My aunt always says that my mother is not good in front of me, should I tell my mother?

The ancients said that "it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs". Thousands of households live in the territory of Greater China, the lights of these thousands of lights are magnified like twinkling stars in the Milky Way, if you click on one of the infinite magnification of one of them, then we can deeply feel the fireworks in the world, good and bad at a glance.

As the saying goes, "every family has a scripture that is difficult to read". If a big family lives in one world, it will truly show the most real and simple appearance of the world. Living together as a family has both pros and cons.

The good thing is that the distance between the big guys is narrowed, and if there is anything distressed, you can confide in it anytime and anywhere and be relieved. There is also a saying among the Chinese that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors".

This neighbor is still a family, that is a very happy experience, and spending time together will not give you the opportunity to experience the sadness of being isolated. But everything has its negative existence, and when the big guys live together, there is naturally no such thing as "distance produces beauty". After all, life is full of trivial things, sauce, vinegar, oil and salt, and everyone also has their own living habits and ways, and it is impossible to change and accommodate each other.

So if you encounter the most common concubine problem, it is also very normal.

It's like saying that your aunt told you that your mother is not, do you want to tell your mother? In fact, it's good that my aunt dares to tell you, she may hope to let your mother get rid of some bad problems through your messageBut if you're smart, you don't have to tell your mother who said it, you just say that you don't think it's good, and you hope your mother will correct it, and I believe that this is still true. But if it's your aunt who is unreasonable, then you don't have to pay attention to it, life can only be comfortable if you understand each other, right?

Your mother should also know what your aunt thinks of her, but she doesn't want to influence you, needless to say, it depends on how you feel about your aunt.

Anyway, in my opinion, if my aunt dares to say my mother in front of me, I will definitely slap her back, because I can't stand others talking about my mother's bad things in front of me.

For the sake of family harmony, don't tell your mother. Because if you tell your mother, you will not only make your aunt unhappy, but also put yourself in a dilemma.

No, maybe your aunt is just complaining, but telling your mother through yours may cause conflicts between them.

Not only do you have to tell your mother, but you also have to refute your aunt to your face, why did she say that your mother was bad in front of you.

Summary. Hello, dear, it depends on what's going on, if it's a big thing, then it's best to talk to your uncle and aunt together; If it's more private, you can tell your aunt first, because after all, everyone is a woman.

It's better to tell my uncle about my mother's affairs, or my aunt to say that it's good to be a person.

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Hello, dear, it depends on what's going on, if it's a big thing, then it's best to talk to your uncle and aunt together; If it's more private, you can tell your aunt first, because after all, everyone is a woman.

Hello dear, what happened to your mother?

My mom was out talking badly about my parents-in-law. Knowing by my wife! I'm afraid I won't be able to communicate head-on. I'd like to ask my uncle or aunt to talk to my mom!

Oh. Then this family conflict, you can talk to your aunt, generally speaking, the bystanders are clear, and your aunt is your mother's sister, which is more convincing.

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Generally speaking, it is not appropriate for the younger generations to participate directly in the affairs of the elders, because there is a contradiction in the issue of supporting the elderly, then it is necessary to talk about the matter, and those who have money should contribute and make a strong contribution, because after all, everyone's living standards are different. You can't take the same standard Zheng Zhun to demand everyone but those who are willing to contribute often don't get the recognition they deserve, but in fact. These people who contribute often pay more than those who pay, so let the mother solve it herself, and you can put forward some opinions and suggestions in private, of course, if the uncle is too envious and excessive, it has reached the point of bullying the mother, as a child, you can also directly reason with your uncle Pei Paosong, but you must talk about the matter, not the following, otherwise it will turn the reasonable thing into a reason, but you must remember, don't make a conflict because of money, just talk about the matter, there is no problem.

You can't do anything about them, because they are elders, but if your uncle has excesses, you can take action! Nakudan, and the book must remind them to do their duty!

My aunt would occasionally share some difficult problems with me, and she needed the analysis and affirmation of others before she could find a solution that suited her in the opinions.

My aunt and I have a very good relationship and often talk to me about things, whether they are happy or sad.

Yes. Because my aunt and I are only 5 years old, they will tell me about their quarrels, including those with my uncle.

My aunt and I have a very average relationship, and we usually don't tell each other about anything. will choose to talk to their friends.

She wouldn't tell me anything, I didn't know my aunt at all, I hadn't seen my aunt in years.

Generally, she won't say it, unless she brings it up when you go to her house to chat, and it's rare to take the initiative to say it alone.

My aunt wouldn't tell me. She has her own husband and children, as well as parents and siblings, and the first person who thinks of anything will not be me.

No, because I don't have a very clear relationship with my uncle, and I'm relatively young, so I don't know much about their adult affairs.

No, because my mom doesn't have a brother, so I don't have an aunt, and she won't say anything to me at all.

It's still more respectful of personal opinions, sometimes I don't do it right, they will also say that I, what I say is right, I will definitely listen. After all, it is an elder.