After I get divorced, do I want to take my children and remarry?

Depending on the situation, it depends on whether the man you want to remarry treats your child as his own, if not, I advise you not to remarry for the sake of the child.

1. The man you remarried is very good to your children.

I think this situation is still okay. Children's hearts are actually very fragile, and if the man you remarry is not very good to your children, it may cause indelible pain in their hearts!

If you divorce the father of your child, it will cause him a lot of damage, and he may become disbelieving in love, afraid of marriage, and even have a bias towards a certain group of people. If the man you remarry can't treat him as his own, his soul will be hurt twice, he will feel that his birth is a mistake, he will feel that he is redundant, and he can't help but want to hurt himself to alleviate the pain in his heart!

I think the father and son who handled this issue better were Zhang Danfeng and Zhang Haofeng (formerly known as Mo Haolian). Zhang Haofeng is actually the son of Zhang Danfeng's wife Hong Xin and Mo Shaocong, but since Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin got married, Zhang Haofeng has been treated like his own, and the two have gotten along like brothers. I think it's good to remarry!

2. The man you remarry is not good for your children.

Not everyone gets along like Zhang Danfeng and Zhang Haofeng, and some men may think: "This is not my son, why do you marry you and ask me to raise someone else's son for you, don't even think about it, no way"! If you meet this kind of person, then I advise you not to remarry, such a narrow-minded man I think may be okay for you, but it will be bad for your children.

This is very detrimental to the growth of children! Over time, the child's personality will become very withdrawn and unwilling to talk to others. Eventually, self-harm may occur; What's even more serious is that I don't believe in Aisin and treat feelings as a game!

I hope that at this time, everyone can think more about their children, really!

I don't know what you've had a failed marriage for? But you always have your own reasons for leaving, and when you ask if you want to get married, I think you should come this way

1. For marriages that have failed in the past, they may have a fear of marriage and fear of failing again. I think so! Love knows no age, no matter whether you have children or not, and not because of divorce.

It's just that you have met the right person, and you can't close the door of your heart because of your past failures, and you don't open your heart to anyone.

Such a closed self is an irrational choice, and the most important thing for oneself is that there is one less opportunity to feel love, and one less opportunity to enjoy being loved. For your own children, they will grow up in a family without complete love, and such an environment will have a slight impact on the child's growth.

So if you are afraid of marriage because of the failure of your previous marriage, and you are no longer willing to open your heart, my advice is to try to let go of yourself, and if you meet the right one, you can remarry if the other party can accept the child. And I hope you are more biased towards children.

2. If you are a person who is becoming more and more courageous in marriage, I suggest that you keep an eye on your life and don't give yourself to each other easily. You can't get married for the purpose of getting married, after all, marriage is not the cradle of happiness, and marriage is not the ultimate guarantee of life, you must be loyal to the level of your inner happiness index. If you are divorced and remarry with your children, the purpose is just to find a meal ticket, your own meal ticket, and your child's meal ticket.

Then this practice I advise you not to rush at home.

In fact, in today's society, only a little bit of economic independence will have a say in the family. Of course, there are so many opportunities to live on your own in today's society, so why give your life to others? Is it just looking for a meal ticket?

I really can't imagine what it would be like for a child to grow up in such an environment. But he knows that he has a mother who is not independent, and you should be able to think of the consequences of this impact on the child alone.

In the end, the above is just my personal opinion. After all, marriage is your own, you need to make your own decisions, and you need to control your own life. As long as you are happy with your choice, or as long as you can bear the consequences of your choice, you can protect yourself and your children no matter what the situation.

So to marry or not to marry? Who should you listen to? Is it that if it is stopped, there will be no love, and if it is blessed, the marriage will be happy?

So, ask your heart and enjoy life.

If you meet the right person, you should get married, this is the case now, but I haven't waited for my half yet.

If you don't get married, I think you will put all your feelings on the child because of yourself, and ask the child to be stronger everywhere, or spoil the child too much, so that the child will also have pressure, and it is really not good for the child's growth, don't say that you don't marry because of the child, afraid that the child will be bullied, etc., will a person who really loves you bully your child, bully your child because he bullied you first, because of your cowardice, timidity leads to the intensification of bad men, divorce is not terrible, It's not scary to remarry, it's scary that you don't know how to improve yourself, you don't know what you're wrong with, and you don't know what you should do and what you shouldn't do.

If you don't get married, the child has grown up in a single-parent family since childhood, I think this is also harmful to the child's growth, in fact, today's children understand everything, don't treat them as ignorance, don't think they don't understand anything when they are young, my daughter is like this, although she is only in kindergarten, but I feel very mature, and our era is really too far behind, like I sometimes say her, make him angry, she will talk to her father, but will avoid me, will not take the initiative to mention her father in front of me, The child's heart actually hopes that more people will care about her and love her, they know the meaning of mom and dad, see that others are mom and dad, his heart is also very longing, I think it is better to give the child a complete family, the younger the child, the less the intervention of strangers will be rejected, a person is really good to the child, no child will not like it, so after the divorce with the child must remarry, but don't settle, has failed a marriage, I hope that next time I must find someone who treats me sincerely!

If the child is still young, you can consider getting married, after all, it is good for you to find someone who is really good to you, or your son. But then the child is very old and already sensible, and then she likes her dad very much, it is recommended not to marry, otherwise it will affect your impression in the child's heart, and it will be embarrassing to have a bad relationship with the child.

I think you have the right to choose your own happiness, if you meet a suitable person, I think you can be at home, if you don't meet the right person at all, then I think you have to stabilize your heart and not be particularly anxious, because there must always be someone who is suitable for you, so I think you can also have a better life with your children.

It depends on the wishes of his ex, whether he wants to take the child or not.

Want. I am a divorced woman with a son, I will be 32 soon, I have been determined to have children since the day of divorce, there was no job at that time, there was no way out, I faced all the unknowns, and I thought about the worst, but only my heart told me that I would be better off life than death without children, and I would not be able to eat and sleep well without children, inner torment, and torment of longing.

As soon as I think of it, I have no hesitation to talk about the custody of the child, and then I have to believe that I will live well, faith is very important, and with a child, you will work harder to exert your potential ability, which is also the driving force.

Why do you say you don't want children? You can marry better, the man is better, but the fact is that men are realistic now, living together will still make you very disappointed, you will think of your own children, and you can reduce your burden, live a free and easy life without child constraints, but a person is full, a person goes out to travel, go home alone after work is like a lonely ghost, with a child no matter how hard and tired you come home and see that face, call mom, mom, how warm!

You say that people really live only to have money, dress well and eat well? Is it possible to save money to prevent old age? I think that life is the process of feeling the ups and downs, raising children is also a great cause with affection and righteousness, a great achievement, and I will never regret it, but to invest in men's feelings, good luck is OK, in exchange for some warmth, bad luck ruins a lifetime, pure luck.

Since the child is born, you have to shoulder the responsibility, if the other party is a man with positive values with a sense of responsibility, loves children, and is literate, you can consider giving it to the other party, if not, bring it yourself, for the good of the child!

Because if you don't want children, you will miss the child's life, and it will be difficult to make up for it later. And if you don't want children, just to marry a man with better conditions and not be disliked, at least I don't think it's worth it. Because remarriage will also have marital variables, remarriage, perhaps only a small number of women can take the reproductive rights into their own hands and no longer endure the pain of giving birth a second time.

A divorced woman with children can still have another life after marriage, as long as the two are happy and communicate with each other, they can make their lives more happy and happy.

Since you already have children, don't have them even if you get divorced, because that will cause a burden on your children. Sometimes it's time to write down, don't suffer your children for yourself.

Depending on your age, you generally want to have your own children, and the man will think about this to some extent.

Whether to remarry and have children depends on the wishes of both spouses.

Whether or not to have a child in this situation needs to be resolved through negotiation between two people or two families.

There is no absolute answer to this question, because marriage still depends on the right person, it is very simple that you have a crush on others, and others also have a crush on you, but because you have a child, others may not necessarily be with you, one is because it is acceptable to have a child should still account for a small number of people, after all, it will involve family burdens and pressures, and there is also the fact that the man or the man's family can accept the fact that the divorced woman still has children, so this really depends on fate, and it is useless to say more.

In fact, it mainly depends on whether you are good enough! Excellent people must not worry about getting married! And now there are more men and fewer women! In fact, the chances are quite big! And then there is whether you want to or not! After the divorce, your woman can still bring two children! It shows that you are very responsible.

She is a kind woman who deserves to be treated well! This quality is also worth reaping happiness! I wish you more happiness in the future!

But whether you are good or not to marry, whether you can compete with other women, the conditions you explain alone are not enough. First of all, you must have no bad habits, look not ugly, be healthy, have a decent style, be reasonable, and be diligent and thrifty. A woman with a good wife and a good mother is more pleasing to men.

In addition to your own cultivation, you must be more cautious in choosing a mate this time, you can't be hungry and don't choose food, and you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. It is necessary to calmly summarize the failures of the previous marriage and learn from the lessons. The key to choosing a mate is character, and you must accept your daughter at the same time and treat her as your own.

This is important and indispensable. Anyway, it's the same as a first marriage. I wish you happiness and happiness.

Now the divorced woman is fragrant, because the divorced woman knows how to deal with the feelings between husband and wife, she knows how to manage the family well, knows how to treat husband and wife to understand, support and respect, and knows how to be tolerant and generous in front of her husband.

I believe that in a certain corner of the world, there is also a person who is struggling to find the subject. Although the views on marriage and love and secular habits are different in different places, after all, marriage is only for you and me. There are widows who remarry, and there is no shortage of people who are over half a hundred years old and bloom twice, and they are full of hope for the end, because the rainbow always appears after the rain.

Yes. First of all, this question is a bit of a problem, a woman's divorce is not a disadvantage, and taking children is not a disadvantage, but if you deny your identity, it is really difficult to find a happy love or even marriage later.

As long as you meet the right person, you can get married. First of all, you can't treat your daughter as a burden to you. Think of it as your loved ones and emotional sustenance.

Secondly, if you really meet someone who loves you, he will love Wu and Wu, and he will love you and your daughter, so you don't have to worry about not being able to marry with your daughter.

If you have a daughter, you can get married. Because there will be no financial pressure on my daughter's words. There will be no such thing as buying a house. So it would be better to marry someone to have a daughter than to have a son.

Of course, you can get married, as long as a woman is good enough, she can marry if she wants to, and now the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced, and there are more men and fewer women, so it is not a problem to get married.

As long as you meet the right person, you can get married. However, there will be a lot of things to worry about when you remarry your daughter, after all, the other party is not the biological father of your daughter, and there are many things that need to be avoided, inconvenient, and there will be some worries.