What are your usual precautions?

I have lived for nearly 30 years since I was a child, and I think that I have seen enough people and the world, so after the tempering of 9981 difficulties, I have suffered a lot of losses and encountered many setbacks, and I have learned to be smart, know what to do and what not to do, and I have become sleek in dealing with the world, and gradually I have my own careful opportunity. Whether it's work, making friends, or life, I've started to use the right amount of care, so that I don't hurt myself, and I can make others happy, killing two birds with one stone.

First of all, I would like to talk about my own caution at work. Since graduating from college in 2013, I have been in the workplace for four years, and I have fallen many times in these four years, suffered many losses, and always jumped into other people's pits. When I was at work, I never thought I was very honest and honest like some brain-dead people, and I would tell other colleagues gossip or a few bad things about another colleague, thinking that as long as I said bad things about others, everyone would alienate the person concerned and get closer to me.

If I have to comment on a person, then I must only say good things about this person, and don't say a word of bad things, because after a long time, whether it is good or bad, it will reach the ears of the parties, so I try not to make enemies for myself, and I will not let other colleagues give me a hat that loves gossip and chews the root of the tongue, which is really damaging to my image.

In life, if I make some new friends and meet a certain elder, I will never arbitrarily judge this person's ability and family background based on the other person's appearance and dress, and then treat them differently with different attitudes. Because I can't judge from their external image what they are capable of, whether their family background is good or bad, what their interpersonal relationships are, some people may be very shabby and plain, but in fact the family is very solid, the network is also very extensive, and some people are well-dressed, but maybe this is just what they pretend to show others. So I will never treat them differently based on my first impression, maybe these people will become my good friends in the future and help me at a critical moment, these are all unknown.

We live in this cruel and intelligent world, everyone is very realistic, everyone has their own thoughts, so when we treat them, we must also show our own careful thoughts, so as not to let ourselves suffer, in order to go further on the road of life in the future.

If you dare to ask questions about careful scheming, then I will come as a "scheming man". I think that when it comes to dealing with people, having too much scheming will definitely have a negative impact, and you will become a person who is very deep in the city, so that you will not be treated well. Therefore, there can be a careful opportunity, but not too much, and a good careful opportunity can promote the relationship between people.

So let me talk about my usual caution.

In life, I have a little trick to praise others. No one doesn't like to be praised, and everyone loves to hear good things. And I am a sweet-mouthed person in life, giving a certain amount of praise to everyone, which will not only make the person being praised happy, but also leave a good impression on the person being praised, so as to enhance friendship.

But one thing to be reminded of is that praise needs to be real and timed, not deliberate. Just like in the hit "She with Taste", the nanny relied on the details of praise to get closer to her relationship with the second young lady to get on the throne, of course, such a deep scheming is not advisable.

Another trick I use is to look someone in the eye when I'm chatting. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and when chatting, looking directly into the other person's eyes will touch the other person. If you are telling by yourself, looking directly at the other party will give a kind of deterrence, a kind of charm that touches the other party, and the cooperation of language and vision can persuade others and make them concentrate on listening.

When listening to others, looking directly at the other party will give the other party a good impression, will make the other party feel your sincerity, will make the other party feel respected, and show that you are really listening. The eye contact is the communication of the heart, which helps to deepen the feelings.

Put yourself in front of others frankly. Take the initiative to expose your weaknesses to others at the right time. Give the handle and topic you want to expose to others.

The meaning of caution: to be careful; Tricks: Wasted money. She's not very old, but she's very .

Scheming. Pinyin: [ xīn jī ].

Citation: "Lu Xun."

"We don't have to go to great lengths to learn the words of the dead in ancient times, and we have to say the simple words of the living in modern times. ”

Scheming synonyms:一、心組 [ xīn jì ]

Stratagem; Intentions: Yes . Worked in .

Zu Wei "The Water Broken by the Reef": "In order to compete for an orphan's inheritance of more than 20,000 yuan, she tried her best. ”

二、心 [ xīn si ]

Idea; Intentions: I can't guess his.

Zhu Peng is rough and clear.

Nanjing": "Huomeng Building A row of windows is arranged with the most thought, so that you can see not much at all, no less. ”

The word scheming is generally full of derogatory connotations, but sometimes the proper use of some caution in life will also bring us great convenience. Especially in the workplace and love, a small scheming is also very important. Of course, at this time, you should not think that scheming is a very shameful thing, because the caution mentioned here is full of good intentions and will not harm the interests of others.

In the workplace, I believe everyone will find that sometimes we always have to say some words against our hearts to make the leader happy, and if we say the wrong thing, it is likely to affect our own development in the workplace. If one day we see our female leader getting a new nail and she is very happy to come over and ask if her nails look good. Even if we think in our hearts that the nail is really not good-looking, it looks black, and the style is very old-fashioned.

It is very important to be careful with good intentions, but at this time, you must not say what you really think in your heart, but use caution appropriately. It can be euphemistically praised that the leader of this new nail is very suitable for her, and the ** that sets off her is also very white. If you want to shorten the distance between you and the leader, you can ask the leader very enthusiastically if this nail is made in **, and you can also try it next time you have time.

In this way, the leader will think that he understands the world very well, and does not seem to be a real sycophant of the leader.

Use caution to advance the development of the relationshipIn the relationship, using caution will also be conducive to the progress of the relationship between two people, I believe that any girl wants to show the best side in front of the person she likes. When the person you like asks you to go out to climb the mountain, you can change into a particularly scheming no-makeup makeup. The base makeup must be particularly light, and then the color of the lipstick should not be too heavy, and it is best to use lip gloss to look like nothing.

When the other party asks if they have makeup, they can be without makeup, have you learned these careful machines?

When taking pictures, I like to stand in the C position, that is, in the middle, which is the most conspicuous, and when I eat, I like to eat all the delicious things and not leave a little for others.

In fact, I also have my own ideas in life, that is, I have my own opinions and opinions on certain things, and then I have a new understanding of certain things.

Don't speak ill of others behind your back, because if you do, it means that it has reached the ears of others; You can't be a man, and don't stick to the end in things that don't hurt the big principles; Learn to be flexible and put practical interests first in some things.

For example, I like a celebrity very much, but I don't make a big deal about it, I will let others take the initiative to discover my idol, and from time to time I will pretend to be a passerby to introduce this idol.

I will wear a little lipstick every day to make myself more complexional, so that I look more energetic, and some lipsticks can be applied whiter, so that I can also make myself appear whiter.

After buying any cosmetics that are easier to use or look very good, they will be reluctant to tell others, because they are afraid that others will be more beautiful than themselves, so they will have some caution in this regard.

I will not tell others my facts, I will not tell others about my family situation, I will not share my other half of my life with others, I will not tell others about my savings, and I will not tell others my real age.

When I make a choice, I always choose the more self-interested aspect. Whoever is involved, I will choose myself. I'm more selfish.

1. The caution that will not tell others is a secret to communication that does not need to be spoken, and for the real world of life, the cautionary world is to be careful and leave blank.

Love a person is the most careful companion, such as raining, once said that he likes a companionship the most, and the result is as he wished, and being careful is the importance of knowing how to be cloudy and sunny.

Like a kind of communication is the most cautious thinking, such as the gift on the field, once hoped that there was a distance just right, now it is granted, and the caution is the rhythm of each other's silent joy.

Needless to say, because I have been accustomed to the way of being careful, and the silence of the exchange of the best courtesy is golden.

Second, the careful machine that can't tell others is a confession that can't be blunt, and promises a kind of never giving up on the morning and twilight, and the careful machine continues to fly and dominate.

For example, if you work hard together and have a successful career, the result is far from the other, one to the left and one to the right, and finally miss a kind of careful opportunity to walk side by side, and the careful opportunity is a kind of bitter opportunity regardless of each other.

Spring, summer, autumn and winter must be haunted by careful opportunities, such as deciding that next year must achieve a certain idealistic color, as a result, others can dominate the future, and they are still standing still, and being careful is also a rhetoric to urge the world.

Careful machines have tricks, and all of them have become cognitive nagging without a trace.

Third, the real careful machine does not need dialogue, the smart careful machine does not have a message world, the perfect ending of the careful machine can complete a life posture, the careful machine is used to a variety of eyes to pick and choose.

Others can be cautious and can also see ten thousand years, such as the rules of communication on the road to work, you don't need to be careful, but there are also confident and cautious people.

The careful action of others is also the best of both worlds, such as the tacit understanding of the way of communication, the unique parallel road of the wishful thinking to achieve wings and fly together, and later there is another kind of careful machine object.

The careful machine is a private customized elopement monetization, and it is also the object of individualistic private meetings.

Why should I like it in seconds? Does it seem like I'm too proactive, too enthusiastic?

Did someone ask me if I am? Even if it's okay now, I don't want to go back directly. Because I don't usually keep in touch, do you ask me now? There must be something to ask me, who wants to be troubled?

When there are more people, the less they want to talk, because the other party is too smart, so it is necessary to guard against others. It's okay not to speak, and keeping silent is a hardcore attitude, at least no one dares to mess with me.

01, don't always go to the circle of friends to like, second likes are even more inappropriate <>

Whether in reality or on the Internet, the smarter people are, the more low-key they are.

More and more people like to stay at home, chat online, look at the circle of friends, and obviously have seen the other party's circle of friends update, but they don't want to like it, let alone like it in seconds.

Because some people don't want you to pay attention to his dynamics all the time, you can just watch it once in a while, don't watch it every day, curiosity kills the cat, and some things have to be kept low-key and pretend to be stupid.

Liking in the circle of friends is to brush our sense of existence, and chasing others to like it is equivalent to telling people that I am always paying attention to your affairs, is it really good to do this?

Occasionally give a thumbs up and tell the other person that I'm there, and it's no different to have more.

02. When there are many people, I don't want to talk more and <>more

When I was young, I liked to chat, I liked to talk, and I liked to join in the fun, but now that I am older, I don't want to talk more and more, and when there are many people, I want to shut up, and I want to stay in the corner and listen to others.

It's not that I can't speak, it's that I know that if I talk too much, I will lose it.

What do you say? An expression can reveal one's heart.

Therefore, the safest way is to stay in the corner and listen to others, especially when dealing with smart people, listen to them and not say it yourself.

Keep your heart when you're alone, and keep your mouth when you're in a group.

What kind of person I am, only I know, the more I reach a certain age, the more I like to be low-key, the more I like to be quiet, and the more I like to be alone.

My silence does not mean that I am a bully, my silence does not mean that I can't speak, my silence just represents an attitude, I don't want to cause trouble and waste time.

Time is the most precious, there is time to read more, do more meaningful things, do less boring things, gossip is the most likely to cause trouble, when there are many people, I just don't want to talk, I don't bother to do a smile.

Epilogue <>

Did someone ask me if I am? Even if I'm here, I don't want to be there.