I m a fifteen year old boy with inexplicable emotions

Do you have someone to believe? Or do you think there's something you can trust in this world?

A mask is a way to protect oneself, but wearing it all the time can make you tired, empty, and sad. You should show your true self in front of trustworthy people, always suppressing your true self can easily lead to misanthropy, and one day you will feel like you're going crazy and want to hide from everything.

We try our best to forget a relationship, but we can't help it. It's because we often think about it, and our minds have precipitated these things that don't exist. These distressing things don't exist in substance, and we sometimes have too much virtuality.

The most important thing is to relax yourself, there are still good people in this world, there is nothing wrong with being wary, but suppressing yourself all the time will make you miserable.

Relax yourself at the right time, show yourself to the fullest, don't restrain depression, and release yourself easily.

Find something you love.

It's you who want to keep it that way ...

In fact, every heart is a lonely drop, no one is the sun, why do others always revolve around you.

An empty mood means that you have no goal, the blind move forward of the purpose, 15 years old is still a student, study hard.

Set yourself a goal for your academics, it's important! Don't give up on studying at any time!

High vigilance also comes from a sensitive mind, which can be a very small thing or a very small action.

I can't help you if it touches you, makes you happy or angry. Originally, the vigilance was high.

It's a good thing, but it's not like that if you go too far, things will be reversed. Trust the people around you.

Even if you can't completely trust your friends and classmates, you can always believe your family, mom and dad.

When you have nothing to do, go to the mountains and bask in the sun more, just yell when you have nothing to do, hehe, I hope you can solve the problem as soon as possible.

Hello, I am!

A 15-year-old boy, in the third grade of junior high school, mainly manifests himself in: he can't control his emotions, gets angry when he is not satisfied, loses his temper, can't calm down when he is studying quietly, is impatient when he encounters problems, and even loses his temper.

I haven't scolded him since the first luck scum, mainly to appease and encourage, but sometimes it's too annoying, and I'm about to take the high school entrance examination, for fear of affecting his studies, it's not good to use coercive means, and sometimes I want to give up and ignore him.

I don't know how parents interact with their children, but it looks like your child hasn't learned how to deal with life's setbacks! I don't know if as a parent, do you establish good communication methods and habits with your children?

On the one hand, children in the third year of junior high school are about to face further education, and the academic pressure will be heavier. He needs to learn how to deal with the pressure of studying and the anxiety in his heart! I don't know what efforts you have made in this regard, and how do you reassure and encourage them?

On the other hand, are you aware of the difficulties or pressures your child has in life? A 15-year-old can already be said to be able to think about many issues! Do you know how he views and faces life and studies?

Overall, your child has not learned how to deal with setbacks and how to live with their emotions. He needs time to adapt to the changes at this stage, and he needs the opportunity to try and make mistakes!

Because we are at the same age, we will face the same questions and thoughts!

It is advisable to visit the school to find out the situation or to communicate with your child. You need to know the problems and frustrations he encounters, and you need to understand what kind of state the child is in psychologically!

Communication is always our first recommended way to solve problems!

I'm not sure if you have a mental problem or a psychological problem, in fact, to put it simply, your mentality has not been adjusted well, you have no friends abroad, you may not have much fun at ordinary times, and you can't vent your emotions, so you will feel depressed, and it is the time of youth and vitality, easy to be impulsive, easy to lose your temper, and not able to control your emotions, these are all understandable phenomena.

Give you two methods, one is to make your body move, when you feel depressed, go to the sports field to run, run until you run by yourself, don't think so much during the run, just put your energy into every run you make, when you are sweating, you will no longer have the energy to think about those boring things.

Second, you can read some books, books you like, you can increase fun, and there are some inspirational books, and books that purify people's hearts, you can improve your confidence in life, recommend two "The Power of the Moment" and "A New World", I feel that these are two great books, I hope it will help you, if you have any questions, you can ask Oh.

Well, you mentioned that you went to school in Japan and you don't know Japanese, you don't have a Japanese teacher, and you don't have any friends. I feel so lonely and I don't have anything to talk to. You can talk to your parents about you or some friends in China.

When you wake up from a dream, you feel sick because nothing you are dreaming about makes you happy. Frequent nightmares will certainly not be good for sleep quality. You feel a little depressed, and you can't go on like this.

Find something that interests you to distract yourself. Mood swings are not a mental illness. If you want to get back to your normal life:

The first is to talk to people around you who can talk to you about your current situation.

The second is to invest in learning Japanese, because it is not possible to learn Japanese when you go to school there (I really can't say it in body language and pictures);

Third, search for Chinese friends around you and make friends;

Fourth, don't hide something and hide it, and vent what you should say if you are dissatisfied.

No one can say anything to look for me. (*Hee-hee.......)

Similar to depression ... In Japan, there is no way to do it. Comfort and self-encouragement.

Then remember that you only live once! Be sure to live well. Even if you hang up, you have to go back to your motherland first, right?

As for Japanese. Fifteen tones, you still know??? It's easy to learn.

It's normal to feel lonely. To find a belief, a dream, and a meaning in life.

It's only 16 years old, don't think too much about it. Just do your best.

Hello child, give you a warm hug first.

The pressure of studying in the third year of junior high school is very high, and there is no one to understand and support you, and you can understand your feelings. If there is nowhere to vent the painful emotions, it is easy to get angry, have a big temper, and want to cry.

You say that you are polite to strangers, teachers and classmates, but to your parents, you will speak ill of you. Yes, many of us are like this, showing the best side of ourselves to others, and leaving the worst side of ourselves to the people closest to us.

Because we have great expectations for the people closest to us, we expect them to understand us, take the initiative to care about us, and tolerate all our problems. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment, and when our expectations are disappointed, we will be very uncomfortable, and it is easy to be irritable and speak ill of them.

What we're changing is the way we communicate with our parents. In fact, you both love each other, but you have problems with the way you express it.

The family thinks that criticizing you and urging you to make progress is to love you, but they don't know that this has actually caused you a lot of harm to prepare. You give your worst temper to your family, and you think that the family can understand your needs and feelings from the town, but in fact it leads to more and more conflicts.

Find an occasion where everyone is in a good mood, say your feelings, your thoughts, and your expectations, but don't blame your parents, talk to them calmly and calmly, and tell them that you are under pressure to study, and you expect them to understand you more and tolerate you. Perhaps your parents will be able to recognize your needs, affirm you, and encourage you.

If you feel too uncomfortable and it is difficult for you to adjust, you can also discuss with your parents and take you to see a psychologist, on the one hand, the doctor can help you, and on the other hand, it can also make your parents realize that your psychology is really uncomfortable, not just grumpy.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject!

As a father and a closed mother, we must nurture him and educate him so that he can cope with various things in life in the future.

Your child is 15 years old, the boy is in his second year of junior high school, he will not control his emotions, he will get angry at the slightest disappointment, lose his temper, he will not be able to calm down in his studies, and he will lose his temper when he encounters a problem, so that you don't know what to do.

15 years old, in the middle of puberty. Before puberty, the family of origin is crucial for the child. In the family, children learn how to control themselves, how to learn, how to compete and cooperate, and learn more from the family.

In your statement, you said that you have not beaten and scolded him since the second year of junior high school, so can you understand that the way he was educated before this was in the form of beating and scolding? If education is in the form of beating and scolding, what kind of parents do you have in the child's heart, and is some of his performance also learned from the previous education methods of his parents?

There is indeed a certain degree of difficulty in the course of the third year of junior high school, so when you don't know it, it will indeed make people feel irritable and feel incompetent. Therefore, we must also accept him for the state he shows, when he is in a good mood, maybe we can go to him and make some sense, parents are the relatives of their children, we must find more of his advantages and strengths, encourage him, and be patient.

Therefore, as a parent, you also have an unshirkable responsibility for your child. For him now, perhaps we should respect him more, and as parents, we must also have patience to accompany him and help him through this rebellious period.

At the same time, parents can consider the problem from his point of view, do not affect him, let him tremble when he is in a bad mood, let himself digest it first, when the mood is stable, we as parents to communicate with him, but more to understand him, not to blame.

I hope the above can bring some help to the subject. Best wishes!

Hello. The child is in the third year of junior high school, and the high school entrance examination is imminent, but you are in a hurry, you can see that you as a parent are worried about the child's psychological state on the one hand, and on the other hand, you are also a little helpless and angry that your past way no longer works. Hand sanitizer.

While you are worried and anxious, you can try to calm down first and understand the current state of your child. Each of us has different stages of growth, the child's life process is a process of continuous self-shaping, may be when the child is young, but in fact, from the age of three, the child has a stronger and stronger sense of self-determination, to the junior high school of adolescence self-exploration is more intense.

You mentioned that you haven't beaten and scolded him since the second year of junior high school, does that mean that before the second year of junior high school, you used to beat and scold your children to educate them? Maybe in the past, children were still more attached to their parents from the perspective of body and consciousness, and you think that scolding can play a certain role, but in fact, scolding may have planted some seeds of disgust in the child's heart: I am wrong, I am not loved, and my thoughts are suppressed.

If so, even if he has stopped beating and scolding now, there will still be a lot of hurt parts in his heart, and his current irritability is also an expression of some dissatisfaction accumulated in his heart.