Husbands and wives have been in conflict since they got married?

It is normal for husband and wife to have conflicts, there is no husband and wife in this world who do not quarrel, and the conflict between husband and wife is not the result of adjustment, because it is caused by small things, such as doing it wrong. That doesn't have to be as long as it's the beginning or the addition of Nightshade, in fact, there is an outbreak of complaining about others nagging every day. Is that right?

It's raining in the sky, the little driver doesn't hold grudges when he quarrels, and there is no irreconcilable conflict between husband and wife. I must do it to avoid boiling people's dashes, but also use the upper hand next to the brain door to know that the dumplings are involved, because once the bumper river goes, the more things will happen, and the contradictions will be digested into Fujian, Inner Mongolia, which is the rise. Talking to you, Li Jia, who is going to prove the account next, is actually because you just need to swipe.

Is it much? I am familiar with the place, and if I find that the contradictions are solved in time, I must not compromise, once the contradictions accumulate more and more, I will be sad animals. Pay attention to life, as long as it is.

Other people's hands are so tender, there is no way not to pick and choose, and others really don't go to their hearts. The best way for the author to mediate the conflict between husband and wife.

It is normal for couples to quarrel after getting married, which husband and wife are not noisy for a lifetime. The noise I am talking about is a small quarrel rather than a big noise, even the kind of behavior of domestic violence, the quarrel between husband and wife must also have a bottom line, and if the quarrel is too much, the family will be broken up. Marriage is not easy, but you still have to know how to cherish it.

After getting married, couples will still quarrel constantly, and the solutions are:

First: When husband and wife quarrel, the husband should be more tolerant, after all, he is a man, bear with his wife more, say a few words, don't add fuel to the fire, the more noisy the more fierce, and finally the scene is uncontrollable.

Second: If there is a conflict between the husband and wife, take the initiative to reconcile, calmly admit the mistake, buy a small gift for the other party or take the initiative to do housework to show goodwill, the other party will not be angry, and the conflict between the husband and wife will be reconciled.

Third: When there is a conflict between husband and wife, when there is a dispute, one party can choose to leave, go out for a walk and calm down and then go home, and the other party will calm down after returning home, and the two people can talk calmly, and the conflict between husband and wife will pass.

Fourth: The most taboo in conflicts between husband and wife is not to admit their mistakes, not to admit their mistakes, not to change their mistakes, and to mess around. This will make the other party more and more chilled and affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Fifth: Refuse domestic violence, no matter how noisy domestic violence is absolutely not allowed, this is an illegal act, and this is also the bottom line of being a human being.

Sixth: Don't say too hurtful things when husband and wife quarrel, pay attention to the proportionality of your speech, can't be open-mouthed, hurt the innocent, and can't touch each other's pain points, that would be too hurtful, after all, it is not easy for husband and wife, and you still have to leave some face.

Seventh: Husbands and wives should learn to control their emotions when they quarrel, and cold treatment is the best way.

In fact, who doesn't quarrel between husband and wife? To be more tolerant and understanding, everyone will have shortcomings, learn to tolerate, think about parents, think about children, think about the feelings between husband and wife, so you can't be too serious, so that you can live a life in peace. Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it!

In this case, the husband and wife need to understand each other more, and the two people also need to tolerate each other more and try not to quarrel.

In this case, two people should adjust their mentality, think more about each other, and be sure to understand and tolerate each other.

At this time, the two people should discuss some things calmly, and the two people should tolerate some of each other's practices, which may reduce the quarrel between the two people.

The two of them should talk calmly, and when there is a quarrel in the future, think of some ways to avoid the quarrel.

It shows that the communication between the two people is still not in place, and they will often quarrel because of some small things, so the two people should communicate frequently together at this time, so as to reduce the quarrel.

Two people have been together for a long time, and some contradictions or original shortcomings will be exposed, and this situation must be taken seriously and cared for with heart.

Quarrels are becoming more and more frequent, and the main reason is that the two people are too competitive and neither of them will let anyone, in fact, both people should take a step back, so that the relationship can be well alleviated.

It's because two people live together after getting married, and there must be a lot of contact, and they will quarrel more and more often.

Because after getting married, the lifestyles of the two people are different, and there are differences in eating habits. If you don't get used to each other, there will be quarrels.

It is often because of the firewood, rice, oil, and salt in life, or the different concepts of things handled by two people in marriage.

Because after getting married, you will encounter more and more things, and some trivial things will also cause quarrels.

Husbands and wives get along, there will inevitably be friction, and occasional quarrels will not affect the relationship, but if they quarrel often and are not handled properly, it is dangerous for the relationship between husband and wife and family harmony. How to deal with a husband and wife who always quarrel?

1.Avoid speaking ill of each other.

When husband and wife quarrel, no matter how angry they are, they should also pay attention not to speak unscrupulously, they are very sensitive when they quarrel, and if they speak ill of each other at this time, it is easy to add fuel to the fire.

2.Self-criticism.

If there is a conflict between husband and wife, no matter who is right or wrong, you can no longer blame it at will, which will add fuel to the fire. Instead, you should do more self-criticism and find your own mistakes, which will help ease the tension in the relationship.

3.Find someone to talk to.

When a husband and wife quarrel, they can find a mutual friend to talk to, the so-called "the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear", and find a friend to help analyze and persuade them, which will help solve the conflict.

4.Calm down first and then talk to your heart.

When both parties are angry, it is difficult to solve the problem, at this time, both parties can calm down first, sit down and talk openly, explain their thoughts to each other clearly, and the problem will be easily solved.

5.Let your child be a buffer.

If you already have children, it will be better, after the husband and wife quarrel, they don't want to talk first, they are in the way of face, at this time you can let the child convey each other's concerns, such as the mother let the child tell the father, the washed shirt is placed in the ****; Dad asked the child to tell Mom that the newly bought clothes were put in the xx cook. In this way, the cold war between husband and wife will end quickly.

Between husband and wife, frequent quarrels will leave an indelible shadow on the fragile and young hearts of children. The most obvious effects are the following, as a parent, you may wish to take a look!

1. Irritable and withdrawn.

Husbands and wives often quarrel, to be honest, it is nothing more than the child who is hurt, for a long time this will affect the child's character, the original well-behaved and sensible baby, if you often see your parents quarreling in front of you, the personality will become more excited, irritable, and even become grumpy and withdrawn.

In the inner world of children, they often think that other people's families are so harmonious and beautiful, and slowly form a lack of good speech in front of classmates, isolation, etc. There are many words and deeds that imitate us adults, because the child's first teacher is the parents, if the vicious behavior of quarreling in front of the child, then, the look and behavior during the quarrel, the child will also see it, but also remember it, so that over time, the child's personality will become very irritable.

2. Lack of sense of security, gain and loss.

I believe that there are many irrational parents, as soon as their heads are hot, they start to yell regardless of who is around, and the children must be scared to cry and be scared when they see it, and even think about whether you will separate, then there may be a lack of mother or baby company and so on.

Parents quarrel in front of their children, it is best not to do this kind of very hurtful quarrel in front of the child, because this will make the child feel very frightened and helpless, and seeing the parents quarrel again and again makes the child seriously insecure. In fact, at this time, the child's heart is very fragile and soft. I have read a relevant statistic, 80% of adults who are afraid of marriage have the experience of discord or frequent quarrels with their parents in their early years, and they are disappointed in marriage, and even fearful, which is an insecure factor formed in their early psychology, which has an impact on the child's life.

3. Learn to use it for oneself and not be filial.

Cause the baby is not filial piety is not false at all, often see the parents' quarrels or behavior, usually will be transmitted to the child, not used to the parents every quarrel, when they also have emotions or can not control the emotions, the little guy also has a temper, even to the parents tantrums, over time, the child will become unfilial, do not know how to be grateful, in fact, is not the child's problem, the root lies in the parents, really should not quarrel in front of the child.

Emotional intelligence can only be improved if you are injured, and you cannot improve if you really love the other person. There will be a lot of friction between husband and wife, because many couples do not handle the conflicts between husband and wife well and finally break up, so quarrels become commonplace. Although everyone is reluctant to quarrel, they will occasionally be entangled in some problems.

So how do you reconcile after a quarrel with your husband? Generally speaking, smart women know how to stop arguing at the right time and know how to stop in moderation. Because men hate quarrels, the more fierce you are, the more he will hate you and the longer he will be bored with you.

Therefore, when a woman is angry, she must learn to restrain her emotions, let alone make a fuss or run away from home. You should know how to resolve a conflict between two people.

If you don't know how to communicate with each other, then two people will make each other unhappy when they have an argument. How do you reconcile after a quarrel with your husband? Talk well and quarrel with your husband and learn to be calm.

When two people quarrel, they both have a certain emotion, and it is impolite to speak. Therefore, if you want to reconcile after a quarrel, a woman must speak softly and know how to show weakness. Men are generally more generous.

If you show weakness first, they won't quarrel with you anymore, so that the two of you can reconcile. Don't touch the bottom line of a man's quarrel. Never talk about hurting the other person's self-esteem.

Men have face. If you talk about his pain, he will be annoyed and angry, and you must know how to speak appropriately.

If two people encounter similar things in the future, they will solve them better and the previous mistakes will not happen. The way of a wise woman after a quarrel 1. Humor solves problems If there is always a conflict between the couple, the more quarrels there are, the more tense the feelings will be.

So sometimes some humorous words are needed to defuse the awkward atmosphere. Occasionally, a joke will make the other person stop being angry. Especially a few sweet words from a woman, a man will be less angry.

When you quarrel, you will definitely say something hurtful to the other person. Therefore, if you want to reconcile after a quarrel, a woman must learn to withdraw quickly from the quarrel, learn to appreciate the advantages of the other party, and say something nice, so that the man will not be so stingy and quarrel with you all the time.

Some people say that quarrels are the spice of marriage and can enhance the relationship between two people. But if two people quarrel more and more, or don't consider each other's feelings at all, then arguing will only weaken their feelings. As for how to reconcile after a quarrel with her husband, first of all, after the quarrel, the two people must reasonably analyze the cause of the incident, and if it is their own fault, they must take the initiative to admit it.

With more friends and understanding between the two people, the biggest contradiction will be solved. Husbands and wives should live in harmony, learn to think about each other, and do not care about personal gains and losses, so that they can have a happy marriage.

Because couples will face various life problems after getting married. Oil, firewood, rice, salt and all kinds of issues can lead to quarrels.

Because the two have different living habits and are unwilling to be humble to each other, it will lead to constant quarrels.

It's normal, because before getting married, both parties are deliberately covering up their shortcomings and only letting each other see their own strengths. So after getting married, your own shortcomings will be slowly revealed, which may be incomprehensible to the other party, so there may be friction, and such things need to be slowly improved with a long period of life.