What to prepare for the engagement as the title Thank you

Last night, I also heard that a friend of 10 years was getting engaged, and I was really happy for her, very touched!! View the original post

When everyone talks about engagement, is it hanging silver or what? Like these well-married friends around me, their engagement is very simple, the man gives a ring to the woman. Then choose a good day to hang silver, hanging silver is that morning the man should bring gold and silver jewelry, money, cakes, sugar, these things to the woman's house, and then change his name to Mom and Dad.

Eat at the woman's house at noon and go back to the man's house in the evening. Hanging silver is also considered complete. Next, wait for the official marriage of the girl.

Then I went to the restaurant for a treat. View the original post

Reply to ker145's post I heard that engagement does not need to be done by the man's parents, choose a good day, just take a set of money with your boyfriend and his friend or something, and what else ......Just go directly to the woman's house. The parents of this man's family should understand, don't worry about your turn. View the original post

Is this the reply to the post of Wandering Thoughts? Why do I hear from our side that the man's engaged parents don't come together is disrespectful to the woman? What is it like? View the original post

On a good day, the man should be accompanied by his parents or relatives (preferably parents) and bring his betrothed items (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold bracelets、..Go to the woman's house to sit (at that time, I was engaged to have two gold rings and "dragon silver", while my classmate's engagement was gold rings and red envelopes). The woman should prepare sweet noodles, and after the man handed over the woman's betrothed, both parties should eat sweet noodles, and the sweet noodles cannot be eaten all, and there must be leftovers in the bowl.

That's it! View the original post

Hehe, we don't seem to have this ceremony, we are with the consent of both parents, the man's parents go to the woman's house to propose, that is to say, in a word, but we attach great importance there. After that, we are hanging silver, and the future husband brings the prepared dowry, gold jewelry, cigarettes, candy, and cakes to the woman's house (in some places, the man can bring a few friends or relatives), in fact, these ask the older generation to view the original post

Reply to Little Goose's post The engaged parents are coming, and then they don't have to be hired. View the original post

Engagement, generally in the woman's house engagement, the man's family to the woman's house engagement, the engagement means that the marriage has been decided, when engaged, the man's family is to prepare 8 things to go.

1. What to prepare for engagement:

1. The woman's family needs to prepare things.

1) Dowry: The big hire is a check, and the small hire is cash.

2) Six Rites: The Six Rites can be prepared according to local customs, if you feel that the Six Rites are more troublesome, then you can use red envelopes instead.

3) 6 red envelopes for pressing tea pots.

4) Table ceremony, which mainly includes banquet fees, chef etiquette and serving ceremony.

5) Matchmaker gifts: The man's family gives the matchmaker more gifts than the woman's family.

2. What the woman's family needs to prepare.

1) The groom's suit, tie, and leather shoes.

2) One tea tray, 6 teacups, longan red date tea.

3) Sweet tea, glutinous rice balls, and dim sum should be prepared.

4) Matchmaking gifts.

5) Book a banquet.

6) Prepare a box of fruit as a return gift for the man.

7) Reserve the money for the banquet and dowry, and return a part of the dowry to the man according to local customs.

2. Eight things to prepare for the engagement:

1. Money box: It means that the woman's family is wealthy.

2. Ruler: a measure of happiness.

3. Comb: Comb mainly refers to the newcomer who will grow old together.

4. Ruyi scale: I hope that the married life can be very wishful.

5. Mirror: represents the fulfillment of life.

6. Scissors: Scissors were mainly used to cut clothes in ancient times, and they were used here to imply that the newlyweds had a very good life after marriage.

7. Dudou: In ancient times, it was the main instrument for measuring grain, and it was used here to indicate abundant food and clothing.

8. Abacus: It means that the married life can be peaceful and have a reasonable plan.

The eight kinds of gifts now are: sugar, wine, pork legs, red dates, fish, and gift money. Whether it's 8 or 6 gifts, it's a beautiful thing.

Summary: The things you need to prepare for marriage are introduced here, some places have a custom to prepare eight kinds of gifts, and some places are a red envelope to get it done. It's just a matter of custom.

Summary. 1. The items that the man needs to prepare when he is engaged.

1. Four-color ceremony: cigarettes, wine, tea, and sugar, all four of which must be double-served.

2. The bride price for the woman to buy clothes, which depends on each family, and the customs of different regions are also different. Some families have diamond rings, and jewelry is all included in this money.

3. Jewelry: diamond rings, three gold, jade bracelets, ruby rings, black and white porcelain Bulgari rings, Gucci diamond-encrusted watches. I think these also depend on the situation, some unnecessary do not necessarily have to be luxuries, and they do not necessarily have to be prepared on this occasion, they can be completely tricked down.

4. Cakes, some are particularly particular about two cakes, one dragon and one phoenix. 5.Flowers, order a bouquet of 99 red roses, preferably packaged in black paper, with a low-key sense of luxury.

What you need to prepare for the engagement, be a little more detailed.

1. Items that the man needs to prepare when he is engaged 1. Four color gifts: cigarettes, wine, tea, and sugar, all four of which must be double. 2. The bride price for the woman to buy clothes, which depends on each family, and the customs of different regions are also different.

Some families have diamond rings, and jewelry is all included in this money. 3. Jewelry: diamond rings, three gold, jade bracelets, ruby rings, black and white porcelain Bulgari rings, Gucci diamond-encrusted watches.

I think these are also based on the situation, some of the necessary scumbags and relatives do not necessarily have to be luxuries, and they do not necessarily have to be prepared on this occasion. 4. Cakes, some are particularly particular about two cakes, one dragon and one phoenix. 5.

Flowers, order a bouquet of 99 red roses, preferably packaged in black paper, with a low-key sense of luxury.

2. Items prepared by the woman at the time of engagement 1. First of all, the woman's family in most areas will prepare some decent items for her daughter at the engagement banquet. However, for the bride, only by knowing what her parents will prepare for her can she know what to expect and shine more in the engagement banquet. 2. Then, generally speaking, the engagement gifts prepared by the woman's parents for their daughter now include:

A set or two hail clothes, a pair of shoes, a watch, a ring, and so on. If the woman's family is financially average, the engagement gift for the daughter will generally be less. If the woman's family is financially strong, then the engagement gifts for the daughter are far more than that.

3. Finally, there are some differences in the return gifts given to their daughters by the woman's parents in each place. Therefore, for the most accurate engagement return gift items, you can decide according to your local engagement customs. In addition, you can consult the elders of the family or the older people in the village, and the engagement items that come out of their mouths will definitely be the most authentic.

Of course, it varies according to local customs and habits, and it also depends on the situation.

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Engagement is an important ceremony before marriage, and because of its importance, the things to deal with and the items to buy are also more cumbersome, and many couples don't know how to start. Here's a list of engagement preparation checklists to see what you need to prepare for engagement and what the specific process looks like:

The parents of the man and the woman sit down and discuss the dowry together, such as the bride price, the dowry, the engagement banquet time, etc.

Once the engagement is decided, the two families can prepare a list of engagement parties to invite, usually the parents and some close relatives.

If you have a matchmaker, you need to determine if you need to invite a matchmaker.

The place of engagement is determined according to the number of people to be invited, usually at the woman's home, but also in the hotel, and a box can be arranged according to the number of people.

Next, the man can prepare the dowry and the woman prepare for the wedding.

Determine the engagement day process and whether to invite a host, photographer, etc.

Both men and women need to buy clothes for the day of engagement, such as shirts and suits for boys and red dresses for girls. In addition, you will need to prepare the clothing for your parents.

Purchase items for the engagement day, including decoration supplies, guest entertainment items such as candy, dessert tables or cakes, engagement books and other ritual items, etc.

Guests will be notified of the time and place of the engagement banquet by invitation, and 1-2 weeks in advance can be notified.

Host an engagement reception.

The above is a complete set of engagement preparation lists, of course, engagement is only the beginning of the preparation for the wedding, and in the process of preparing for the marriage after the engagement, it involves all kinds of odds and trivialities. Married life is a very important part of life, and everyone wants to have a very smooth married life. Engagement is a very important event for both couples and even for both families, both of whom are busy preparing all kinds of items for the wedding.

As the first step before marriage, engagement, we can't be sloppy, because this is also the beginning of two families becoming a family.

Generally, it is necessary to go to the woman's home to propose marriage, and then give the bride price, if the woman's parents agree, you can directly get engaged, and then hold a banquet.

When it comes to getting engaged, young people now do some hotel decorations, then prepare engagement rings, and then family and friends eat together, and parents give them meeting gifts.

The engagement needs to prepare candy, as well as wedding wine, and also need to prepare the venue, and the engaged groom must go to the bride, give the bride roses, and the bride and groom must toast relatives and friends.