My girlfriend said that my care and thoughtfulness gave me invisible pressure, and she was so tired

If you care about her, do as she says, if you don't care, you will break up; After all, there is no right or wrong in the emotional world, some are just impulsive, although love is very great, but real love almost does not exist, all feelings exist purposefully, and love is not mixed with any factors, just like it because it is liked, even if the sky is blocked, it will destroy the sky to love, so what can't stand the test is not because you are not persistent enough, but because there is no love at all, some are just a kind of like, a kind of attraction of the opposite sex that is a little closer than ordinary friends, so don't care too much, If you really want to love, what you get may only be a pain, love is to ask people not to want things, it is to abandon everything, but how to do it in the end depends on your own decision.

Don't think too much about it, really, I didn't believe in it before, but one day you heard and saw that there was indeed such a person, but she didn't think what others thought. Really, try to have a good chat. It is possible that excessive concern can be off-putting.

Actually, everyone feels this way, it's just that no one cares about it.

Either that, or you're just too annoying.

Or you're not the one she likes.

Or both.

The biggest possibility is: you're not the one she likes, and then you're super annoying, so... You'd better find a new love.

How can a woman refuse her boyfriend's thoughtfulness? You must know that what girls need most when they are most tired or helpless is the care of their boyfriends, and the same woman I think she is making excuses.

Be wary of those who intervene and punish them severely!

It's, she's got someone there.

If you were your girlfriend, what would you want you to do?

Ask me if she has only one choice: work or love...

Asking this yes or no question can be stressful.

If you are tired from work, you will have less trouble for her, and if you are tired, you will go out to play something relaxing, such as climbing a mountain, and you will avoid being more tired when you travel far away, and you will care more about it, such as you will work harder to make money, and so on, a lot, I can't finish it, I want to do it.

First tell her, don't do it if you're too tired from work, I'll support you, and then say that in fact, the fatigue of work is used to exchange for happiness in the future, you are only a little tired now, you will only have a little happiness in the future, and you will die happily after you are tired now.

Hug her and kiss her, take her to eat what she likes, and tell her that no matter what, you are the most supportive person in the world.

My girlfriend is also working and I am studying, but we live close by. At first, she complained every day that she was tired from work, but she was very talkative, very good at communicating with people, and very shrewd. Now I feel that she is living an easy life.

I didn't know how to comfort her, I told her that people live like this, and they are actually quite tired. But I don't think it's appropriate for you to say that to her......

Don't deliberately say anything about concern, in fact, a tiny detail in life and a warm and caring action is more direct and impactful When you see your girlfriend tired, take the initiative to rub her shoulders Or cook food for her (even if it's not delicious) Or wash your girlfriend's feet while sleeping Wash her feet yourself Don't think that you are a man and you shouldn't do these Love is the most precious thing in life Come on Can read such a question It also shows that you are a good man If you care, it's good to say it occasionally The main thing is action, thank you.

If you really love her, first see if this job is important to her, whether it is promising, whether it is happy, if the above answers are all negative, then you should support her to change jobs. If the above answers are yes, then you must take her out on weekends to relax, comfort her every day during her lunch break or after work, listen to her feelings, share happiness and unhappiness with her, care for her as much as you like, remember what she usually mentions occasionally, and suddenly buy it for her and surprise her! But my point of view is that there is no job that must be done, and if she is unhappy, she is encouraged to go.

Don't ask this deliberately, it still depends on the situation, it's good to say it from the heart, are you very bad at talking?

Kiss her, then rub her shoulders and hug her.

Hehe, I also understand how to deal with your girlfriend, because I am also a woman, to be honest, it's not that she gets angry and says that you don't care enough about her and aren't considerate enough, but maybe it's her.

I'm too tired from work, you said you care about her a lot, but she is very tired from work now, you might as well give it a try, don't be stalking too often, and when her work doesn't have so many troubles, it will naturally get better! The most important thing is that you are good to your girlfriend, often encourage her, motivate her, believe in her, and give her courage, then, she won't say angry and say anything about you, but don't always pester her, when you work, just hit her, this is not good! This is tantamount to making her work more annoying!

Hehe, I believe you will do it!

All of the above are seniors, and I have encountered this kind of thing, and I am also annoyed.

Pick her up from work every day, help her with massage, cook, laundry, and wipe her face. The devil is in the details.

Make something delicious for her, provided that you can at least eat what you cook.

You usually play a few more **s, it's done.

Just say something caring, I should be able to say, pay attention to the body, don't be too tired, remember to eat. I think most people will. If you have time, you might as well visit her and buy her some favorite snacks or something.

To gain time together, just spend more time with her.

First, follow her words, you will listen carefully when she vents, you can echo it, don't talk back, and don't talk about big truths. Second, give her a massage, some sweet words, how sad it would be to be wronged at work, and then not be comforted and compensated when you come back, and of course you can cook her a delicious meal. Three, you can't be too depressed on weekends, two people can go to the movies, you can go to sing K, you can go to the library, you can go on outings, you must be rich, otherwise you will be bored at work, and you will still be bored after work, then you will be dispensable to her.

In addition to these daily cold and warmth, I also have to often care about **, and the most important thing is to ask for leave to see her every once in a while, girls need companionship, a person is very lonely, and there is a lot of pressure to study, so it is when you are needed.

If you are tired, don't resign, I will support you, I believe that your girlfriend will be very touched, and it will also be able to promote the relationship between you, killing two birds with one stone.

I should tell her to overcome it well, and when I am free, I will accompany you, like these words to stabilize your emotions.

If you care about her every day if she is tired or not, maybe both of you will feel more and more tired.

Human potential is great, and people can only rely on themselves to be the safest. Just the right amount of care can indeed relieve the fatigue of the other person, but if you care too much, it will become more and more procedural, and in the end you may be tired of coping with it, so that the care of that person is also tired. And after forming a habit, whether she is tired or not, she may be tired when she sees your concern.

So you can't do it every day, just a text message once in a while, and a good rest is enough. When she takes the initiative to complain to you, she cares about it, and usually cares a little about it, and you can see the specific extent.

The most cherished person in the world is someone who can give you life or what others in life can't give, and who also understands what it is to cherish and what it is to be grateful!

If you don't understand what cherishing is, you won't understand your heart and won't learn to cherish you!

A person who does not know how to be grateful is not worthy of your cherishment, because he will never feel your heart!

In fact, there are many people to cherish, not necessarily a single person, but your parents should be the most worthy of your cherishment! They can give you love and love that no one else can give, and they are the only people in the world who can give everything without a little bit in return! They are also the only ones who will never remember all the wrong things you have done and misbehaved!

They are also the ones who sincerely wish you a happy and happy life! They are the ones who will always remember to hold your hand and never give up, no matter what happens! They are the ones who will always keep the sweetness to you and the pain to themselves, and try not to let you know that they are afraid that you will be sad!

They are the only ones who can take care of you when you are sick or disabled! Only they can give you all their most precious things!

Close your eyes and think quietly, what would happen to you if your parents, who could give so much for you, were to leave you? That's when you really understand who the most cherished person in the world is.

If it's close, you can send some fruits, snacks, or things that you can use every day; If you are far away, you can shop online, and then you can play ** to care more about and comfort her, ask her about her work, where she wants to go to play or something, the main thing is to listen, girls will tell the latest people, so that the heart will feel better.

Care more about her, cook him something to eat, tell her something wonderful to make her happy, ask him more about how he is doing at work.

Talk to her more, tell her some jokes, cook her something to eat.

Say some warm words to her and do some heart-warming things.

She doesn't like you.

If you really like it. Is that really the case?

No, it won't. Think it out for yourself.

Why force yourself to adapt to such a life, falling in love is originally a matter of two people, and it is boring if you don't want to. Was he like that in the beginning? If you don't think you have much affection for each other, let's get together and break up.

Don't delay each other. If you get married in the future, you will still be troubled by it. You don't want to get married and live a life where you quarrel every day and no one cares.

Maybe your girlfriend hates relationships and likes freedom. Try to get colder. Maybe she likes it and just doesn't want to express it.

Dude, I feel the same way as you, I'm almost depressed, and now it's just right, and I'll tell you, the best way is to think about it, women, and sometimes it's yours to get married, really, let it go.

If you really love her, you don't care about these, do anything for the woman you love without complaints, if you don't like this way, just find someone who loves you, it's really tiring to like a person you love.

Your girlfriend is a very passive type, right, I'm like this, but I won't care about him, talk to him, maybe she's used to being loved, that's why it's like this, after all, love is mutual, if it goes on like this, you will get tired of it, she loves you, and she will change for you.

Oh, don't be too sticky, some people will feel that it will be annoying to play ** every day, give each other a little space, and the relationship may be better For the driver's license test, it's actually really tiring Hehe, you don't call her every other time** She may not be used to it, and she will take the initiative to call you Besides, you've only known each other for three months, and it's not very long. Let's take a look at it again, it's not suitable to divide it, but I still hope that you have a lover who can eventually become a family!!

A happy relationship needs two people to cultivate in order to blossom and bear fruit, as the saying goes, a slap can't make a sound, if you rely entirely on you alone you will be tired, you should let go, lose a tree, you will have a forest. I wish you to find your own love as soon as possible.

( Your girlfriend is very grinning, relax, if you really love her, tolerate him, quietly tell the landlord 10 is not a high score.)

Everyone cares about others in different ways, if you really care about her, you shouldn't need to force yourself how to do it, believe in yourself, and you will do well.

What a woman needs most is to be attentive, and she will be moved by what you do for her after thinking about it with your heart.

Love her, with your heart, not your terms!

My girlfriend has to accompany me when I go out.

When she is sick, accompany her to the doctor.

Keep an eye on her emotions at all times.

When you are sick, you will inevitably be in a bad mood.

Let her. Buy a small gift for the holidays.

Surprise her. It's not about how expensive it is.

But to her heart.

You just need to understand him! No need for you to do anything!

If only he really loved you! When he's tired, he'll feel happy as long as you're by his side!

Don't do anything deliberately!

You don't need to do a lot of deliberately, you can make him feel that you care about him in the details (such as language, life details, etc.).

Be kind to him, but you can't be obedient, otherwise you will suffer in the future.

Stay by his side and tell him jokes. Press him on the shoulder, and I promise he'll be happy.

You can't just move your mouth, you have to take practical actions, buy gifts, eat and eat, and ask for warmth.

I usually surprise him often, and I can't spoil him too much, people don't have contentment, and spoiling him to the limit is like changing his taste and finding another man.

Anyway, remember every point, every detail he said.

Pay attention to details, and the girl will be touched by some subtle things.

It's up to you, and what type of girlfriend you are, you need to choose the way according to his hobbies.