What is love is called understanding, I decided to break up, right?

Ay! I find that I am very similar to you! I also broke up with my girlfriend yesterday, and I also brought it up! I love her very much, but she can't give me a sense of security! She has a good family environment and a good relationship with the opposite sex! There are always a lot of boys around!

Why should I break up with her on the initiative to break up? It's not that I don't love her, but I love her very much, because I want her to be happy, and since her heart is no longer with me, why should I drag her. Love doesn't have to be possessive, it can be giving up, blessing, watching!

I don't want our relationship to deteriorate so much that I don't even have a chance to watch her from the sidelines! So I choose to let go!

But I have no regrets, because I fought for it, but it didn't work in the end! I wonder if you have ever exchanged or fought for it?

Maybe I was selfish, because I said that I dumped her, but what hurts my heart is that she didn't even ask! That's better! I can die and silently watch her be happy!

Excuse me! Off topic! If you have fought for it and exchanged it, it still won't help! Then you should have no regrets! It's also right to break up, keep the only dignity to yourself!

Good luck!

I don't want to go into a long story or how to comfort you, because your decision (from your description) I think is right, and the reason is simple: if she really cares about you, all the things you don't like (including what you misunderstand) won't happen or rarely happen! Sometimes letting go is a relief for each other!

Be chic and say in the past: bye!Time will erase everything!

Absolutely right! I've had this experience too, and I always want to care about her very much, understand what she's been doing lately, and send her a message, but I won't be on QQ, that is, busy, I don't have time to reply to me, and there is a day in the back that I actually saw her get into someone else's car, and I was heartbroken.

If she doesn't have nostalgia, you don't have to insist on it, and if she is nostalgic, it shouldn't be like this, it's better to be decisive and thorough.

Since it's a must, don't hesitate

Trust between people is like a piece of paper, once it is crumpled, it is difficult to get it back flat

Alas, it's up to you, since you don't think you're worthy of your love, don't fall into it anymore, think about whether you will marry him in the future, think about the scene of separation in the future, and you will know that you are naïve now.

Troublesome,I feel that I have to be thorough.。。。 I'm afraid you're not determined enough ...

You have to think that after a while he can forget about you and find another one ...

Since we can't continue to be together, let's separate, and it's important to go to the doctor first. I want him to give him a **,

If we can be together, let's make amends.

If you really don't want to get back together and just think about him.

You just divert your attention and find someone to hang out and have fun with, eat and drink, and spoil yourself.

What is not worthy of your love, since you have decided to break up, don't pay attention to him, the reason why you miss him, one is that you live in a foreign place, have no support, and are sick, you will naturally think of the person you want to rely on, but can he rely on it, he will feel sorry for you, hear your hoarse voice, what will happen to him, think about all this, and you will naturally understand what to do.

Because love is like this, then love him well, huh.

This is normal, every couple wants to break up is in this mood, because only at this time will I think of the happiness and joy of being with him, since I decided to break up and think about it again, he has to hold back, be sensible.

Adapting to this process, it's not a big deal, God destined you to separate, it means that you are not suitable, why do you want to make do with it, long pain is better than short pain.

Treat yourself well, go to the doctor when you are sick, and even if he comes, he can only cure your lovesickness.

Don't think about it, it's not worth it for the person you love to think about what he's doing, think about yourself, think about your parents, it's not worth it.

Find another one, find one that can hurt you and love you.

But remember to deal with the breakup, you girls break up according to your own wishes, without considering the feelings of others.

You didn't say, why is he not worthy of your love, how to solve such a problem?

You add a question, why do you feel wronged with him?

Well. You added that it would be much easier to solve.

Boys are like that.

Chasing a girl, even if it is so ugly and ugly in the eyes of others, as long as he is chasing her and doesn't catch her, he will always chase her, but if a very outstanding and beautiful girl shows a lot of love for a boy and is willing to do anything for that boy, the boy will feel annoyed.

In fact, to put it bluntly, you won't fall in love, the most basic thing in love is trust, he doubted you at the beginning, it can be said that he cares about you, cares about you very much, but blind doubt is his own problem, in fact, you should break up with him at this stage! But you don't.

Now you rely on him to pull, and when you say that you will regret breaking up, you will be itchy if you don't fight. It seems that outsiders feel cheap, in fact, they are all caused by dependence, it is recommended that you sort out your mood well, if you can't control him to call **, don't bring your mobile phone, lead some friends to play, or better yet, work hard and study, don't let yourself have time to think about him. You slowly learn to be independent, you slowly give up dependence, you have to learn to push yourself to a dead end, you can't think of him seeing his dead end!

Only then will you be able to eliminate your dependence on Him.

Question 1: If you have a restaurant near your home, the food is expensive and unpalatable, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again because it is so close and convenient?

You will definitely say, what kind of rotten problem is this, who is so stupid to pay for sin?

But in the same situation, on another occasion, I may do something similar stupid.

Many men and women have complained that their lover or spouse is misbehaved, half-hearted, and irresponsible. knows that there is no good result together, and there is more resentment than love, but "I don't know why" I still want to get along with him, and I can't break up. To put it bluntly, just for the sake of unwillingness, for the sake of habit, isn't this the same as visiting a restaurant?

As a man, why should you be too persistent?!

During the transition period, it is recommended to travel far away, on the one hand, to relax, on the other hand, to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, after coming back, you will be very calm, then do things more rationally.

I recommend listening to a song, it will help you.

Strings"Opposite direction"

That proves that you can't let go of him, and if that's really you, you should think about your decision.

Huh· In fact, breaking up is very painful, after all, two people have feelings! But it's better to think about it in a different way... In fact, some people are not suitable for lovers, but more suitable for friends, aren't they? It's not that you can't get in touch after a breakup... You can also be a good friend! ~

As the saying goes, when there is continuous interruption, you will suffer from it.

Why do you feel that being with him is wronging yourself?

There is pressure, and you need a lover to care for you.

You really shouldn't give up at this time.

A loved one is there to help and support you in your most difficult times.

Not at the best of times.

You think that's good for her. Actually, she'll think you're ruthless. A woman who has been hurt will never be in love again.

Although you are not sure if you will be able to give her happiness in the future, if you are separated now, you will never be able to give her anything. Isn't one's love the driving force for you to move forward? What's more, she understands you so much and wants to be with you.

You know it yourself, and you're still here to ask!!

The girl who loves you so much, what more could a husband ask for.

Find a chance to talk to her, I think he cares about you, and will come to you after a day or two apart, instead of not seeing you for a month. Maybe your breakup is just a temporary pain, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

A year ago, my girlfriend told me that we wouldn't be in touch for a week. See how it felt, a week later we broke up. I said the same thing to a girl three years ago, and we broke up as a result.

It's not very clear, he may also be thinking about the relationship between you, since the result has been reached, then be more tolerant, it's not easy for two people to be together, you should treat each other more, sometimes men and women have different ways of thinking, and the angle of consideration is also different.

Truly loving you won't make you so miserable.

Just ask yourself and don't let yourself regret it.

I don't know if your boyfriend is very introverted. If so, that means he really spent that time thinking about the problems between you. If not, then I think you should think about it.

Since you both like each other, why not try to be more understanding and tolerant of each other. If you always quarrel and hurt your feelings, you can easily accumulate heart disease. One day, if it erupts, it will be out of control.

Before breaking up, you should test whether the other party really cares about you. What choice he will make between certain preferences and yours.

He's thinking about being quiet and marrying you, no need to be suspicious, the man who cares about you is the best, thank you, give a point.

Break up, if you propose to break up, the best gift is not to bother the other party, so that the other party's heart does not ignite hope and dash, this hurts people too hard, if the other party proposes to break up, to send gifts, the other party will not want it, the other party will not accept you, how can you still want to see you, let alone think that something appears in front of you to remember you, if it is a good friend after the breakup, it is impossible to become a good friend, unless there is a special reason.

Can't be too precious.

He'll be a little sad.

Don't you want to hurt him?

I tried. Send a card or a small notebook.

Write a few simple words on it:

Thank you for always loving me.

We can be friends, right?(grimace).

Then sign a big name.

That's it. It should be possible to bring it with you.

Be small to remember.

I want a small book. The best gift of breaking up is not to be together again in this life, if it is to be friends, either you still love him, or he still loves you, anyway, there is one party who pays, and it is unfair to one party, so I still think that if you break up, it is best to give it or not to send it... Especially for men (psychology) If you still want to be friends with him, the man will think that you still love him, and it will be very painful! Don't hurt a person like that.

When my friend shared it, his girlfriend sent 3 packs of mustard!

That friend on the first floor was so creative.

Send him a clock...

It's amazing

In a word, I want to open, I want to open, I must want to open!

Since you don't have nostalgia, break up, break up, never regret it, and you won't break the ......

The next stop is happiness ......

Congratulations, just think about it this way, a breakup is the end of the past, the beginning of a new life, a good life, a good life awaits you. ：

Okay, as long as it's good for yourself and nothing harmful to others, then break up and walk away! Think about it and don't leave yourself with regrets!

Make your own decisions and live your own life!

Then encourage yourself to forget the past and start a new life.

It's about meeting and making it clear, and it's a kind of respect for him to you.

The text message just said that it meant to him.

But if you want to make a decision, you must make it clear in person, and explain the reason in person, if he really wants you to be good, he will understand.

It's about meeting and making it clear, and it's a kind of respect for him to you.

Go ahead! It's good to make it clear in person.

Go, you don't love him anymore, you should make it clear, don't let him feel that there is any hope

What should be faced is still to be faced, not just a text message can be done. If you have something to say, you can talk about it clearly in person!!

I think it's better to meet, and although I don't know why you're apart, you've been together. Mistakes will be made, and since he still wants to make amends, it proves that he still cares about you in his heart. Give him a chance to make amends, but at the same time, he must be given a deep understanding that he must not make the same mistakes again.

Since you propose to break up, you prove that you have given up on him, and you have hurt him at the same time.

Let's go meet her, but don't sympathize with you because you're moved to be together again! That way the two of them will be more miserable, and the result will still be the same as now - break up!

If you're sure your boyfriend isn't violent, you might want to consider meeting him. But if he usually compares that, it's better not to see him. After all, safety comes first.

In fact, if you really decide to break up, it will be in vain to meet again, it's better not to see each other again, so that he can completely die.

It's better to respect his choice and make it clear when we meet.

When you meet, it's a sign of respect for each other.

Treat each other with respect.

Let's go see you.

You should go, even if a relationship doesn't exist, you have to face it squarely and make it clear what should be said.

If you think clearly about breaking up with him, I don't think there's any need to go, women will be soft-hearted, and if you go, maybe you will be moved by his behavior or words, since you have made it clear in the text message, I think it's better not to meet.