After watching Predecessor 3 , the woman jumped off the roof of her ex s house, what is the problem

Caring about the life of your ex,It will affect the life of the ex and cause trouble to the exIf the ex already has a new partner, it will also cause distress and stress to their relationship, which really shouldn't be.

Recently, there has been a movie about the ex that is very popular, and there have been various jokes related to the ex, but in the past two days,After watching this movie, a woman in Nanjing found that her ex-boyfriend had a new love, and she chose to commit suicide on the roof of her ex-boyfriend's house. Fortunately, the police and firefighters arrived in time to save the woman.

Predecessor 3 is a big hit, because it really evokes many of our good memories about the ex, and the topic of the ex has become popular on the Internet, and even many people go back to find the ex's craze to get back together, but because the ex has a new girlfriend, he ran to the roof of the ex's house and jumped off the buildingThis practice not only treats his life as a child's play, but also brings a lot of trouble to his ex.

People are emotional animals, and it is understandable to care about the lives of people who have known and loved each other and supported each otherBut I don't think that this kind of care should go beyond the limits of not being intrusiveOnce you exceed this limit, not only will you not be able to let go of your heart, but your ex will also be troubled by your interruption again, especially if your ex already has a new partner, and if you go into his life again, it will affect their relationship and make your ex unhappy.

Previously, it was popular online"Qualified ex".This topic, netizens unanimously agreed,A qualified predecessor is to treat himself as dead in front of his predecessor, that is, to cut off all contact, and to die and never get along. I think this is a really qualified ex, if you really care about him and really want him to be good, you should not bother, not that you can't let go of yourself and don't let him feel better.

Concern is chaos。Caring about your ex's life can cause distractions to the other person, and it can also make you deeply trapped and unable to extricate yourself.

On January 8, in Nanjing, Jiangsu, when a woman watched "Ex 3", she found that her ex-boyfriend's circle of friends had intimate photos with other girls. She found her ex-boyfriend, and the two sides quarreled while talking, and the girl ran to the roof of her ex-boyfriend's house and sat on the roof to jump off the building. The police persuaded bitterly:

You're about the same age as my daughter. ”

It has been scientifically proven that if you are in a long-term relationship, your brain's neural sullies will develop against this object. The only way to stop this is not to put salt on the wound, that is, to stop interacting with him. I know it's painful to cut ties with someone you've been close to in the past, but trust me, it's even worse to constantly see him on social ** going out for a party after a breakup.

In order to give you space and time to heal, let the body, mind and spirit integrateYou have to cut off all contact with him and stop caring about his life.

Caring about your ex's life means you can't let go of the relationship yet. Don't go to eat Huitou grass, no matter how nutritious it is, it is just Huitou grass. Putting down the dignity of looking back, in exchange for only contempt and disapproval.

Look at the opening point, there is fresh young grass everywhere. Only by letting go can you have a chance to discover more beautiful scenery.

If you want to redeem and get back together, then you should give him space and time to miss you. It's a well-known piece of advice in pop culture, and as many people know, you're more likely to come back when you're no longer begging or sending hundreds of texts to the ex-boyfriend who dumped you. Give him a little time and space to savor life without you, let him have the possibility of changing his mind, and let both parties think about the direction of this relationship, whether it is divided or combined, and can be true under the experience of time.

All in all, caring about the life of your ex not only does not allow you to let go of this relationship, but also easily causes the psychological burden of your ex.

Abstract] The movie "Predecessor 3" was released at the box office, and after watching this movie, a woman in Nanjing found that her ex-boyfriend had a new love, and she chose to commit suicide on the roof of her ex-boyfriend's house. Fortunately, the police and firefighters arrived in time to save the woman.

At about 5 o'clock in the afternoon of the 8th, the Guanghua Road Workstation of the Nanjing Qinhuai Public Security Bureau received an alarm, saying that someone jumped from the top of the 5th floor of a community in the jurisdiction, and the person looked very dangerous on the edge of the terrace and needed to be rescued. After receiving the alarm, the police quickly arrived at the scene and found that a young woman was crying outside the protective railing on the roof of the building.

2.After communicating with the woman at the scene for dozens of minutes, the police found that the woman was wearing light clothes and shivering from the cold, so they discussed with the fire officers and soldiers next to them, pretending to give the woman clothes, and then rescued the woman when she relaxed her vigilance. The plan was implemented very successfully, and when the firefighters handed the women's down jacket, the other party hesitated, but still chose to accept.

At the moment when the woman got up to take the clothes, the firefighters grabbed the woman's hand, and the police flew over the railing to grab the woman's legs, and the two sides worked together to send the girl back to the rooftop from outside the railing. Subsequently, the woman was taken back to the police station, and the woman told the police after stabilizing her emotions. The boyfriend she had been talking to for a long time broke up, and she watched "Ex 3" that day and didn't control her emotions to find each other.

Conclusion] found that her ex-boyfriend already had a girlfriend, and the mobile phone circle of friends was full of intimate photos of them, she felt very desperate, and she sat on the rooftop as soon as her emotions lost control. Subsequently, the police conducted a long period of psychological counseling for the woman, and notified the woman's family to pick up people to prevent the woman from doing stupid things again.

Recently, the popular movie "Predecessor 3", many viewers have posted on Moments after watching it, and they feel very touched after watching it, and even some women with extreme emotions were so excited that they jumped off the roof of their ex's community, which instantly caused a sensation in societyIn the face of this past relationship, how to correctly handle the relationship with the ex is very important, as a girl, you must be sensible, do not lose yourself in the relationship.

Personally, I think that a good movie can often evoke some past memories of the audience and tell some real-life truths or insights, and in the face of the ex, I think if it is a girl, I first suggest that you must return to realityYou and your ex are already in the past, and not bothering each other is the best choice, maybe one of you can't let go of this relationship, but don't forget that the reality of two people is over, don't leave yourself in the past.

Since you chose to break up at that time, no matter what the reason, it shows that the fate of the two people has come to an end, even if you let your old love rekindle, you will not be as happy and happy as before, in this broken up relationship, both of you have been hurt, so why go back and uncover the scars again, so that both of you are in pain? Maybe it's the right choice for each to start a relationship again, and not disturbing each other is the best way to get along, so why make yourself and your ex uncomfortable?

Summary: "Ex" is the most familiar stranger, and getting together and dispersing is the best ending, and the only thing you can do is to pray for your exI wish them a happy life in the future, and in the face of your ex, please be sure to keep the best memories, at least you have left the best stories in your memory.

【Abstract】In the Chinese New Year stalls where good movies gather, "Predecessor 3" starring Han Geng, Zheng Kai, Yu Wenwen, etc., broke out of the encirclement and stood out on the box office list in the past few days. Within 10 days of release, the total box office exceeded 1 billion, and so far it has achieved a box office result of 1.5 billion. If "Predecessor 3" can continue its current popularity, the final box office performance will exceed 2 billion, which can rank among the top ten box office in the mainland.

1.However, there is a lot of controversy about such a popular movie, and many viewers think that the plot of "Predecessor 3" is too pretentious. In terms of Douban scores, this movie has only achieved a rating.

It can be seen that this movie has not been recognized by Douban users who are partial to literature and art. However, it is no accident that "Predecessor 3" can achieve such a box office. As a romantic comedy, the plot of "Predecessor 3" is very down-to-earth and can resonate with many audiences, and this kind of content pokes the hearts of many people with stories and evokes their memories of the past.

2.As told in "Predecessor 3", many people fail to come together in the end not because of emotional reasons, but because of too much helplessness about reality. Too many people have a deep feeling about this.

Not long ago, a woman almost jumped off the building because she watched "Predecessor 3". According to news reports, a woman in Nanjing had difficulty controlling her emotions after watching "Predecessor 3" and ran to find her ex-boyfriend, but at this time her ex-boyfriend already had a new girlfriend, and the two lived a very sweet life. The woman and her ex-boyfriend couldn't get back together, and in desperation, she chose to commit suicide, she ran to the rooftop on the 5th floor to jump off the building, and was fortunately rescued by the ** who arrived.

It can be seen that the lethality of "Predecessor 3" is really not small, and many netizens have complained because of this: "Hurry up and ban the broadcast!" ”

Conclusion] However, I think that it is inappropriate to blame this film for such a problem, after all, director Tian Yusheng's original intention is to let the audience cherish the people you love and love you around you now through this film. There is no problem with such an implication, it's just that some people misinterpret it, so it's obviously inappropriate for this pot to be carried by "Predecessor 3". I also hope that such a laughable thing will not happen.

Summary. Who would you help if my ex and I were going to jump off a building?

You are a good trip, I am very happy to serve you, can you describe the problem in detail, provide more information about the side effect, you add filial piety and stool I can better answer for you, I hope it will help you.

My girlfriend asked me who I would help if she jumped off a building with her ex-girlfriend.

My girlfriend asked me who I would help if she and her ex-girlfriend jumped off the building at the same time.

I saved her first or both, and she said it wasn't the answer she wanted.

I don't know what to do with her.

Please let me know.

I don't really know what to do.

Okay, you wait a minute.

You can say: The former girlfriend is a trip in my life, you are what I have now, who do you say is more important? If you get close to me, I'll save you first, you are the one who accompanies me; The closer she is to me, I will save her first, and then I will compensate you for the rest of my life.