Why are we looking for someone who understands themselves? 5

True love is to find someone who understands yourself, and this person may not necessarily be so perfect.

But because he understands me, I think he's perfect, that's how he can read.

What does it mean?

When I had a setback, he didn't say a word that hurt my dignity;

When I was in a hurry, he would never give in and would explain things to me.

When I'm in a bad mood, he never makes a big fuss with my knowledge;

When I rarely saw each other thousands of miles away, he believed in me;

When I'm happy, he's happy with me;

When I am troubled, he is troubled but comforts me;

When I was sick, he would stay by my side and take care of me.

It may be difficult to find someone who understands me, but to have confidence, find someone who understands me, and hope to be a person who understands him.

A smart person likes to guess his heart, and although he guesses correctly every time, he loses his heart; Became a sad and silly person.,Like to give hearts.,Although I'm laughed at every time.,But I get someone else's heart.。

Between being smart and stupid, I choose to be a genuine fool.

Because you understand, you understand.

Because I have loved, I am tolerant.

Only by understanding yourself can there be no too many quarrels in life. A lot of arguments are triggered because there is no empathy, so a person who understands himself will definitely empathize with everything he does.

Know your own. will accept yourself. People who know themselves. It will be a lot less trouble. For example, communication! Common language in this regard. Very important.

Marriage is a lifetime, he understands you, so he understands you, so he can comfort you when you cry, be happy for you when you are happy, and know how to cherish you because he understands you.

Psychologically, this is the heart's desire to be understood. So there is the saying of a confidant. When you read the mind, you feel that the mind is no longer empty. Understanding gives confidence and strength, and life feels fulfilling and meaningful. Confidants are hard to find, and you should try to cherish them when you encounter them.

Don't you want to find someone who understands yourself, who can understand you? He will care more about you, he knows when you are in a bad mood, how to make you happy. Wouldn't it be good for him to know when you want to do something, and then accompany you to do it?

If a person dies for a confidant, he will be clear halfway through the words, and he will tacitly understand it.

Do you want to find someone who doesn't understand you, and then everyone plays with each other I guess I guess I guess I guess?

Cherish it because you know it!

By feeling. Because it is very difficult to find a soulmate, you can only find a suitable person through a long time of getting along and running-in.

In this way, you can find people who understand yourself: always remember that things gather by like, and people are grouped, so you can feel from your surroundings first, who is closer to yourself; Only if you are good enough, will someone envy your personality charm, you yourself have an attraction, there will be a lot of attention and like yourself to show favor to you, at this time you need to have a pair of discerning eyes, pick out your favorite among these people, the most beautiful flowers open for you, you have to fully realize that flawless love, will only exist in **, marriage in reality has all kinds of shortcomings and deficiencies, reliable love is to understand that feelings must be mutual.

I think we must maintain a good attitude, and at the same time, we should have a correct sense of feelings, and we must understand each other seriously when we are in love, so that we can find someone who understands us.

What does it mean to know a person? That requires a superficial understanding of his diet, living habits, personality, hobbies, and so on. And you have to know what she wants in her heart, what she likes in her heart, what she wants to do, his ideals, his future career plan, including his family, circle of friends, communication and so on.

But first of all, being able to communicate normally and well is the premise of understanding, and it is also the most basic beginning. Communication, especially of the heart, is particularly important. It is the best way to get to know a person, how to get closer to each other, you will get to know him better.

You don't know what he likes, what style he likes, at least you're the same kind of people, you can talk together, not disgusted, not hateful. You have something in common, and you work together on this common ground. You have the same thoughts, the same goals, and are pursuing them.

Moreover, it is far from enough to know about clothing, food, housing and transportation, it is only the surface. Maybe she's the kind of person who doesn't look like she does on the inside? I hope you care about him from the bottom of your heart and be considerate of him.

If you can experience a lot with him and witness a lot, then there is no doubt that in addition to these, you should also understand a person's character. If you don't know a person's character, you can't say you know 100% of it. This needs to be understood from all aspects of him, some people may think that this is a very simple thing, but this is just to stay in what you think is that it is not easy to really want to find out his character and get along happily and peacefully.

Knowing his character, you can know that there are some things that should be paid attention to and some things that should not be said, and you can know whether you match his personality or not, as long as you can know what to pay attention to in the process of getting along in the future. These things are not optional.

By the time we have mastered this, we can say that we know 80% about the person. One might wonder, then the remaining 20% is in**? Let me tell you that the last 20% is in.

These 20% require us to have a deeper understanding of him, which cannot be expressed in words, we need to explore by ourselves, two people do not need to understand 100% when they get along, they need to leave some of their own secrets, so this 20% is left to each other, and your relationship must be very close.

Then observe him more, integrate into his life and work to observe, and know what he wants to do with one look! That's what makes a person understand!

If a person doesn't know how to love himself, no matter how much others love you, it will be difficult to be satisfied!

Why? Because no one can reach that loveless corner of your heart!

You can't reach anyone else? So we have to learn to love ourselves and cultivate ourselves!

I want another Liang Heng personal to make up for your lack of love in the scumbag corner, I'm afraid it will disappoint you! Unless this person is really lucky, he meets a person who will give and know how to tolerate!

From a psychological point of view, most of us have never been truly fully accepted and loved by our nurturers in our childhood!

Therefore, we must learn to nurture ourselves again, make up for those missing loves, mend our people and grandchildren, and integrate ourselves!

Be aware of the self, connect with the self internally, and slowly repair the injured self ......

It's been a long journey, but it's worth it! You can suggest reading "Stop Your Inner War" by senior psychologist Mr. Huang Shimin, learn to self-integrate, and I believe you will meet a better ...... yourself

First of all, we must clarify the direction of burying our skin and imitating love bent fiber, don't like one to love one, after all, the only thing that goes to the end is true. Grip.

Not to mention how to find someone who understands yourself, you should learn to understand others.

Feelings must be the kind of two-way love to be able to bring themselves real happiness and joy, and that kind of two-way love must have the following characteristics: first, the kind of two-way love, is based on mutual respect between each other, do anything, two people will have to discuss, and do not set sail is to make decisions for each other, will take into account each other's feelings, even if they are 100% good for each other, they will communicate with each other in a timely manner before doing things, Do it only after getting permission from the other party. Secondly, two-way love is based on the two people caring for each other, especially when the other party is depressed, one of them can always be by the other party's side, and when the other party needs him, he will appear in time.

In the two-way love, each other has the same amount of pay and investment, no one owes each other, no one detours and perfunctory, each can be fully invested and sincerely paid for this relationship, so that each other can feel real happiness and joy. Two-way love should be built on the basis of mutual tolerance, because in the process of falling in love, it is impossible for two couples to have no differences and estrangements, when there are these disagreements and quiet estrangements, it is necessary to learn to tolerate and understand each other, learn to empathize, so that they can quickly eliminate the estrangement between each other, and ensure that the love between two people is more long-lasting.

People have weaknesses that are not easily revealed; The heart is unspeakable, and not everyone can understand it.

In a person's life, you must find someone who really understands you.

People who really understand you never need more words, one expression and one look are enough.

People who really understand you know that your statement is strong; I understand what you want to say and stop; Understand your slightly naïve little cleverness.

When everyone is attracted by your smile, only he or she can see the ripples in your heart and the suppressed tears in the corners of your eyes.

When everyone is deceived by your powerful appearance, only he (she) will feel sorry for your strength.

People who really understand you have nothing to do with wind and rain or sunshine, no need to speak, let alone deliberately.

This person may not be perfect, but because he or she understands you, he or she is perfect enough for you.

People who really understand you will not say many words that love you, but they will silently do many things that love you.

No matter how time flies and prosperity falls, he (she) will always stand silently in the lamplight, and look at each other silently at the end of a thousand sails.

In our long life, we will meet a few people who understand us.

The best comfort is wordless companionship, and the most real touch is the hand-holding of the heart.

The truest love in this world is always so irreplaceable.

Feelings, don't ask for too much, have a shoulder when you are tired, and be considerate when you are wronged, enough.

Life is so short, don't leave regrets, those who can really understand you, cherish them.

May we all be relatively speechless, all peach blossom faces.

Marriage experts say.

To be a woman is to be a woman who can control herself, live for herself, be happy for her own happiness, be good at managing her marriage, but not bet her life and everything on her marriage.

Such a woman should be optimistic and always have a calm mind.

She should know that work is important to her, and even if her husband has a fortune, she will ask herself to work. She always understands the importance of finding her own value in her work and life.

So that the woman will not lose herself no matter what.

When a man leaves her and a lover betrays her, she will face it with a smile.

Because her life does not belong to a man, she belongs to herself.

Wise women, which one should you choose?

Find someone who understands you.

If you want to find true love, you need to find someone who understands you.

This man may not be perfect, but because he understands you;

Therefore, you think that he is perfect, and that is how he understands the word.

What does it mean?

When you have a setback, he doesn't say a word that hurts your dignity.

When you are angry, he will never give in, but will explain the matter to you.

When you're in a bad mood, he never gets the same insight as you and makes a lot of noise.

When you are thousands of miles away and rarely meet, he also believes in you.

When you are pleasant, he is also pleasant and will tell you.

When you are upset, he is also upset but won't tell you easily.

Understanding is how much understanding, how much understanding, and how much love is needed.

It may be difficult to find someone who understands you, but have faith.

Find someone who understands you, and maybe be a person who understands him.

The person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances, and the person who really loves you will not say many words of love for you but will do many things that love you.

Therefore, only one person who truly understands you will share the joy of your love with you!

Love the word collection a complete heart - on behalf of cherishing!

Love word collection: a standing heart - on behalf of companionship!

It may be difficult to find someone who understands you, but you must have confidence, find someone who understands you, and expect yourself to be a person who understands him. The person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances People who really love you will not say many words of love for you, but will do many things that love you, so only one person who really understands you will share your love with you.

No one in the world knows himself better than himself.

Psychologically, this is the heart's desire to be understood. So there is the saying of a confidant. When you read the mind, you feel that the mind is no longer empty. Understanding gives confidence and strength, and life feels fulfilling and meaningful. Confidants are hard to find, and you should try to cherish them when you encounter them.