HELP ME WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I know what it feels like to love one, but to make people so helpless and so difficult to choose ......Neither is it to advance, nor is it ...... to retreatIf he chooses to quit, you should respect his opinion! Because since he already has plans to return to his ex-girlfriend and prove that his heart has passed, what is the use of keeping his people like that?! It's you who will be hurt in the end!

    It's not as happy as ending like this, the loss is certain, but it's important to have a good attitude.

    You have to know that he is not worthy of your cherishment, it is he who does not cherish you first, he is not a good man in charge, he is not to you and his ex-girlfriend, just like you said, he can't let go of two things, one is a 7-year relationship, the other is that she, what you said is too right, but to put it bluntly, the seven-year relationship of division and harmony is not worth cherishing at all, because it is destined to be separated, it is sad ......Since it's his choice, you let him go! It's good for yourself. As for him, leave him alone, I believe that one day he will regret it, but that's all his business, you don't have to care about it in the future, really, he's not worth it, he's a bad man who is destined to hurt his girlfriend.

    A good man will not mention the ups and downs of his ex-girlfriend in front of his current girlfriend, because they don't want to mention it, they feel meaningless, and they are more afraid of hurting you, but he tells you so bluntly. On the surface, it is sincere, but in fact it is a serious disrespect and harm to you. So he's definitely not worth keeping.

    Let him go! Trust me, this is the best answer, when you really let go of the relationship, you will feel that it is the wisest choice to let go now. Because ——— he is not worth it!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Teething? You.

    When I saw it, I was angry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you like it, go and get back your boyfriend's heart, because it's really not easy for people to meet the person they really like in their life and have fate to walk together. I hope you don't miss someone who can bring happiness to yourself, and I wish you to find your true love as soon as possible!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Even the problem of makeup was said.

    Let's not let him go.

    Because of the small things, you can see a person.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Injuries can make you stretch yourself out.

    Take control of your feelings.

    Don't let yourself get hurt.

    Someone who doesn't belong to you is better than to give up early.

    Unless you want to hurt longer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    From the second year of junior high school to high school, Chinese should be pretty good. And I can confess to you smoothly, language.

    I guess my expression skills are pretty good.

    It is said that the flowers can be folded straight, since you like it, why bother to resign, although it is said that girls should be reserved, but if.

    Missed the pinch again?Who can guarantee that you will meet him in two years or even longer?

    Falling in love is not about signing a deed of sale, rather than regretting it for missing it, it is better to act while your heart is moving. We're not saying we support puppy love.

    Hope you can be happy and then happy

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Accept it, if you like him too.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There should be no problems emotionally, and the others dare not say.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Koreans should be careful, generally these people come out and theirs"Love"Just like saliva, it can be secreted anytime and anywhere, and Koreans generally have a xenophobic sentiment towards Chinese (much better for Europeans and Americans, Japanese), will his family accept a Chinese, have you considered it, if you want to last for a long time, to be honest, unrealistic, it is difficult for you to dissolve into Korean society.

    If he wants to take root in China, you can let him be a son-in-law, just do the work of your parents, that is actually quite awkward, and there are some practical problems that you can't encounter now.

    It's okay if you're bored to play with him.

    PS: I was wrong, it turns out that the comrade is here to seek encouragement, so let's do it boldly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be serious about a woman, there are many people who are better than her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I've had an online dating before!But I gave up!Maybe I'm too protective of myself, too "wise", and we've been in a relationship for 5 years!The best, I chose to give up!

    He is from Sichuan, and I am from Hubei!Also due to the distance!This is a deep groove in my heart!Maybe it was because we were too young and ignorant at the time!

    But my classmate also met her current husband in online dating, and the two of them get along okay, after all, every family has some small contradictions, and now she is not as lovely as when she was a girl before, and there are a few more vicissitudes of the family. But she herself said that her lover was very good to him!This is also the difference that everyone pursues!

    But until now, I don't regret the love I gave up, although my current husband is also a little emotionally bumpy. I think it's normal!

    Therefore, I still hope that you can be prepared, if you really love her, you must love her, otherwise, if she marries you across the ocean, she will regret it after a few years, and you will not be happy!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dude, you're afraid of wolves and tigers. But you can tell you're a good boy.

    I feel that you are afraid that you will not have a future with her, that you will be hurt, and of course, that your girlfriend will be hurt.

    I feel that from the following perspectives, you should strive to pursue your happiness and find your true love.

    1.You are a man, don't have too many negative thoughts. Since she loves you, why not believe that you have a great future.

    2.You are a man, you have to believe that you will be able to make a difference in the future and can give her happiness. And happiness doesn't have to be a lot of money to construct. It is not excluded that girls who are super fond of money.

    3.Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if you don't come together in the future, I feel that it will be a kind of happiness for your life. At least with a love that will make you unforgettable, what is not worth it. I had just graduated from college, and I regretted that I didn't let myself fall in love for once.

    Therefore, I can only say that you have to control your happiness in the future. Have a good look at your future and work together, the marriage is yours, not your parents'. What is there to be afraid of, many of my classmates have come to an end up.

    I feel that your biggest problem right now is that you are not confident enough, you think too much, too carefully. But it also proves how much you care about her.

    Since you like it, let's get along well. How enviable is such love.

    I wish you all happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    All I can tell you is that the separation of two people who love each other is the most painful thing in the world! You know you're going to be in pain, have you ever thought about her, how painful she will be!

    It's man-made! Besides, how happy it would be for you to create a happy life together!

    Happiness can only be counted if you do, and I won't change the world! Are you right?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You are really a very strong boy, you have gone through ups and downs, it is not easy to be together, since you are holding hands, don't break up easily. Now you should study hard, don't think too much, you still have a long time before graduation, and this time is to work hard to learn cultural knowledge and apply it in real life in the future. For the sake of your future happiness, you must be stronger, as you said, manly man, and you must be able to take everything and let it go.

    As long as you truly love each other and are happy together, your parents will support you. Now you don't think too much, don't put too much psychological pressure on yourself, just work hard towards a better tomorrow!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Well, I'm thinking about getting married instead, and everything will settle down when I get married, listen to me.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't be in a lot of pain! That's who you should love! Don't give up easily, don't care what others think or say!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's really useless for me to say more, the success rate of network acquaintance is too small, you think that you are happy for a few days together, yes, that's because you don't know well enough, over time, you will expose yourself and her many shortcomings, from love to hate, don't be angry, the Internet is so illusory, it's better to show yourself in reality.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's a very distant love, it should be very tiring! Alas......Since you love her, but you are afraid of delaying her, then break up......If you can't do it, you shouldn't have come to the Internet to ask this kind of question in the first place, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart, right? It's like thinking about going on a date in my heart, but I held on to the end for the sake of face, and finally decided to go anyway with Lai Pi's method, but I said that I didn't care about my own business, it was destined by God.

    Don't put love on such an illusory thing as the Internet, thinking that fate is the ...... in your own handsHabitual Conclusion:

    I wish you happiness. In this way, there is one less unhappy ah......

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better for two people to try to live together

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Dude, you're afraid of wolves and tigers. But you can tell you're a good boy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Young man, I advise you to think twice and think seriously, I can understand, you are all in dire straits, you already have feelings for each other, plus you are not in the same city, the distance makes you have a stronger love, at this time you must treat me well, ask yourself if you really need this feeling, if so, then don't think about it, work hard, don't give up, work hard for your future, come together ......

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you love her, then you love. As long as you give sincerely, there will be no regrets, and now there can be a person who makes you love wholeheartedly.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Now it's a free society, and you can love and be moved if you want to.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You don't have to look for it slowly, dress yourself up in a beautiful and bright drifting group, restrain your temper and so on, there will definitely be boys who will take a fancy to you

    To have yourself, hehe, your requirements are not high, just didn't meet the right one for you, don't think about yourself, or it's only yourself who is uncomfortable, haha, the person who endures loneliness is the real strong person! Happiness belongs to strong people

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The requirements shouldn't be high, maybe you haven't met the type you have in mind!

    If it's not your favorite, just wait and see!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You are all people living in the present and the future You can't blindly indulge in the past As the saying goes, a good man doesn't mention the courage of the past, not to mention that you are not a good man.

    1: You care about her past because you love her, and your possessiveness swells as your feelings for her escalate. Although love is selfish, sometimes you have to learn to be tolerant, otherwise you will put a lot of pressure on her, which will lead to your breakup.

    2: It is possible that she asks about your past, it may be that she really wants to know, or it may be her act of revenge, in response to the pressure you have brought her, it is all possible.

    You have to talk honestly and irreverently, say everything in your heart, don't say it clearly, and besides, feelings are meant to communicate, right?

    Cherish the happiness around you, the past is just a life experience, not a burden for you or her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Caring doesn't mean you really love each other, maybe it's just jealousy, it's just unhappiness.

    But true love doesn't always work out of the way.

    As you say, "I want to marry this woman".

    If you want to be with her for the rest of your life, can you care for the rest of your life?

    Or do you really have to try the taste of loss, only to regret the obsession you once had.

    Love is originally in the heart, living in the spirit, and kissing and hugging it by feeling will be the most beautiful.

    If she is not beautiful in your heart because of the love she once had, then you don't love her.

    Sit down and talk about it, so you can solve the problem.

    I hope that one day, when you think of the past, you just smile tacitly.

    Blessings

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You are in a swing period right now, and if something goes bad, something will happen that no one wants to do. Actually, you love each other very much, but you love each other so much that you have nothing to do. I'm sure the two of you must be living a relatively comfortable life, right?

    In fact, who has not passed? It's the best if she tells you, and it shows that she genuinely loves you. You don't mind that you love her more and more.

    So why don't you say something happy? You can't change the past, so why should you spoil the future? Is she going to tell the next tragic past with you?

    Until you find her true love? Why isn't true love you? So what are you?

    Please believe in yourself, you are her guardian angel. In fact, after saying so much nonsense, I just said one sentence at the end: your attitude determines your future.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Mine is simple: (Please forgive me for speaking directly).

    Neither of you belonged to each other in the past.

    The past is called to the past, and it is useless to think more!

    Remember, she used to be someone else's "wife", not yours. In other words, it should be you who touches someone else!

    So, sit down and have a good talk. It's good to cherish each other in the future!

    Finally, I hope you all have a good outcome!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, emotion is like this, if you really love someone, you should be willing to give everything for her, that is to say, you don't care about everything about the other party, even if the other party was once an enemy, but this does not mean that you indulge everything, the basis of love should be mutual honesty, you might as well find an opportunity to talk to your girlfriend about your past, just as the understanding of both parties, and so on, no matter what the result is, don't give up on love, after all, it is the person who loves the other party and not the past that loves each other

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