What is puberty seeking!! Adolescence is also important!

It is a period when physical and mental characteristics change significantly.

Adolescence refers to the stage of an individual's sexual function from immaturity to maturity, and biologically refers to the transition period of the human body from immaturity to maturity, that is, the transition period of a man from childhood to adulthood. During this period, the personality is sexually mature and can already be fertile. It can be seen that puberty is mainly a stage based on the criterion of physical sexual maturity, which overlaps with the stage of life that is divided from the psychological or social aspects.

During the growth and development phase of the human body, puberty takes up half or more of the time. Adolescence currently does not have a consistent age range across countries, but generally refers to the age of the year, and in psychology, it is also called early youth, which is equivalent to the secondary school stage in education, and is characterized by rapid physical growth. In addition to adolescence, adolescence will continue until the age of 25-30.

Since males mature about a year later than females, the age range of puberty for males can be set at 14-18 years. It is normal to be 1 2 years early or late. Men of this age are often referred to as adolescent boys, while women of the same age are referred to as adolescent girls.

During adolescence there are not only noticeable physical changes, but also often great psychological changes.

For adolescent children, there must be a method for education. Sometimes as long as we say it and your child knows, you don't have to make him admit his mistake. It is rare for an adolescent child to let him admit his mistakes.

Don't argue with your child to the end, it will make your child disrespectful to you in the end.

1。It's normal to have this kind of thought, and no one wants the person they like to grow old, so don't think there's anything wrong with this kind of thought, and relax.

2。Everyone will get old, and so will you, but each stage has the charm of each stage, don't you think that your parents, grandparents, although they are older, have their own charm?

4。Also, now the maintenance of artists is much better than that of us ordinary people, they still feel very young when they are 30 or 40 years old, there are many examples in reality, right?

...No way? I wasn't like this when I was 13 years old??? Those handsome guys and celebrities, I looked handsome, and said that they were very handsome, and they passed, hehe.

1. What are you worried about?

It's that people will always get old.

Everybody will, it's useless to worry.

So don't worry about pulling all day.

Isn't it a bit too much, don't go too far, now you still have to focus on learning, and you have to have a degree of star chasing.

This age stage is like this, it is a stage where you can't do big things, you don't want to do small things, you are impetuous and empty in your heart, and you have no sense of direction.

Stick to one thing every day, anything is fine, but you must insist that you must complete it on time and in quantity every day.

For example, running 3 laps after self-study every night, or stacking 10 paper cranes every day, etc., can have nothing to do with studying.

But it must be persevered!

Let your impetuous heart slowly return, and let yourself slowly have a sense of belonging.

Then give yourself some positive mental cues every day.

Don't do something halfway, if you think you're going to do it halfway, don't do it in the first place.

Because giving up halfway will greatly aggravate your inferiority complex and impetuousness.

Believe in yourself and you'll adjust!

I was like this when I was in my third year of junior high school, and now that I'm in my third year of high school, I'm in this mood a little bit more.

However, it is necessary to ease the mood.

Think about it first, do you miss high school? If you miss it, work hard, and if you want to study, you must go to high school, otherwise you will waste three years in vain!

If you don't want to go to high school and your family doesn't stop you, then you can choose to go to a better vocational college and take it easy.

If you ponder these words of mine and think about what kind of life you want in the future, you will have a goal.

If you are tired, relax, the entrance exam is indeed a big pressure, success or failure in this move, but, all roads lead to Rome, there is no need to press yourself to death, if not, change the road, the same is a sunny day!

Everyone has a time when it's useless to worry, so why think about it so much.

One step at a time, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, maybe you will understand it later.

There will be a negative time in the third year of junior high school, but what really affects you is that there are no friends, this is the most lonely and helpless, the academic gods can be assaulted, but the psychological emptiness can not be filled immediately, Ma went to school, to change the attitude to life in high school, learn to integrate into the collective life, can not be too independent, nor can you feel inferior because of some aspects of yourself, unwilling to make friends, a new life is coming soon, don't put too much pressure on yourself to study, if you can't restrain yourself to go to the study room at night for self-study,There's nothing to be confused about this.,When you participate in the work, you know that going to school and exams.,Making friends is the easiest thing.,Be happy.。

First of all, I want to determine your gender, so that it can be better targeted, here are a few questions for you to think about first.

First of all, the family environment you are in now should be the same as when you were a child, but if you are unwell now, it means that you have a problem.

Secondly, you should think about when the current feeling began to appear, if nothing else, it should be when you enter puberty.

So, why does a person have psychological problems when they enter puberty? Let's first analyze what will be faced when entering adolescence, children before adolescence give people the feeling of carefree, because they are still in the psychological and physical early childhood, especially in the state of psychological dependence on others; Adolescence is the stage of physical and psychological maturity, physiological changes and the formation of psychologically independent personality is that children in adolescence face too many unknowns, so they begin to have a skeptical attitude towards their surroundings, especially the care for others always feel that there is something else, and the concern for parents always feels that they are against themselves, so they will hesitate, impatience, and show that they are irritable or depressed, and there are many ways to solve them, but the key is how you regulate your own state.