What if you want to be taken seriously?

Do yourself well, stick to what you do, be exquisite, and always shine.

You don't have to care about other people's eyes, high-profile work, low-key life, serious to do the things at hand well, if possible you can choose to help a group of colleagues, naturally, you pay more, over time will naturally be valued by others, anyway, the more you care, the more you can't get.

It's normal to want to be valued by others, but the key is how to get yourself noticed by others.

Relax yourself, you care too much about what others think of you. You are who you are, even if the environment and friends around you are updated, then you are still excellent. Be unique, be confident. ‍‍

I just want to do what I should do and protect my rights and interests You like to pick thorns so much It seems that you like to eat sauerkraut fish Can you afford to do what you should do If you can't do it, change people.

This phenomenon is very normal, the key point is how to treat or deal with this phenomenon, this phenomenon is nothing more than the following situations: get the attention of others, do not get the attention of others, get the attention of others but do not pay enough attention, not only do not get the attention of others but feel despised by others, etc. If you don't handle it well, it will have a great impact on yourself, and I personally think that a normal psychological phenomenon is not advisable to have a bad impact on yourself due to being evaluated differently by others!

You are looking at the scenery and you are also the scenery, a person and society should achieve a harmonious degree and deal with it calmly, but you can't ask yourself to relax, do your best to do things, and do it with a clear conscience!

People are always looking for a sense of identity, and I am the same, but if you can adjust your mentality, then you will find your own flaws in thinking, and even if you don't talk about it, someone will see you who is becoming more and more successful. ‍‍

If you have this requirement, it means that you have strong self-esteem and a strong sense of self-love. The idea of self-esteem and self-love is a sign of self-esteem, self-confidence, and enterprising spirit. But any problem, there must be a degree.

If you do that, you will deviate from the right path. You are aware of your problem, which means that you value or find it harmful. Paying too much attention or deliberately attracting attention is also the embodiment of the idea of fame and fortune that human nature is prone to.

If you have this kind of thinking or practice for a long time, it will make others think that you are hypocritical and selfish, and they will alienate you. To solve this problem, the first thing is to be honest, generous, look far away, and think high. Secondly, indifferent.

Less desire, less selfishness. If there is no desire, there is no desire.

If you want others to pay attention to yourself, you must first be excellent, most people like excellent people, capable people, slowly become excellent, and someone will pay attention to it.

This is normal, in psychology, Maslow's needs level is that people have physiological needs, security needs, love and belonging, respect needs, and self-realization needs. You want to be respected, and that's normal, everybody wants to be respected.

Maybe it's a lonely personality, and I always want someone to accompany me. So even if you don't want to do something, in order to keep your friends, you won't offend people!

If you are not old, then this is very normal, I know that you are still young as soon as I look at your question, and when you grow up and slowly mature, you will have new preferences, don't think too much, it's just that there is an age to like things and pursuits, and you won't be interested in the future! Now do what you want to do, while you're young.

You are a bit self-conscious, you are not excellent or confident in life, maybe there are not many people around you who pay attention to you and care about you.

By the way, is it a relative or a relative......? Most people are just to their parents, and they won't be like you ...... get the attention of your relatives

Since this is the case, then you take the initiative to chat with them, such a simple method, why bother to make yourself obviously unwilling, and what kind of "unsociable among friends" to win people's attention, this kind of thing is not difficult at all, and it is nothing compared to your brothers and sisters. Moreover, judging by the fact that your relatives are very concerned about your cousin's behavior, they are the kind of adults who usually don't show their love and hide it deeply. If you are willing to take the initiative to go to them, how can they ignore you.

Don't rely too much on it, though. It's just a little bit of a communication problem (I can't notice it yet), I already have my parents' concern, and I'm so eager to be noticed. You don't say it, and you probably don't think about it, but you're jealous and controlling.

Not ...... thoughYou at least have friends.

I think it's a good thing, because you thought about getting people to notice you.

Then you should try to be yourself, give them less trouble, and do more of what you should do. The most important thing is to get the study up, if you get the school's recognition in learning, then the family will definitely know, just later, but it doesn't matter, they will know, so you must be very outstanding in a certain aspect to get the attention of others.