh to ask them to put the game aside, if you stay together for a long time, we have to accept this from him, accept this from him.

I don't think everyone should be too centered on others when they are in a relationship, so that the focus of your life will completely collapse and you will become a person who lives for him. I think everyone should live for themselves, and when he is playing games, you can also find some ways to entertain yourself, not necessarily by sticking to him every day to get by.

No matter how sweet a couple is, it is impossible to have all the same hobbies and interests. During the relationship, learn to give each other some personal space, free time, always tired of being together, and eventually get bored. This is the second stage of love, which is a run-in period.

After the initial excitement, now you are just going to have each other and have your own free time.

You like to go shopping, but you don't need to go shopping with your boyfriend, so why force him to do something he doesn't like when he's bored with shopping. Shopping is the best time with your girlfriends, you can buy what you want to buy, you can go see what you want to see, and you can play what you want. There are so many opportunities to go out with your boyfriend, and you don't have to spend any time going out with two people in love, maybe you want to share this kind of shopping fun with your boyfriend, but you know what.

Your request is like giving him a cart of apples when he likes bananas.

He likes to play games, let him play well, he doesn't like to play games, it's best not to deprive him of the fun of playing games, as long as playing games doesn't delay your date, it doesn't affect the love life between you, so what's there to hate about this kind of thing. If you want to object to him playing games, let him put his mind on you, this kind of possessiveness is inevitably too strong, and it makes people feel oppressed.