Don t know what to do? It s very contradictory, I hope you can help find a way. Thank you.

For the case that the child does not want to go to the kindergarten, the parents should first respect the child's wishes, and if the child does not want to go, let him rest at home for a few days first. During this time when the child is resting, it is best for parents to figure out why he does not want to go. You should pay enough attention to the changes in your child's personality after leaving you, and think about communicating with your child, rather than handing it over to the elderly.

You have to think of ways to describe the benefits of kindergarten, for example: you can play with children, let your child be full of longing for kindergarten, tell your child that kindergarten is a beautiful place, and when he has finished studying, his mother will come back to see him. In short, it has to be encouraged or rewarded, and it has to be the talk.

Your husband is right, and you can feel that he is a very smart person by your question.

Be sure to spend more time with your children! Many relationships between parents and children deteriorate because parents go to work to earn money. A good relationship takes time, and if your child spends more time with his grandmother than he spends with you, then how can you expect him to have a good relationship with you?

Your husband is right, and your heart is good. Making money is for the happiness of the family, and if you don't have time to be with your children because of making money, then what's the point of making money? Since you said that your family's economic conditions are okay, then you should spend more time with your children, even if it is to earn a little less money.

Be sure to spend more time with your child, only then can the child feel the love of the mother. Grandma's love is no substitute for a mother's love. And children at the age of five are very, very in need of their parents' company.

The foundation of the child's future in childhood must be with him more during this time to give him a good foundation. In this way, it is not only him, but also the whole family. If the child does not receive enough love, he will not be able to give enough love in the future.

I'm glad that your relationship with your mother-in-law can get better. You can see if you can bring the child here, which should take care of the mother-in-law at the same time, and be able to spend more time with the child at the same time. If it doesn't work, then you should go back.

After all, the child is the first generation of the relationship, if the mother-in-law is satisfied, but the relationship with the child is estranged, isn't it sad? You can see if there are other people in the family who can take care of your mother-in-law, or. Take a look.

In any case, you must spend more time with your child so that he can clearly know how much you love him, and only then can he love. It must be clear what is first, otherwise if the secondary is satisfied, the most important thing may be lost. Communicate with others and listen to what they have to say.

I don't know your situation very well, so I can't say absolutely that decision is the best, the decision can only be made by yourself. Come on, one right decision will bless you for a lifetime. Come on.

I find you as conflicted as I am.

Know your own shortcomings. But I can't always reverse it, so that I am still contradictory.

Alas. Life is so smooth. If it's too smooth, won't it be interesting soon? But when things don't go well, it's definitely a little confusing. You may even suddenly feel that what you are holding on to every day is so empty.

Believe that this is just an episode when life loses us in difficult times. It will never affect the main theme of your life, happiness and open-mindedness!

For life, we have nothing but persistence. What else can be done?

After talking for half a year, did you know her true situation? If that's the case, it's better for you to break up if you feel pain, and you can't hurt her in just half a year.

Do you love her? Love her and care about this, if you don't love it, let it go! Who hasn't gone over! Are you going to live with her in the future, or are you going to live with her? Think about it!

There are certainly no smooth sailing times at work, there are always twists and turns, and there are troubles.

Let yourself calm down, calm down, and then think about staying.

If your current job is like this, and if you change jobs in the future, do you have to keep changing jobs?

Work is always like this, sometimes it goes well and sometimes it doesn't. Few people leave it for such a reason! If you have a future, do it.

The tree dies, and the man lives.

Take a few days off and wait until your mind is clearer, and then consider whether you have changed to a new unit.

That's how life is. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad.

Face it bravely, don't be afraid of the timid. If you try it, you will have a 50% chance, if you don't try, you will have 100% no results, what are you afraid of failure! Boys need to have courage and backbone.

There must be a lot of similarities between two people, such as living habits, whether the spiritual level of two people is at the same level, you think you are sometimes very unreasonable, in fact, it is wrong, he must also have a reason, I have also gotten along with an object before, when I am with him, just like you said yourself, bad temper, and even vexatious, and then I changed my boyfriend and it was different, first of all, this boyfriend he understands girls, he won't raise the bar with me, As long as I say that he will take it on himself, different people she is different, I am not here to persuade you to divide it, first of all, you have to make sure that your object really does not understand you, or is too lazy to understand you, whether he is good to you, can he take into account for you in the details of life, some boys are naturally more selfish and he will not consider it, such as my last one, but some boys he is willing to be good to you with his heart, but he won't, this girl should be able to feel it, then you have to teach him, My friend's boyfriend just doesn't care much about people, but my friend taught him that he gets along very well now, and there are very few such small contradictions, in fact, this kind of guy is much better than the kind of boy who naturally understands the mind of girls, understand!

Only by living a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, do you know the taste of marriage, since you live together, you might as well take a little longer, if you can't accept the problem, just leave.

In fact, one thing is very simple, that is, you don't love him. Can't look down on him.

That's why you can't look down on what he does.

Just like my ex-wife too, didn't love me during that time. It's also something she doesn't like to see.

Don't be too superstitious, life is a matter of two people, there is something to discuss, how to do it! Life is happy to communicate! Communication is fundamental!

The two places are difficult, the two of you communicate seriously, and if you can bear it, you can continue, otherwise you will break up!

If we can recognize each other's own shortcomings, we will definitely be able to.

We are all persuaded to divide and not to make peace, you can't look down on what he does is that you don't like him, engagement is not marriage, you can regret it, think it out for yourself. You only said how you didn't get along, you didn't say how you got along, no one is perfect, you can live together if you know it, and you can't bear to divide it quickly.

It is recommended that you go to Guiyang and live with him before.

Don't get pregnant at this critical time.

That's because you've passed the shelf life for him.

This is the frost on your tile, you have to come by yourself.

Wouldn't it be better to be humble and tolerant of each other?

Since the family has urged you to go on a blind date, and the two of you are not in the same city, but the relationship is still very good, I think the better solution is to take her to work in other places, after all, you have been chatting online, try to take her to work in other places, and then live together for a period of time, cultivate a good relationship, understand each other's places, and if you can really get together, you can directly lead her back to get married.

It can be seen that you are sincere, but all kinds of factors add up, and there is really little hope of being together. If you want to make it clear to her, there is no way not to hurt her, just make it clear, time will smooth everything out, and it will not be good for any of you to drag it out.

。That's what you think, are you sure your girlfriend is worried about that?

Why doesn't your daughter-in-law listen to you?

But you can't let people listen to you for everything, why didn't he listen to you.

How long have you two been guessing Don't move, don't worry, don't want to divide if you don't move, isn't it better to be able to solve it The two of you communicate more.

Alas, landlord, I am just like you. It's just that things are a little different.

I also have a good male friend, but he's been nice to me lately.

Even joked that let's talk about friends, I like you or something.

He said it was a joke afterwards, but I knew it was true.

I like a boy, and this boy likes it too, and he's been chasing me for almost a year, but because I didn't like him before, but recently I like him, and I like him very much.

However, he seems to be cold to me, and I haven't been in a good mood lately.

He came running and said I was going to talk to you about friends, and I was disgusted and disgusted with him, but I solved it.

I'll tell you my method, and I hope it can help you.

I made it clear to him, I said, I have someone I like, but I don't want to lose your good friend.

So, if you insist on this, I'm sorry, I can't help it, feelings can't be forced, I still hope we can be good friends.

That's how I do it, I don't know if that male friend of yours is the same as my male friend.

I'm just going to tell you my method and I hope it works

If you are in lovelorn, your thoughts during this period will be a little extreme, and you are afraid that you have just come out of the wolf's den and walked into the tiger's den. You can clearly tell him that there is a chance, but if you choose the wrong time, I will hate you if you push too hard, and everyone is still in a hazy state.

There are many kinds of friends, there are many types of men, men's possessiveness is very strong, some men can make superhuman actions for their own selfish desires, what they can't get is the most precious, get it and give it up, show their attitude, take a stand, and when they are constantly broken, they will be disturbed Otherwise, if the friend doesn't do it, he will be an enemy Don't be the injured woman.