How can I forget the times when he betrayed me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think the best way to forget is to replace it and find a better place to take its place! Suddenly letting you drop a relationship and forget about someone is really like cutting off a piece of your flesh. There will be a big scar in your heart.

    For such pain, if you can't help it, you will live under this painful torment for the rest of your life. Forbearance is a method. But not the best way.

    There is also a method called healing. The effect of medicine can quickly reduce the pain, and it can also have a nourishing effect on the body. Emotional substitution is the best way to heal emotionally.

    Work replaces, tying yourself up with heavy work, there is no time to think about it, and slowly you may forget it. This kind of doesn't work very well, I think. Emotional substitution, put yourself in a new relationship, let the new love dilute the old hatred, and gradually you will forget this feeling.

    The highest substitution realm is self-substitution, improve one's mind, let one's wood light see farther, and don't lose sight of the forest. After all, there is no grass at the end of the world. This kind of self-substitution, replacing the narrow self of the past with a new higher realm self, so that the most fundamental ** method, even if you encounter the same experience in the future, will not suffer the same damage!

    Tough emotions are the heart of a big husband. It is recommended that you look further, reinvent yourself, and have a new beginning.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forget. A heart-wrenching question. To say that you are completely forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, you will not be able to forget the past.

    Don't run away, it's useless to regret it. Is that right? Isn't there a saying that says?

    You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime. That's love! Heh, forget?

    That's impossible, it's unrealistic, it's better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to have no time to miss than to forget. Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better. Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible, maybe there is your sweetheart inside...

    When you have to come into contact with him [her], try to be as normal as if he [she] is an ordinary friend. .Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

    Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day.""I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

    Put aside all selfish distractions. Cherish what you have now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    。Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner.

    Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

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