She broke up with me and said I cried when we met a month later

The relationship for 3 years is really not easy, and I believe that girl is also very sad. It must be difficult to let go of this relationship. If you think she is really worth cherishing, I hope you will persevere, no matter how she refuses, it is also because of a broken heart that needs to be calmed.

Impress her with your actions. Just pursue her again and give yourself and her a chance. Life is so short, cherish it.

I wish you all happiness.

Don't say anything about chasing him, you first find a way to find out some of your faults as much as possible within this month, and then ask your friends to help you change your faults, how much can be changed, so that you have more chances to chase him back.

Since she's determined to part with you, unless you can really fix the shortcomings she pointed out, maybe she'll accept you, good luck friend.

There's little hope. She gives the opportunity when she does. You didn't catch it, and now he's sure you're not a good fit for him, but he still loves you, good luck!

There are two hardest things in the world to do

Glue a broken vase.

Redeem a heart that has already made up its mind.

A broken heart can only be redeemed by sincerity.

But your situation is probably enough.

You have to understand one thing:

Not every "I'm sorry".

can be exchanged for a sentence of "it doesn't matter".

Don't bother with it anymore.

It will only have the opposite effect.

Let's try to recapture the strengths that attracted her in the first place.

See if it works.

She still likes you very much, after all, after 3 years of relationship, just let yourself have a step down and just talk, a month later, you go to chase her, you chase it, it's easy, because she likes you.

She wants you to think about your relationship over the years, and then know that you are wrong, give each other a little time, she should love you, have the hope of getting back together, and work hard to correct her bad problems.

She can't tolerate you, what else do you do with her?

You will find better ones

You're not saying you want to act.

Summary. Kiss Hello The biggest possibility is to delay the army, let you wait for two months first, let you calm down, so that you can prevent you from harassing him, so that he can start a new life with peace of mind. After all, if he was still willing to be with you, he wouldn't wait until two months later to get back together, and he could get back together now.

Of course, there are some other possibilities, such as that he is ready to start a new relationship in two months, etc. Of course, it's also possible to really give each other a chance, to see if you'll get better after two months, and if you're getting better, he'll be willing to continue with you, and if he finds that you've not changed at all, he'll probably just find a reason to send you away. After all, no matter how well he said it at the moment, what he actually meant was dragging you, and if you really wanted to get back together, there was no reason to drag you.

At least what he means now is: I don't want to get back together with you now, and then I can look at the situation and decide whether to reconcile with you, which can give you some hope, but the final decision must still be in your own hands.

Hello, I am still or a teacher who is good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, and if it is convenient, I will tell me in detail about your specific situation

Kiss Hello The biggest possibility is to delay the army, let you wait for two months first, let you calm down, so that you can prevent you from harassing him, so that he can start a new life with peace of mind. After all, if he was still willing to be with you, he wouldn't wait until two months later to get back together, and he could get back together now. Of course, there are some other possibilities, such as he told He to prepare to start a new relationship within two months, etc.

Of course, it's also possible to really give each other a chance, to see if you'll get better after two months, and if you're getting better, he'll be willing to continue with you, and if he finds that you've not changed at all, he'll probably just find a reason to send you away. After all, no matter how well he said it at the moment, what he actually meant was dragging you, and if you really wanted to get back together, there was no reason to drag you. At least that's what he meant now

I don't want to get back together with you now, I can see the situation later, and the Heng Jing faction will decide whether to reconcile with you, which can give you some hope, but the final decision is definitely still in your own hands.

1.It's good for two people to live well together, don't break up at every turn. Even if they reconcile later, it will hurt their feelings in the long run.

2.You say he's heartless, and you don't know what he's done to make you sad. If you really can't forgive him, make it clear to him. Break up, this is the best choice for the two of you, the long pain is better than the short pain.

3.If you can forgive him, you want to continue with him. And he also admitted his mistake and promised not to do it again. Then you turn over the previous events and start a new chapter for you.