How to let go of hatred for loved ones How to let go of hatred for fathers?

Hehe. Understand you. Grandma's bad treatment of you, I don't know what's going on.

But what I want to tell you is that everyone is ordinary and will have selfish intentions. Neither being a parent nor being a parent is born. It's normal for your grandmother to behave selfishly because of some selfish thoughts.

Haven't you ever been selfish? Your daddy's harshness. I'm telling you, it's really wrong for your dad to stick to you like that.

But. He's definitely like this because he loves you so much. Because he pursues perfection, he wants his son to be the best, but he doesn't know how to guide him correctly, so he has to use very extreme methods.

It can only be said that he is not a mature father, but he is definitely a father who loves his children. If he doesn't care about you, then you should be cold. As I said above, parents are not born, they don't know how to educate you well, and they don't know how to make their sons study hard at this stage so that they can have a perfect life in the future.

At the end of the day, he just wants to make your life path better in the future. It's just that the way is wrong. He absolutely loves you so much.

Your mother. You must know she loves you, right? It's just that.

Chinese have always liked to use this way to motivate children to improve: you see who is who, how good. Or, she dotes on you too much and doesn't feel at ease with you.

If you look at them from another angle, you will find that they are actually very pitiful. You will do the wrong things, and they will do the same things. They do wrong because they don't have parents or teachers who can teach them how to do it right.

And you are different, what you are doing now, your parents and teachers can tell you how to correct it, how happy it is. If you want to be mature, you should start by forgiving your parents and being considerate of your parents. Satisfied.

Actually, it's only to blame her for not having knowledge Nothing else is to blame for her No knowledge is the same, and there is no quality At least, she gave you life Child, make yourself independent as soon as possible At that time, you can leave and don't retaliate If you are a father Don't deal with your children like that This is what you learn The more you give, the more you will get, and some things don't care about Especially mothers, relatives No matter how much you care about it, blood is thicker than water.

Let's start with some high-sounding words:

Are you in college now? After graduating, you will be able to support yourself and live alone for a few years.

After a few years, you will have an enlightenment, whether you choose to let go or go away or something else, it will be left to time to decide.

Live in the moment first, and study well when you should learn.

If you're already working, work hard, earn money and live independently, and leave the problem to time.

True: Forget? Why forget?

Make money first 2Far away, independent living 3When he is old, they will all be returned to him.

My dad was a gambler, and he gambled all the money in the family when I was a kid and never cared about me.

On the first day of junior high school at the age of 13, he went directly to play cards, and he didn't even give him two yuan for the bus fare. In the end, my grandmother sent me. The bus ride takes an hour.

In high school, my parents divorced.

When I was in college, I was sent 2,500 a month while I was in school. Almost 100,000 yuan, I remember them all. When I ask for it later, I'll give it back to him. My current salary is 150,000 or 60,000 yuan a year, which is not bad.

These 100,000 yuan are far less important than the two dollars when I was a child. I'll remember it for the rest of my life.

You can't let a "person without love" love you. Don't force what you don't have! Your sadness is because.

"You shouldn't expect him anymore, you should be stronger, forever and forever away from him."

There is no hatred in the world, it is more of a demon, in many cases, because of the different views from others in life or study, from the beginning of the argument to the end of the bond, this is what we often call hatred ......

When you think about it, you think enamel is ridiculous, life in the world for only seventy or eighty years, every day in the hatred you yourself are unhappy, so you also lose your bright smile and happy mood, hatred blinded you may let you embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes, and then it is too late to hold your head and cry!

If you want to let go of this demon, you must have an open-minded mind, accept the reality in front of you and face tomorrow's life with a positive attitude, so that you will get into the horns of the bull and get out of control, and you can also read more inspirational books to get out of that haze.

You just put it down and learn from it.

There is a shadow in our hearts, but everyone is kind, we just need to be happy.

Ways to help you forget hatred.

1. Many times, it is others that are hated, but it is yourself who is troubled. Learning to give up hatred is equivalent to giving up troubles, never make yourself depressed all day long because of hatred, friends should always remember that some people are not worthy of our hatred and memory. Forgetting hatred is tantamount to treating oneself well.

2. Once upon a time, I couldn't let go of this, but then I always thought that I was actually lucky because the other party didn't let me lose everything.

3. Learn to love your "enemies" more than your "friends"!

But the real enemy must be hated, because hatred is the spiritual pillar ...... any person defeats the enemy

5. For the sake of our own happiness in the future, we must forgive the faults of others. May you forget your hatred soon, have joy in your heart, and live a happy life!

6. From a different angle, there is another world in your eyes;

Don't get drunk in front of flowers in life, 7, this is like a flower. If you fall in love with a flower that grows on one star, then at night, you feel sweet and pleasant when you look at the sky, and all the stars seem to bloom with flowers.

9. On the moral level: love the person who hurts you, because he makes you wiser.

From a physiological point of view: hatred causes a decrease in the heart's pumping rate, which increases the burden on the heart, and there are a series of other physiological reactions, and people with a type A personality who are often hateful and hostile are prone to heart disease and high blood pressure.

10. There are more important and meaningful things to do in life than revenge.

11. When hating someone makes me unhappy, I will take a deep breath and relax slowly, and then I will not think about the hatred for someone, which will be more comfortable.

Forgiving the mistakes of the enemy, changing the psychology of the self, and creating a life are all ideal worlds that the enemy cannot approach, and let others be the reality of hell and disappear in their own time.

There is no way to resolve hatred if the enemy does not apologize, but it can create a life that can be avenged without revenge, so that hatred can become amiable words and deeds, and the enemy can become a good person who cannot exist in the future.

Only by giving up the sins of others can we achieve our own excellence, only by staying away from the destruction of others can we have the future world, and only by dying of the seeds of hatred can we bloom into happy companionship.

In daily life, if we hate most of our comrades-in-arms, it will make us more and more unhappy, and living in hatred every day will also have a bad impact on ourselves, and it will not be worth it to be in the mood to concentrate on other things. To let go of hatred is to let go of the past and let go of yourself.

People's attitude towards life and mood are very important, so maintaining a positive mood will also greatly improve the quality of life. Be tolerant, want to open some, don't drill the horns, since things have happened, we can only change ourselves and slowly accept and slowly let go.

The most important thing is to have faith in life and find your true love. Because he doesn't love you at all, he just wants to possess you for a while, otherwise he wouldn't be doing this to you. Let time dilute the memory.

I can't let go of this hatred. The home is torn apart. I wish I could kill him.