How much can you hate someone when you hate them?

In the end, I hated it to the extent that I didn't care about him, at first it was a shock, and I felt that he hated everything he did, and then he was suspicious, and I hated it when he did something, and in the end I didn't care. Anyway, he can't look down on everything he does, so he doesn't bother to look at it, and he doesn't care about it, and he doesn't care about it. It's a burden to yourself to keep thinking about the people you hate and the things you hate, so there's no need to get along with yourself.

Hearing his name is blocked. Everything in life that has to do with ta, I hate it. It's an extreme idea, but if he says the water is good, I can go without it for a few days. It's good to be in the same place as each other and never hear the news again.

The sound of her drinking water, the sound of her mouth chirping when eating, and the sound of slippers mopping the floor all annoyed me to death, I hate the accent she speaks, don't call me hypocritical, everything has cause and effect, I don't hate a person for no reason, she should also think about others, four years of college feels like a hard station.

I remember hating her at the time, very nasty. did something disgusting under the banner of a friend, and was so angry that he wanted to beat her, and finally broke up. Later, when she came to the place where she needed to use me, she said that she didn't want to leave regrets in her youth and wanted to reconcile, how could she pay attention to her, that time was very low, and I couldn't figure out why this happened.

After a long time, there is no need to always let this matter affect my life, and I am gradually relieved. Now when I think of her and the things she did, I still feel unhappy, but I will soon calm down, which is also a lesson for not knowing people.

It's probably to buy something, and the first thing to consider is whether he bought this thing, and if he buys it, I'll find a replacement. It's really not good, never buy the same question, the same question, others ask, answer patiently, he asks, three sentences are too much, see what he does is not pleasing to the eye, out of sight and out of mind.

Elementary school, junior high school, high school, the same school and the same class, even in junior high school, is still a very good best friend, and then because some things are really wrong for her, from 06 to the present, I hate her, whether she apologizes to me or finds a lobbyist to say that I haven't said a word to her and met once, and even the few who helped her talk have also entered my blacklist, no matter how good the relationship is, as long as she helps her persuade her to reconcile and never contact them again, the class reunion is also because she will never participate in me.

Conclusion 1 will lead to disgust in others.

Ask a choice question.

Should I expose him and tell him why he is disgusted by my mental behavior?

Or do you want to change your own psychology? Or change his dislike of me?

Follow my mental behavior.

1.For those who are close to me, I will try to change his dislike of me. Or change your own mental behavior. Everything is not contrary to morality and principles under the foundation.

2.Someone who is not close, I will tell him why he has a dislike for me, and I will stand on the moral high ground and tell him that you are immoral, but you can continue. Because I don't care. Ha ha.

Conclusion 2: My own psychological behavior will not cause most people to dislike me, but it will make some people dislike me.

Ask questions. Why do individual others have a dislike for me?

According to my cognitive analysis of the human psyche.

1.Doesn't understand the true mental behavior of others.

I don't understand psychology, so I don't understand why I have a psychology of disgust with others, and I compare myself with the psychology of others under the subjective one-sided cognition. Form a psychology of rejection, isolation, and disgust with others.

2.Demanding others with personal psychological behaviors, opinions and standards, others cannot achieve the psychology of disgust, isolation and rejection of others. The psychological factor of people being divided into groups and things being like together.

3.Under her own psychological behavior and cognition, Jian Ying's views, which she thought were correct, were different from others' views.

Produces a psychology of disgust, rejection, and isolation of others.

4.Ignorance and low morality. I hate that you don't need a reason.

There are more people you hate in this world, and you can't let people not appear in front of you, so you can only adjust yourself, and you can't adjust it to contact each other less, what else can you do, no matter what it won't exist because you hate it.

Hello friend, when you meet someone you hate, then stay away.

The advantage of this method is that if you are not very provocative, and the person you hate does not know that you hate him, then you can let him know that you don't like him in this way, and over time, he will not have so much influence on you, and you will be slightly more comfortable. However, if you want to see each other every day, as you said, then this method still has certain drawbacks, because you have to stay away from him, then the people around him, you will not be easy to approach.

2.Use him as a negative teaching material. You hate him, there must be a reason for you.

Then if you hate a flaw in him, you should use him as a negative teaching material to remind yourself not to have this flaw. The advantage of this method is that it will not only free you from suffering, but also improve your own quality. One thing to note, though:

It's not that you want to reverse all of him, everyone still has some advantages, you just need to use his shortcomings as negative teaching materials, remember?

3.Make your life more colorful. It's painful to hate someone, but it's comfortable to relax yourself.

You can spend the time and energy you hate on what you enjoy yourself, such as watching TV, playing on the computer, ......Not only does this relax you, but it also strikes you against the person you hate: "Look!

I'm living a happy life, and you don't affect me at all! "It's a very positive approach.

And you have to remember that it is very painful to hate someone, if he does not have a great influence on you, don't hate it, just be a passerby. Actually, 3 years is not a long time in your life, is it?

Then don't hate it, why hate others? Everyone is their own individual, and others have nothing to do with you, so don't hate others.

When you hate someone, staying away from them and not socializing with them is the best way.

When you hate a person very much, you don't pay attention to him, try not to meet him, and don't associate with him.

Since I hate a person very much. Then don't touch each other. Go straight around the point.

Try to ignore him, just take care of yourself, and don't have too much contact with him.

Try to avoid it and avoid conflicts!

Different situations are treated differently, if it is between colleagues, then I will take the initiative to have a good relationship with him, because the relationship between the heads and the heads is not good, the work can not be carried out happily, if it is not often to meet, it will also say hello but not deep friendship, in short, always keep in mind a sentence, be a person, leave a line of good to see each other in the future, do everything will leave room for nothing, can not hurt the face of others too much! Of course, if it really doesn't like the eye, try to avoid encountering it!

First of all, I think that when you hate others, it means that you are not broad-minded enough, or you are not self-cultivated enough, before thinking about the mistakes of others, think about yourself first, so you will find that your mentality is different, so you can't change others, isn't it good to change yourself?

02 Also, when you hate someone, you must have magnified the shortcomings of others, why don't you divert your attention to his advantages? If you insist on observing the good in the person you hate, you will quickly accept him, and the previous negative emotions will dissipate, and you will even become friends with him.

03 But if you really can't help it, and you still have to see people you hate often, then you have to manage your own mentality and don't let him affect your mood.

04 If you really can't use the above methods, and you really have reached the point of hatred, you can choose not to get along with this person for old age, out of sight and out of mind, this method can also be used.